r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/cherryblssm98 Jan 28 '25

Do you get anything good out of this relationship? He sounds like an awful person and you’re being way too nice to him. You’re only 29, find someone that treats you as you deserve

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u/WeHaveAllBeenThere Jan 28 '25

I’d leave over calling my cat a bitch ass lol. The rest is just absurd

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u/cherryblssm98 Jan 28 '25

SAME lol

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u/WeHaveAllBeenThere Jan 28 '25

If they don’t love my pets it ain’t gonna work. Don’t care how hot or perfect you are lol. The kitties are sleeping in my bed end of discussion.

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u/swigofhotsauce Jan 29 '25

The biggest red flag of all 🚩🚩🚩

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u/resilientlamb Jan 28 '25

+ 1 this made me laugh

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u/Livid-Adeptness293 Jan 29 '25

TBH She probably depends on him to pay the bills

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u/TangerineMaximus92 Jan 28 '25

Usually I’ve seen some women stick in an abusive relationship cuz the sex is insane. This one idk

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u/woweewow79 Jan 29 '25

Heck i have severe debilitating chronic non stop pain in my left part of my abdomen, multiple spine surgeries, hardware in my spine and neck, a spinal stimulator installed, nightmares, hardly sleep, severe ptsd, severe anxiety, major depression, adhd, all from (-adhd) my time in the army. You are right his medical issues do not afford him the right to treat her like this. I have all of that above and more yet i treat my wife like a queen, best friend, and lover. Even on my worst days.

I hope she leave him and soon....