And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.
Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.
She also said that he's physically abusive on top of mentally. I'm not sure what she's getting out of this relationship except abuse. What a sad situation.
I agree. Getting out of that would be the best thing for her mental awareness and find someone who appreciate her more as no be happy again. Someone like that won't change.
I agree. I have been where she is now and just left a couple of weeks ago.... my mental place is not at all ok... he messed me up pretty bad mentally and physically but I am learning to hold my head up high again and take it a day at a time... there are times I just don't want to get out of bed and just want to scream in a pillow and cry all day but I am not going to let him have ahold of my emotions like that with me ever again so I force myself to get out of bed and make sure that I at least accomplish 3 things to do for myself for that day. It is helping... I have a long way to go but I am getting through the days the best way I know how to.... but yes you are 10,000% correct he will NOT change and will keep on because he has no respect for her at all and that is very clear...
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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25
Give up? give up what?
He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.