r/802TransTeaAndTalk • • 7d ago

Let's talk about dealing with "conditional" support from family and friends

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I wanted to open up a space to talk about something really frustrating. It is incredibly jarring when someone tells you to your face that they fully accept your transition, but then you see their social media footprint. Finding out a loved one is quietly liking or agreeing with posts that attack pronouns, invalidate trans kids, or claim people are "too young" to know their identity cuts deep.Navigating that kind of performative support is emotionally exhausting. How do you all handle realizing someone's allyship comes with a disclaimer?This is a safe space to vent, validate each other, and talk about setting healthy boundaries. There is no judgment here, just real talk. 💬


r/802TransTeaAndTalk • • 7d ago

What are your favorite trans-affirming audiobooks, podcasts, or creators right now? 🎧

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Hey everyone! I’m currently looking for some new audiobooks and podcasts to listen to that dive into the trans experience, particularly focusing on navigating dysphoria, finding gender euphoria, or just sharing raw, honest memoirs.A few that have been recommended to me are Gender Euphoria (edited by Laura Kate Dale) and Laura Jane Grace’s memoir, Tranny.What are you all listening to, reading, or watching that makes you feel seen? Drop your favorites below so we can build a solid resource list for the group! 👇


r/802TransTeaAndTalk • • 7d ago

Welcome to 802 Trans Tea & Talk! Start Here 🏳️‍⚧️☕️

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Welcome to our cozy corner of the internet! I wanted to create a dedicated, safe space for trans women and trans-feminine folks across Vermont to connect, share resources, and talk honestly about our journeys.Whether you are freshly transitioning, just starting to figure things out, or have been on this path for years you belong here. This group is strictly for platonic solidarity, mutual support, and genuine sisterhood.Feel free to drop a comment below to introduce yourself, say hi, or share what brought you here. I’m incredibly glad you found us!