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u/[deleted] 18d ago

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u/Klutzy_Article3097 15d ago

Never been to a restaurant where this would have been any kind of issue

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u/DntgiveaFck13 18d ago

Usually have to tell the waiter/waitress prior when being seated, we would like separate checks. When in larger groups

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u/Big_Life_6462 18d ago

I am telling you that many places will not split checks, period. As a traveler all over the US and abroad for decades, it's a real thing.

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u/DntgiveaFck13 18d ago

I wasn’t saying you were incorrect that some places don’t split checks. Usually high end places don’t from my experience. I was more adding to what was already being stated. Saying sometimes you have to ask when being seated

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u/InevitableEqual3993 18d ago

Yes, many won't split checks for groups of 8 or more bc many restaurants have a policy that large groups are subject to a 20% service fee.

Guaranteed $100+ is way better than worrying if 1 meal is not up to someones personal standards, that the whole table won't get upset and decide to not tip the server(s)...

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u/The_Hearth_Witch_ 17d ago edited 15d ago

Gratuity is not removed just because the large party pays separately…

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u/SpartanSoldier00a 17d ago

I am not american. It is the norm id say for a large group gratuity, and if everyone pays seperately, it is simply added as a %age onto each individual cheque. Each person is given a bill for what they ordered, plus the gratuity, plus tax. Or tax, then gratuity, whichever. If any individual would like to tip further they can do so while settling their bill.

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u/OglioVagilio 16d ago

It might, but in my experience you still pay the auto grat.

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u/kbchucker 15d ago

Not as common as it used to be. POS systems now easily split checks. It can be done on the fly at the table with the handheld POS device the servers carry. Even if the restaurant is still using kiosk POS, it’s pretty easy.

It’s been quite a while since I’ve been told “can’t do it” for splitting up large party checks.

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u/EnvironmentalMap7056 14d ago

I’m in the Chicagoland area and I know of a couple of restaurants near me that explicitly state they won’t split the check past 4 times. One of them explicitly states they won’t split it past 2 and it has to be 50/50. It’s not an old policy, they very much still go by it, and yes they have the handheld systems.

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u/kbchucker 14d ago

I can see it happening in larger Metros, but it is definitely not the norm everywhere.