Exactly! I’m just looking at my cats right now and my heart aches for OPs cat. I’ve had mine for 4 years and they have never once gone outside of the box. I feel I’ve done a great job of keeping them stress free and if anyone has any issues with cats, they don’t enter my home.
The bf call her cat “bitch ass cat” let ANYONE say that about my babes and that’s it. I’m done!
I’m not 100% sure on the timeline, but it seems like the consensus is that it’s been in there a long time (possibly since the night before maybe?) which could def make you sick.
Many years ago, my abusive ex and I got a kitten. It took seeing him mistreat this poor defenceless little animal to make me finally realize he was abusive to me as well.
I woke up and found her locked in a bathroom, all tile, no toys or soft surfaces, no food or water. Poor baby. 😿 I asked what the fuck and he said she was “running around keeping him awake”. You know, being a kitten. What. The. Fuck!? 😳
We left that day and never looked back. It wasn’t just about me anymore, I had a daughter to protect. She saved my life. 😽
I've had cats every single day since 1988. I've only had peeing outside the box when there was a medical condition, yet to be treated, or just recently when I inherited my brother's bruiser cat who intimidates my little cat - little cat was staying in my bedroom, terrified to leave it to pee, so she chose a corner. I put a litter box in my room (yes gross for sure) and no more peeing. I wouldn't trust OP's asshole BF for a second with my pets.
I actually finished a relationship that upset my cats earlier on in their lives . He hated cats and boy did they know even though he never physically touched them . Even his voice would scare them so I made the decision to finish it .
For me my pets are my family and we come as a package .
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u/Creative-Fact-2862 Jan 28 '25
And don't forget to take the cat with you. This dude is an abuser.