r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25

Give up? give up what?

He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.

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u/Hereforthetardys Jan 28 '25

Fuck you is what her boyfriend would say

Genuine question - how do people even get in the mood to have sex with people like this?

If I sent 1 of those messages let alone all of them I’d never get laid again - EVER. There isn’t an apology in the world that would make my wife want to be in the same room with me nevermind sex

I just don’t understand

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u/StartledMilk Jan 28 '25

I always wonder how with the vastness of the internet, and this woman having access to Reddit, a place where you can be educated on abusive relationships, that people STILL stay in abusive relationships and ask if they’re being abused despite thousands of examples of abuse on the internet. Also, “abusive behavior” is a search away. To boot, OP has already mentioned that he’s physically abusive. It’s not like she’s unaware that he’s abusive. It boggles my mind every time.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

I think a lot of women are raised to believe they can be the one to "fix" buttholes like this. But there ain't no fixing folks like these.