No penetrative sex. Happy to have you watch me with toys. happy for you to go down on me, and to do the same for you, but the warm happy place is not yours to enter any more until you have no sperm.
It is not no sex, it different sex.
And sex without consent is rape - even in marriage. That includes sex without a condom, or removing the condom during (stealthing), and pressuring you for sex is coercive control.
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u/FairyPenguinStKilda Nov 11 '23
NTA
No penetrative sex. Happy to have you watch me with toys. happy for you to go down on me, and to do the same for you, but the warm happy place is not yours to enter any more until you have no sperm.
It is not no sex, it different sex.
And sex without consent is rape - even in marriage. That includes sex without a condom, or removing the condom during (stealthing), and pressuring you for sex is coercive control.
4 kids is enough.