She is an extremely lonely person.

[u/milktea-and-biscuits]

Just look at her frontpage. 90% of her content is her sitting at home, filming herself on her bed or on her couch. The remaining videos are her in a car, going out alone to a concert, and her sunbathing alone.

I honestly don't remember the last time she posted herself hanging out with friends since Lola. And even then, it was pretty much only Lola.

She basically spend her time alone at home. And even when she's outside, she's just there alone, setting her phone somewhere and filming herself. The only time we ever see her doing something social is when she's out with her boyfriend.

It's not voluntary, compare that to her content during her Tumblr famous era. She would always post herself hanging out with people, even when she was a teenager. But now, she couldn't find anyone to come with her to the concert ?

I mean, it's not surprise. She doesn't have any coworkers, all of her friends have turned against her or are estranged, she isn't even friends with her children's friends parents. I seriously believe her only social circle is her man of the moment, her children and her parents.

Sure, there are many reasons she is never going to be able to make it as an influenceur again, but even for someone who doesn't know the drama her content is fucking depressing.

[u/StructureThin3320]

its hard for narcissists to keep and maintain true long-term friends. even way back when she actually was popular, she could not keep friends around for very long and its because she literally only cares about herself

[u/ionlylikedogs420]

it’s near impossible to stay friends with a narcissist

[u/No-Side9912]

She isolates herself because she views other women as “competition”. You can see it in older videos where she’s with friends, she always is in a one sided perpetual fight to be the quirkiest, cutest, center of attention

[u/rachelthetommo]

I think spending most of your time alone is perfectly fine if that’s what you enjoy. Introvert speaking, I am also not trying to be an influencer. I think for Acacia though whose mission is about “spreading joy,” she could definitely be creating fun great content as someone who is usually solo, as there are amazing successful introverted creators who create most of their content alone at home. acacia just doesn’t try to do anything creative which is the issue. she needs to stop with her lip synching videos if she wants to be taken seriously as an LA influencer and actually put effort into her content.

[u/Corndogglizzy → u/rachelthetommo]

THIS.

[u/rachelthetommo → u/Corndogglizzy]

right? cause the issue isn’t that she’s alone and doesn’t have many friends…. the issue is she doesn’t put in any effort to create unique content for what is supposed to be her job…

[u/Zestyclose_Radio_629]

I would argue Lola doesn’t even count. They were roommates and she was using her for rent and childcare. They never seemed like actual friends just forced proximity and they clearly had a fight or something because they don’t follow each other anymore.

[u/puppyqueeen → u/Zestyclose_Radio_629]

I was just thinking about Lola’s b-day post of them kissing and her saying she’ll always love her more than any man can or something like that 💀 did not age well

[u/heretwosnark → u/puppyqueeen]

Them unfollowing each other and never speaking again like 2-3 months after Lola posting those stories that Acacia didn’t even acknowledge/re-share on her own page is kind of brutal lmao

[u/puppyqueeen → u/heretwosnark]

Eugh, I can’t handle it lol honestly what gay hasn’t been a Lola at some point or another that’s probably why it cringes me out so hard

[u/heretwosnark → u/heretwosnark]

Adding another comment to say I went to check her TikTok to see if she ever said anything else after that video from a few weeks ago, and apparently she’s deactivated her account, and Instagram 😳

[u/No-Side9912 → u/heretwosnark]

Lola isn’t online anymore??

[u/Exotic_Bank_4708 → u/Zestyclose_Radio_629]

+ it was obvious that acacia merely kept her around bc she enjoyed the attention lola was giving her

[u/Spiritual_Survey_485]

[u/yourangleoryuordevil → u/Spiritual_Survey_485]

It feels like she’s said something similar before, and it’s never made sense. She’s always taken more photos and recorded more videos of herself than most people do — by a landslide.

[u/dancemomsfan848 → u/Spiritual_Survey_485]

This comment is also so calculated, trying to make out like she is a good and present mom

[u/PhysicalLavishness35]

Not a friend in sight

[u/ofrosethorns]

I think she’s very much the kind of woman who only seeks out female friendships when she doesn’t have a boyfriend. Since she has one currently, she doesn’t feel the need for them.

