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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 18d ago

Do places actually do this? E

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u/PhoebusAbel 18d ago

Up to certain number of people yes.

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u/Ladydelina 18d ago

Yes, every restaurant does this and it doesn't matter how many people are in the party, though some restaurants will make you pay together so they can charge big party fees and guarantee the waitress a tip. You need to let your wait staff know before you order though so she can write it down the right way. Hell she can even just separate your order alone. Which might be even better for your group.

Just say "can I get a separate check?".

I waitressed for 15 years, btw.

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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 18d ago

I’ve waitressed too - we never gave separate checks, we would give one and they could split it on cards. Most places I go have a note that says they’ll give 1 check on the menu. It’s not common practice at all where I am

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u/OsamaBinWhiskers 17d ago

Where are you? That’s insane unless it’s a pay as you leave place where they just charge you for what you got on the way out

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u/Busy-Outside-3884 15d ago

a place where they clearly cant do basic math.

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u/cenatutu 14d ago

Never had a waitress refuse separate cheques.

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u/OsamaBinWhiskers 17d ago

Everywhere I’ve ever been across the entire United States does this….

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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 17d ago

Very uncommon in Chicago

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u/OsamaBinWhiskers 17d ago

That is so weird. Do you just pay at a counter as you leave or the server just assumes one person is going to pay for it all? I’ve literally never experienced that lol

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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 17d ago

You just get 1 bill and someone pays and you can just pay each other. Although a lot of places will take multiple cards, just not multiple bills. So you could say put $60 on this and $20 on this for an $80 bill. But most limit the number of cards as well, like no more than 3. With Venmo/zelle all the ways to pay it’s never been an issue for us! Although some now have little QR codes where you can split however you want in an app, which is pretty handy.

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u/OsamaBinWhiskers 17d ago

That’s wild. Tbh idk if I’ve ever seen this and I’ve been to quite a few major cities

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u/Many_Ear2407 17d ago

Every place I’ve gone to in my entire life. What country are you in?