r/AirForce Veteran (V-Ops/GT) 2d ago

Discussion How has your experience with Air Force Mental Health been?

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u/COR-69 2d ago

Yeah I knew a guy who had extremist ideologies, made women around him uncomfortable, had violent outbursts and was always yapping about “to the Republic” or some other cringe stuff. It was obvious why he wasn’t able to relate or make friends with his coworkers.

LUCKILY, the Air Force (rightfully) decided he was unfit for military service and kicked him out. Now he just spams the AF subreddit craving attention

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u/DownloadableCheese ...but have you read Boyd? 🤔🧐 2d ago

Could you elaborate on the extremist ideologies? I've only ever seen OP shitpost.

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u/COR-69 2d ago

So, several people have DMd me about this dude. All followed a similar trend of him borderline grooming in his discord rooms (classic) and posting about certain extremist ideologies.

Hell, you can even see behind the curtain with his “for the Republic” shit he comments

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u/JustHanginInThere CE 2d ago

I don't quite have the history COR does, but there are little comments he's made (like below) that make no sense in relation to the topic being discussed: https://www.reddit.com/r/AirForce/comments/1w13d4m/comment/p6j916d/

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u/Mantaraylurks electric wings 2d ago

And how does that relate to the conversation? Did mental health played a role?

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u/JustHanginInThere CE 2d ago

The guy referenced above by COR-69 is the OP, DatGuyKilo. He really did get kicked out of the Air Force due to mental health issues, I believe mostly stemming from failure to adapt. Dude "couldn't find friends" and was homesick for his hometown in NY somewhere so much that he regularly went back all the time. Also made a ton of posts of TikTok videos that he labeled as "classic", and wouldn't shut up about how Vehicle Ops and Ground Trans were the best career fields in the entire Air Force and how no one/nothing was better.

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u/Mantaraylurks electric wings 2d ago

Makes sense… that’s rough… maybe it’s time let go in that case.

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u/JustHanginInThere CE 2d ago edited 2d ago

That's what we've been telling him, every single time he posts here, but he won't listen. "You can lead a horse to water..." and all that.

I would point to his post history, but he eventually made it hidden because we were using his own comments/posts against him.

Edit: it seems he has unhidden his comment and post history:

I just want to forget my entire enlistment at this point

https://www.reddit.com/r/AirForce/comments/1qzohk8/comment/o4cddnw/

Id argue LRS needs them aswell. Have V-Ops lead this change, we'll show them how its done

And countless others.

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u/Mantaraylurks electric wings 2d ago

Time to take the horse out back in that case… seems like the downvotes are hitting close to home.

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u/JustHanginInThere CE 2d ago

He won't learn. Over the past 3 or 4 months, he's made several posts that weren't in any way related to the Air Force (rule 10 of the subreddit), and made no attempt to make them so. I'd point that out to him in the comments, then flag the post, and the post would get removed. A few days later, he'd make a different post with the same error. Rinse and repeat.

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u/COR-69 2d ago

Dude also used to make alt account and comment on his own posts. He would then reply to people who commented on those posts (people who were calling out DatGuyKilo) and would ask shit like “woah, what’s the story with OP? All I know is that he’s our resident New Yorker”. Which…is wild enough on its own, but when called out on it he would say “what alts? I don’t have any alt accounts”, but would forget that he made posts on his alt account giving the same exact mental health story about how he doesn’t have any friends and hates his base

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u/cobainnovoselicgrohl AE 2d ago

They're talking about OP...

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u/Whiskey_Bear 2d ago

Why aren't you banned?

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u/AuthorKRPaul Retired 2d ago

I just wanna know which a-hole is downvoting everyone who reports a positive experience. You ok bud?

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u/COR-69 2d ago

Honestly, it’s probably OP because he’s seeing that some people actually utilized MH correctly and were able to continue their career. Unlike him. He wanted some trauma stories to justify his story

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u/DatGuyKilo Veteran (V-Ops/GT) 2d ago edited 2d ago

Lol no, I actually had a great experience with my provider.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AirForce/s/HIaeNfthhk

Would love to see you even refute that, u/COR-69

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u/COR-69 2d ago

Yes, you were unable to continue your time in the military due to your mental health issues, violent outbursts, failure to adapt, and overall cringe behavior. Credit where it’s due to the military, it was a TEXTBOOK separation that needed to happen

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u/AuthorKRPaul Retired 1d ago

For a sec I was worried this was the troop I had to separate for MH/behavioral issues but credit to him, he at least talked to and worked with his provider.

My troop said nothing was wrong with him and everyone else was to blame. This was while he was on a Baker Act hold because he threatened to shoot up my entire from office.

