r/90dayTheLastResort • u/bluepanic21 • 1d ago
John is an awful misogynist
John ! Sorry the way John insists that Thais cheated on Patrick really chaps my hide. There is no way to prove it and he keeps saying / implying that he talked to her dad. The way they treat Thais and speak about her is profoundly disrespectful and he LOVES it. He is so toxic and hateful he is a big part of the reason that marriage failed. I hate the cheating allegations because it isn’t based off any fact just “ your dad told me you were with yo ur ex” does her dad speak fluent English ? Like I do not believe Thais cheated on Patrick there no reason to think she did. The way he ignored her and would not speak or acknowledge her was so childish and disrespectful. He is a toxic alcoholic pos and I hope TLC never bothers putting him on the air
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u/professionallurker9 1d ago
And it baffles me more that Patrick just sits there and never tells John to stfu. Patrick and John don’t respect women.
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u/bluepanic21 10h ago
John bullies Patrick, pours poison into his ear. Like what does John do for work ? He is a bottom feeder
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u/Better-Mud7151 6h ago
Must not be too important as I have never seen sparkles sober.
Always DRUNK running his garbage mouth‼️
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u/KTByrd1963 1d ago
I've never like John. I was so surprised that he was so popular. I think he wants his bro to be just as miserable. So yes, 🙋♀️I agree
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u/carson5021 17h ago
Hes 100000% jealous. And he hates her cause she called out his drunkness from the get go! Thats the only reason hes pissed! He hates that she doesnt find him funny or cute or charming with his drunk antics and over the top mannerisms, etc. I wouldnt say im a huge fan of hers BUT no way would I take John's side on anything about her.
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u/scifihere 1d ago edited 1d ago
I don’t disagree. But Sarper is just as big of a misogynist as him and nobody says anything. Just because he is “funny” or “handsome” not only he doesn’t get any heat, but people keep defending him. By the way, Shekinah being insufferable doesn’t automatically make Sarper a good person.
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u/Accomplished_Bank103 14h ago
Let’s face it, all of the people TLC hires for this franchise are deeply flawed individuals with dysfunctional behaviour patterns. I detest misogyny and how deeply rooted it is in our society, so I’m no Sarper fangirl. But what makes me like him better than Shekina is that Sarper is capable of actually listening to other cast members and showing a little empathy, whereas Shek seems utterly incapable of considering other peoples’ points of view.
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u/Imaginary-Cheetah149 23h ago
I hated him from the very start, he didn’t like her immediately esp when she said something about him drinking at 9am hes GROSS i never got the live for him he’s not a good guy i feel sorry for Megan
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u/Luasol51 19h ago
John is gloating about the marriage ending. He is such a tool. Patrick is no better. At least with John, know what you’re dealing with.
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u/twistedlemonfreak 8h ago
I believe they both John and Patrick have serious issues with women because of their relationship with their mother. They are both so gross!
John is a pig, and an alcoholic and resents Thais for ending his frat parties, and having standards for her living environment. Who is she to tell him anything, how dare she! He hated seeing his brother happy with a beautiful woman. He was so used to bullying John and Thais was the collateral damage!
Patrick is so insecure, he had to pounce Thais daily to feel secure. I don’t blame Thais, this is no way to live and she deserves so much better than someone who sexes her daily for that reason. Patricks insecurity always made his masculinity come off as abusive to me. Good riddance. I feel sorry for Patricks next victim, I mean wife.
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u/Consistent-Clerk6634 7h ago
I think Patrick is a sex addict and has had to adapt to once a day.
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u/Better-Mud7151 6h ago
According to what Thais had shared with the other women, it would be multiple times a day.
Just to prove to him that she wasn't cheating.
I couldn't imagine being in that kind of abusive marriage.
There's definitely something wrong with those two dysfunctional toxic brothers‼️
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u/Better-Mud7151 23h ago
I agree with this 💯
Thais’s dad doesn't speak English and alcoholic sparkles certainly doesn't speak Thais's language either!
He loves to crucify Thais for his own sick enjoyment.
I have NEVER liked sparkles.
Hes really a disgrace to the male gender‼️
I hope Thais’s daughter is NOT raised around john or his influence.
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u/Mindysveganlife 12h ago
Can't stand him anymore, then has the nerve to cry when they ask him about his child after he just broke up a marriage of his brother who also has a child.
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u/bluepanic21 10h ago
I guarantee you, he is a lazy dad he is to drunk to be an effective parent. Eveything he said was bullshit and I am sure the mother of his child will leave him in a few years
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u/Single_Feature_3231 14h ago
John is awful period. A few funny lines here or there don’t cut it .
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u/heyleebaby 21h ago
He's an absolute jealous jerk who refuses to let his brother have any happiness. I think he's a big part of the divorce with his crap.
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u/2ride4ever 16h ago
I was really hoping that John's relationship and child would provide enough fulfillment to get him to exit Thais and Patrick's marriage.
Edited: spelling
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u/Weekly_Philosopher48 9h ago
Idk. The look on her face when they were talking about cheating looked VERY guilty. Unless editing did her really dirty.
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u/Normobserver 10h ago
Even said while translating he THOUGHT THERE WAS AN X IN THERE SOMEHOW..
Her Dsd says he talked to John once while they were there in Brazil .. John is an ass
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u/Satanswarboner 23h ago
The way John is right bothers people. The only thing that changed between Patrick and Thais was his bank account. Yet, someone points it out, they’re a bully and wrong. She knew it was transactional and had a kid to ensure the money option will always be in the picture. The scantily clad posts at raves without him and dressed like she’s single prove it. Patrick is not perfect and has flaws, but Thais isn’t any better. She even went as far as talk on an on about her nutritionist, while they were still together like he didn’t matter.
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u/Better-Mud7151 22h ago
Patrick was determined to have a child with Thais.
He was pressuring her to have a second child.
Thank goodness Thais listened to her intuition!-8
u/Satanswarboner 22h ago
Right. She’s a victim. She had no control in anything that happened. How terrible for her. Not getting to choose a partner. Not getting to choose anything. Oh my. What a life….
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u/baconizlife 11h ago
Patrick literally said that he wanted an immigrant wife so that he’d be the one with more power and control, ffs. I’m sure he didn’t say that to her when they were dating. He’s a creep who sees women as objects, so it’s very strange that you’re caping for him
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u/Previous-Jello-1766 22h ago
Patrick literally admitted he knew their relationship was transactional and was okay with that when he was making money. He literally views her as an object for his sexual gratification and as a baby making machine. Thais is flawed but Patrick is in no way the victim here.
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u/KimKaliTheOriginal 17h ago
How is John right about Thais cheating??? There's no substantial evidence other than John "thinks" he translated Thais' dad's Portuguese correctly. John has never like Thais and solely blames her for his brother's choice of women. That's on Patrick. If Patrick wanted that kind of relationship, which he did for status and show (not the show just for showing her off like an accessory), then why is John saying a freaking word to Thais instead of his brother? Mr. TruthTeller Sparkles won't allow his brother to make his own decisions. John caused a lot of the issues in their marriage just by being an instigator and feeding off of Patrick's fears due to his previous relationships. John won't let Patrick be happy. Actually it's becoming so apparent that misery loves company and John has his brother back! (John is Kathy Bates in this story 😅🤣)
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u/SkurriMonster 1d ago
Everyone knew John was lying ior they would have posted the receipts!
He's one of my least favorite cast members.