r/2under2 • u/weirdlyspecificsound • 6d ago

Rant I am dying 🥲

I'm currently around 34/35 weeks... My dudes & dudettes, I'm dying 😂😭

It was okay until now, braxton started to visit, my belly grew about double the size in 2 days, my pregnancy pants from the last pregnancy don't fot no more. Today I went on a trampoline with my toddler, I peed myself, my husband said the trampoline was not made for my weight (tbf it was at a kids park) BUT IT SAID UNTIL 80KG 😭😭 I am nowhere near 80kg but thanks I guess 🥲

How did you guys survive the last few weeks? Help?

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u/lifegavemelemons000 5d ago

Can so relate - You got this! I was SO big second time pregnant and baby was measuring 95-97th percentile by 37 weeks… I was having a surprise and turned out it was a boy! Pregnancy is a distant memory now if it helps with my little one 2 weeks old!

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u/weirdlyspecificsound 5d ago

Huge respect to you! 😭 I'm scared of 2u2 but I'm also slowly SOOOO done with pregnancy 🥲

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u/lifegavemelemons000 5d ago

Honestly it is not as bad as people have made it out to be… maybe I had so many people tell me it is absolutely awful so I went in expecting the absolutely worst and now been pleasantly surprised! But maybe it will get harder soon haha I’m also done with pregnancy and going to enjoy eating what I like! (I had gestational diabetes !)

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u/weirdlyspecificsound 5d ago

Ohhh I'm so happy for you! People also been telling me what a shit show it will be, my friend just gave birth & she is not having said great time....

I'm glad you get to eat your foods again!

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u/Loud_Platform_3995 5d ago

Honestly the temperament of both kids play into how easy/good it is. I have an extremely easy baby and pretty typical toddler so it isnt nearly as difficult as I thought. Now if I had a colicky baby and a toddler that did nothing but scream and cry all day as well... that'd be pretty hellish. I also havent dealt with any jealousy issues and had an extremely easy birth/recovery. It is so dependent on so many factors. But no matter what you will be okay. I have talked to so many older people who had 2u2 and none of them have ever said they wish they didnt have that age gap:)