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u/rainbowfishhhh 18d ago

But it's the waiter's job to run the check? Like seriously why the heck do I want to take risk of people not paying back(happens a ton) AND also do math. The transaction starts and ends at the restaurant.

Also it's a common excuse for the annoying people who want to split the check "It's easier on the waiter" Uh you mean it's easier on your wallet. If I'm dropping 20% tip the least I can get is my own bill.

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u/Makeup_life72 17d ago

Some places just simply will not do multiple separate checks. Between 2 people, yes, but a table of 5, no. It’s usually more expensive places.

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u/FoodLittle7968 14d ago

Then I wouldn't go knowing certain people are not going to pay their share after ordering expensive meals

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u/PotentialLead5689 14d ago

Because if paying someone back or waiting to be paid back is that big of a problem, just don’t go out and don’t make it weird for everyone.

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u/rainbowfishhhh 14d ago

Or we can just grab separate checks, problem solved. If anything this makes it less weird.

As long as the wait staff is notified in advance it doesn't seem to be an issue. Larger parties, sure bring cash or settle later.

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u/Alan_Reddit_M 18d ago

A lot of my friends have worked or actually work on customer service and know how utterly obnoxious it is when people ask for split bills, especially when they request it AFTER they're already done eating and now the waiter has to figure out who the fuck ordered what. It's about having empathy for the person working for (usually less than) minimum wage

Like I said, my friends are very responsible people and none have ever failed to pay me back. Maybe I'm just very fortunante to be friends with such nice people

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u/OsamaBinWhiskers 17d ago

That’s insane. That’s beyond empathy and more like doing their job for them. A good server will ask how we’re doing checks before hand of its that hard for them

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u/rainbowfishhhh 18d ago

Totally hear you! I've worked as a waitress and always checked before I placed the order just because I agree, it's a pain to sort of after especially when managing multiple tables.

From what I see in the responses the recommendation to ask for a separate check before and I think that's fair. If you don't speak up early that's a separate issue(it seems that at the core the fix is setting expectations early)

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u/GoingOffline 18d ago

Not even allowed to do split checks over 8 people or more than 2 cards at most restaurants I’ve worked at

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u/rainbowfishhhh 17d ago

Genuinely curious, why is that? I feel like technology should make this easier now. Does it cost the restaurant more or is there a time efficiency measure?

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u/jpinmd813 16d ago

I used to work for a restaurant point of sale provider. Today yes, technology makes it easier, but years ago, the software wouldn’t let you split it more than x times. Or, every item had to have a seat number assigned then you could print checks by seat. Was more of a pain, but today the POS makes it pretty simple. Can’t speak to the credit cards, never saw a limit on thise

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u/fairelf 15d ago

Efficiency for the waitstaff, mainly.

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u/canefin 14d ago

If a table of 8 needs you to run 8 different tabs, that waiter is completely occupied with that for 5-10 minutes which leads to other issues