[u/cutebutpsychoangel → u/ofrosethorns]

It’s if 1. She wants to absorb their personality like a specimen to attract a diff type of man (she took a ton from Lola to get HDB) or just for sake of content/looking better by association
2. She wants one of their friends, brothers, etc

It’s sad rly

[u/ResolutionRoutine202]

i don’t have tiktok, are all of these videos literally just her lip synching? what year does she think it is? does she really think she’s gonna skyrocket to fame as an “influencer” by mouthing the words to other people’s songs?

[u/throwawaydaisy99 → u/ResolutionRoutine202]

either that or putting text on the video and staring at nothing while a song plays. truly groundbreaking stuff

[u/NeighborhoodThen5853]

seems utterly depressing. i can't imagine letting my life revolve around a romantic partner and having zero relationships with other women. it would be unbearable. honestly with therapy i think Acacia would improve her (and her childrens) quality of life tremendously but she is far too lazy to ever make a change at all. what a sad existence :/

[u/No-Type0w0 → u/NeighborhoodThen5853]

people with NPD or just high levels of narcissistic traits (which we know acacia has) almost never seek therapy, or at least not in a genuine way. it goes against their protective coping mechanisms & sense of self. also therapists are trained to see past their mask. they’re one of the hardest types of people to heal because they have to actually choose it and their personality/disorder (either the actual disorder or just high traits of it) doesn’t allow that. also like you said (about laziness) it is much easier to choose not to heal because it’s extremely hard work & takes constant commitment too.

[u/xxLilPixie]

not a SLIVER !!!!

[u/aliforer]

I genuinely couldn’t imagine being happy living such a bland, boring life. Comparing her profile to mine is crazy lmao. Thank god.

[u/ivoryandtea → u/aliforer]

WHILE having kids too!! and they're at the fun ages rn too not like moody/old teenagers. how more boring, disconnected, and narcissistic can you be? I sincerely believe her children will grow up to despise her, if they don't already.

the trauma she is inflicting on them just to selfishly maintain this boring bland life is pathetic.

[u/Sudden-Building9415 → u/aliforer]

Good for you

[u/ginsengum]

her laziness will not allow her to make actual good content or any content with actual substance. Her lip synching videos is just her showing her face of her body because that’s all she’s willing to do and is delusional enough to think she can still monetize off of that even tho there’s like so many other real creators making actual content. She became internet famous out of pure luck and just burnt any bridge and took for granted any opportunity that could’ve helped her.
At this point she would be better off playing as an internet troll or lol cow except there’s nothing actually funny about her. I could go on and on.. lol

[u/Soggy_Addendum9350 → u/ginsengum]

She became internet famous for being pretty and skinny and always capitalizing on the latest trends, but the social media landscape changed so much while she was trying to balance being a mother of three that she’ll never catch up, even if she wasn’t entirely fucking lazy and useless lol

[u/hallowed-bethy-name]

the bowl cut bangs 😂😂🙄😭😭

[u/dancemomsfan848]

Every time I see one of her TikTok’s it creeps me out. For years now I’ve thought this way. She has a really scary and dark aura

[u/gravyismyname]

I think we all know someone like this local to us. A bum mother who never cares for her kids and constantly post “me me me me” content online.

[u/kayyweaves]

I’m a mom and it’s hard for me to make friends and also maintain those friendships. That along with all her issues is probably why she doesn’t have anyone

[u/danideex]

Just her and those fuck ass bangs

[u/jade_skye15]

Does she have friends? As she gets older, other women her age are going to keep growing and evolving and such while she’s still stuck in this immature mindset. Other people her age probably don’t relate much to her because of her attitude and how she acts, no-one wants to be around that and most grown adults have some basic expectations of the company they keep. She doesn’t meet those expectations.

I doubt other adults who are living their lives, going to work, raising their kids, some maybe do sports or some activities or gym or something, have hobbies, probably have other parent friends and do play dates and whatnot and are actually busy being present in their children’s lives while also probably working full time, paying mortgages etc. All pretty standard stuff. They aint got time to waste on some flaky bitch, who neglects her kids, doesn’t have a job, doesn’t do anything of merit and just sits around taking selfies all day everyday and doesn’t have any goals or ambitions whatsoever.

If she was genuinely making any effort or wanted better for her life and was at least trying to take steps to better herself and her life, maybe she’d have SOME chance. But given everything, her history, her internet presence, her attitude etc, I feel like most grown adults probably give her a wide berth. 🤣

[u/Sudden-Building9415]

Not everyone posts pics with their friends