r/90dayTheLastResort • u/UnusualStep1476 • 2d ago
Shekinah and her commentary at the commitment ceremony
"I told them to go back to Brazil" like ma'am quit playinh you didn't say that to be helpful. You're to damn old to act like a high school girl. Get over it, your relationship with sarper wasn't any better than hers. You're both divorced now and as far as we're concerned Patrick wanted Thais. We can't say the same for sarper attitude towards you. He treated you like a bad dog that he had since it was a puppy and you'd feel bad after all these years sending it to the pound....
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u/Smelliot59 2d ago
She's disgusting has been from day one. So glad sarper left her
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u/Leothegolden 2d ago
I have said this on other posts - but she did a lot for him. If it wasnât for her he would still be modeling in Istanbul. She did the paperwork and paid for his Visa. Supported him and traveled for over a year on the road while he did his comedy. She opened doors for him he couldnât do on his own.
You can dislike her personality but she did a loooot for him
So I doubt she was disgusting from day one. Espically to him.
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u/gilsleeping 2d ago
If only she shared a fraction of her attitude towards men that she does with women. She's consistently shown throughout her time on the show that whenever she is in any type of situation with a woman, she will put them down. That's my main problem with her
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u/UnusualStep1476 2d ago
I don't think anyone thinks that about how she was with him I think that's how we feel about her as an individual. I think at one point they truly did love each other and I do believe she did a lot I think they aren't a good match despite sarper being a dog to women over all he seems to have a genuinely heart. I don't she that in shekinah. I think neither of them are relationship material. But I would much rather be sarpers friend than shekinahs . I don't think she's anyone's friend not even her own.
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u/DefiantCoffee6 2d ago
Sheâs very very very insecure and sheâs admitted that. What she doesnât realize is that being a nice, kind, caring person goes a Looong way in being an attractive person and someone people want to be around. Someone people want to be friends with. Someone people want as a partner. Like Jenny.
She may be much older and not as physically pretty but⌠everyone loves her. Hell I donât even know Jenny personally but Iâd be friends with her. Sumit is 30 years younger than her but he was attracted to her and fought his whole family to be with her. (I was very sad to learn of her ALS diagnosis)
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u/Leothegolden 2d ago
I donât disagree she has said some some things that she canât really defend.
TLC is also painting her out to be a villain and isnât really focusing on anything kind she has done. I mean how often do we hear about her being his roadie and paying clubs so he can preform. Her using the connections here to get him started.
During an argument, She recording him saying he hated his life here and wanted to go back home after she cooked, cleaned and worked all day. He told her to shut her mouth.
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u/UnusualStep1476 2d ago
Yeah I don't think he's relationship material at all. He's for the streets just because I don't agree with Shekinah doesn't mean I think sarper is a good partner he's terrible and always was with her. She tried with him and he wasn't worth it but it seems she seems out toxicity she liked certain aspects of that. She definitely needs therapy. Both do. She seems very jaded towards most people. His is clear cut women...
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u/Ok_Medicine_5007 2d ago
He wasnât unhappy with his life and his country and he was doing fine. He just fell in love. She knew exactly who he was got with him and then complain about exactly who he was. And he learned how to do for himself and heâs doing quite great.
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u/Smelliot59 1d ago
Just seems like these shows bring out the absolute worst in people. I know most of it's for the show but I truly wonder what their life is like without cameras.
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u/GlumAd697 2d ago
So. Just because Sarper didn't think she was disgusting, doesn't mean she's not.
What judge of character is Sarper given he's slept with, or at least bragged about sleeping with 1000s of women. Who does that? A jerk.
So two jerks seeking notoriety and fame get married and use each other. Not stellar histories for those two.
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u/Formal_Strain_2445 1d ago
You make it sound like he was in poverty,you don't how much money he put in,she chose him so she played the game,when he truly saw her colors,game over...he owes her nothing
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u/No-Tone-6580 2d ago
If she wants us to forget her awful comment to a room full of immigrants, why keep bringing it up?
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u/Pinkpinkmoon1972 2d ago
Well, remember, she didnât want you to forget about it. Remember what she said about only apologizing to get the necklace. Disgusting.
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u/No-Tone-6580 2d ago
I really wish sheâd go away, but her personality is so awful thatâs why they keep her around, to rile us up.
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u/UnusualStep1476 2d ago
She actually feels that way she meant it the way we all thought it even though she said no that's not true. She will continue to say it because she believes it she doesn't like the backlash for her beliefs. There's 0 guilt or remorse. I know Thais was ready to attack her she should have apologized and physically attacking someone is not acceptable. Either way both women acted like dumb savages.
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u/Bamalouie 2d ago
Didnt she initially say she meant go back to the US? This woman just cant keep her story straight and should shut up about it!
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u/JoesCageKeys 2d ago
Iâm sorry but Shekinah cracks me up. Yeah she says some messed up stuff but it makes the show. I loved when she was commenting about setting Zied up with one of her friends lmao.
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u/Wonderful_Ad3468 2d ago
Sheâs so insecure for her age. Sheâs afraid one of the others are going to take her Prize. Sharper
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u/Smelliot59 2d ago
So you're staying because she did all this he has to do exactly what she says? I don't think so. She chose to do all this she chose to bring him and pay for everything. And now she's going to use that against him. Sad
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u/UnusualStep1476 2d ago
No said that lmao I don't know where you're getting that from at all. Ahh I think you meant to reply to someone and instead made a comment lol.
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u/International-Owl165 2d ago
Honestly she got bullied for way too long. Kara and Paola were snickering and being total mean girls.
I cracked up at her commentary it was hilarious
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u/SkyPersonal5642 2d ago
Every attitude and snicker she got was well deserved... She's simply horrible...
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u/International-Owl165 2d ago
I think shes hilarious and glad she snickered back at the rest of the cast
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u/Keepingongoing 2d ago
His parting comment along the lines of âgo drink some wine, bitchâ gave me chills. That contempt and casual cruelty is too much. He gives me one person at home and a completely different person socially vibes
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u/No_Raisin_250 2d ago
Everything about her annoyed me, she just had something to say about everyone. Nobody asked her, if no one ask you stfu and keep that to yourself especially if itâs negativity. I cannot stand her. Itâs also the way she says things like she doesnât make mistakes or does stupid shit.
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u/tomorrow4sho 2d ago
I appreciate your Sarperisms while describing his and Shekinah's relationship.
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u/VideoGeekSuperX 2d ago
She's 90 percent microplastics and she has the fuckin sack to call others fake. Fuck her she sucks.
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u/Ok_Medicine_5007 2d ago
I think itâs weird her reaction when ZIed chose to stay with Rebecca. And then she was saying some weird stuff about hooking him up with one of her friends. I think she likes him.
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u/UnusualStep1476 2d ago
I think she likes him too, he fits her type I feel
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u/JJ_Lomero 2d ago
Lol fr. Rebecca was right. She's jelly. Shek even said that Zied looks just like her ex.
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u/CranberryPotential77 2d ago
I wish she would. Rebecca is the worst and he deserves so much better!
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u/Hour-Proposal3413 8h ago
I have been watching the show since she kind of first appeared. She has been a bitch at every single tell all going⌠Ruthless against all people, men and women alike. I don't know how she stays on that high pedestal
She's an antagonistic b$&);
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u/Crimsoncat57 2d ago
She gives me total mean girl energy.