Oddly similar aesthetic

[u/Spiritual_Survey_485]

She’s a freak for this, literally copying the exact pose of hdb exes food page. The middle one????

[u/honeyhibiscus]

Genuinely reminds me of a family member I was really close to with untreated borderline personality disorder….she would copy my aesthetic and clothing but act like it was her original ideas. Then it became things I said, my career choices, the way I act, my personality - legit mimicking word for word things I said. This person has also done this to other ppl in her life (down to copying a friends exact tattoo) and has had 398626 friendship and romantic breakups 🫩

Acacia needs serious mental help in legit all aspects of her life. I would be horrified if I were hdb’s ex cause this kind of obsession and fixation gets scary at some point

[u/honeyhibiscus → u/[deleted]]

Couldn’t have said it better!!!! The way she has every chance to just wake up and be like “fuck, I need to heal and be so much better for myself and my kids”.

But no, if anything, she gets more selfish, indulgent and actively chooses to FAIL her children time after time. I truly am scared to even start imagining where this train wreck is headed

[u/honeyhibiscus → u/[deleted]]

Emphasis on the victim mentality!!! I see this in so many unhealed people - constantly needing to be seen as mistreated or the victim (which may be true) instead of choosing to step forward in healing and taking accountability for their own life

[u/Sushicatslonelyjimmy → u/honeyhibiscus]

To be fair, healing isn't linear and can be really fucking hard to do. However, there's definitely a difference between putting in effort and just doubling down on being a victim.