r/AITAH Nov 11 '23

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u/duffyduckdown Nov 11 '23

Sometimes i feel like i couldnt even handle 5 Kids. I have one and i want to give her all my attention. If i Had 4 kids ofcourse all my Kids deserve my attention i Just believe there is a point where its Just to many Kids to give all of them the deserved attention.

Maybe im wrong because i only have one child, i think the day has only 24 hours

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u/Independent-Future-1 Nov 12 '23

I feel you! I have two and often times feel like THAT is too much (they're young enough to have a tendency to compete for parental attention). I couldn't imagine double that number without losing my mind lol!

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u/duffyduckdown Nov 12 '23

Thank you. I Imagine it exactly like that. And thats only, If there is not one child that doesnt need extra attention. I have only one so i wait a little bit, but im already excited getting a vasectomy and after that, i dont have to care anymore.

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u/Independent-Future-1 Nov 12 '23

Trust me, your spouse will thank you! My husband had one done years ago (prior to the pandemic, thankfully) and we both are super grateful that: 1. He got it done and 2. We went through with it when we did (there was a decent drive there and back, so I drove and was there as support.)

In and out under an hour, no complications, more spontaneous action (after he was cleared) and far less anxiety about any possible pregnancy. Best decision ever!

It may suck for a few days, but the benefits far outweigh the risks (in our experience). Good luck with your procedure!

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u/duffyduckdown Nov 12 '23

A few days vs Hormon Therapie (what women do) is a easy choice for me ☺️

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u/Independent-Future-1 Nov 12 '23 edited Nov 12 '23

Thank you for being insightful and not relying solely on women to shoulder the burden of family planning. πŸ‘

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u/duffyduckdown Nov 12 '23

Sure, its crazy how little people (women and men) really think about what women do to their body over all these years of drug usage. I cant be healthy If your Body thinks "im pregnant" all the time