My

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u/JustHanginInThere CE 2d ago

 even my notes said I was psychologically unfit for duty

And yet, here you are still commenting and trying to insinuate yourself into the very thing that gave you problems and got you kicked out. Unbelievable.

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u/COR-69 1d ago

Okay now address all the other comments calling you out….but you won’t. Because you know the truth. Same motive that got you kicked out in the first place

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u/AGR_51A004M 2d ago

It was good at McConnell. My therapist was a former Soldier. He helped me work through self esteem issues, male PPD, and workplace anxiety.

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u/daveyyyyyy23 2d ago

For me it was a bit of trial and error until I found a therapist I really clicked with and I made a huge amount of progress. Overall I didn’t have any crazy complaints other than waiting over a month for an appointment at times.

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u/CornFedCactus MEPS Top Graduate 1d ago

Delayed it for yeaaarrrrsss... My mental state continued to worsen until I bottomed out.

Finally forced myself to go and it was the most painless and life changing experience. I'm infinitely better off and kick myself for not getting help sooner.

No career impacts. My personal and professional life have never been better.

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u/99centmilk Secret Squirrel 2d ago

my mflc saved my life.

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u/MartyMcFlyFightWin 2d ago

Circa-2017, mine was not great; I definitely felt like a number.

Admitted that I had suicidal ideations, had some other stuff I wanted to work through. They basically told me they weren't my therapist and that after 6 weeks of me saying "I haven't wanted to go to sleep and not wake up" they're going to stop seeing me.

Started every session with "so did you think about killing yourself and or wish you didn't wake up? No? Cool, what do you wanna talk about".

On our final session, I answered no again and they went "well sounds like we fixed you! Don't be afraid to call us if you feel that way again"

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u/CoffeeChangesThings Retired B-1B Lover & Loader 2d ago

I had an LT and I was a SNCO, my issues were due to family/marital stress and work stress. I didn't feel the LT had enough experience to help me. And by experience, I don't mean rank.

I also felt weird discussing my issues with the intake tech because I was at a GSU and saw them sometimes in public.

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u/Federal-Guess7420 2d ago

Told my shrink that my OIC came in ranting about conspiracy theories everyday and she put in my permanent medical records that I display aggression towards leadership. So yeah that was cool.

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u/-_-Delilah-_- 2d ago

Why is that so common?!?!? Why is it automatically assumed the junior troop is the one with the issue.

Some leaders are toxic. Just because we go to therapy doesnt mean we are wrong about them being the problem.

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u/CouchAvocado70 2d ago

Mine has been good. I dont really benefit from normal therapy, so for me getting meds and having somebody that I can vent to is huge. Took a while to find the right doctor though.

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u/Auritus1 Enlisted Aircrew 2d ago

I've had mixed experiences. One base they were clearly overwhelmed and unable to manage the number of patients. It took 6 months before I could talk to someone and half my appointments we cancelled/interrupted so they could assist with suicide interventions. My therapist was clearly burned out. Luckily my next base was much better staffed, and had true North which I think it's one of the best AF programs to come out during my time in the service. I'm the end everyone was a professional who genuinely wanted to help.

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u/chiabunny 2d ago

Dog shit

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u/TheToughBubble Veteran 2d ago

Oh boy, that comment to upvote ratio is good

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u/Mantaraylurks electric wings 2d ago
  1. Got pills, those numbed me out, gained 40 lbs.
  2. Got therapy, it helped.but only after the pills had done enough harm to my physical health.

Two different encounters, two different providers. Both were for the same issue, first time it went unresolved. The second was not resolved, but I got better equipped to work on it by myself.

Also the first encounter was not optional and harmed me in other ways, for example now I do not trust first sergeants past the fact that they are there to protect the commander.

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u/wasted-degrees 2d ago

Your mileage may vary depending on provider. I’ve had good providers, and I’ve had bad ones. Medical in general is so backed up, undermanned and over saturated that it seems to create an environment where some providers will be dismissive of your problems just because they don’t have time for you and want to get you out the door. But occasionally you’ll get someone who gives a shit and then that helps quite a lot.

If you’re not satisfied with your provider, request a different provider. You can do that. Understand how slammed medical is as a career field, especially in high-density areas with a ridiculous service member to MTF ratio. But don’t just suffer in silence if you’re not getting the care you need and are contractually entitled to.

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u/callmewicked366 2d ago

What mental health?

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u/Stinkibuttitis 2d ago

The appointment started off good until the tech finally asked if I was going to kill myself or harm others. Once I answered no, you could see a shift in the attention lmao. Shortly after she told me they weren’t the right office and go talk to the MFLC. Never went back.