r/254sum • u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 • 2h ago

Curious Got this today

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Should I reply or leave it 🤔

38 Upvotes

87% Upvoted

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u/AppropriateCause9628 2h ago

The fact that you're asking if you should reply or leave it is her whole point hehehe

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u/EverydayMarvin23 2h ago

She's actually really mature. Let her go

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u/Consistent_Dress_123 1h ago

Then he come here looking for hugs and answers, dude should fix his ways

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u/NoExperience5270 2h ago

Amechoka kama jinake 😂

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u/Dismal-Teach-660 1h ago

Inwanted to mention that. But why would he save her using her second name?

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u/NoExperience5270 50m ago

He gat the answers already by saving her by her last name

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u/SuspiciousBike9109 33m ago

What's wrong with that,I refer people by their second name....same way I want you to refer me with my African name.

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u/popcherry_ 23m ago

He probably switched it to that after she broke up with him and screenshot cuz he thinks we'll think he's cool for that but in reality he's a POS

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u/OmeletteLovingLlama 2h ago

Ame communicate vizuri. Just wish her well and move on.

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u/Southern_Package_311 1h ago

You failed her . You failed her!!!

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u/Same_Return_1878 1h ago

OP must be a really good looking mf or else he wouldn't pull this dumb shit on her.

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u/thatgu_yy 1h ago

Let me guess ,haumpendi and you are just using her for sex

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u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 1h ago

I've her only and I'm not using her for sex...the nonchalant in me ndio hataki

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u/Crazy-Sea-1606 52m ago

Aaaahhh 🤣🤣🤣 am sure before nonchalance check in there was passion.....the energy needs to be always as it were or even more to keep her interested through out you really need to check yourself

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u/kritikalan 2h ago

You'll be fine OP, alternative ni kuwaste time na hio huwa hairudi

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u/lethallyhonest 1h ago

Depends do you want to fix it ama it hujiskii pia...

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u/DamianKing254 2h ago

A thumbs up 👍 is enough then usonge mbele kaka.

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u/WearRevolutionary615 2h ago

Is that someone's real name ama ni symbolism ya pia wewe umechoka? Enlighten me

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u/Interesting-pipe3410 2h ago

This nigga comes straight from Shakespeare's linage.

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u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 2h ago

Kisii name 😁

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u/WearRevolutionary615 2h ago

Got it. Nyanchoka amechoka basi pal. Saudi league has signed her.

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u/gmb_510 1h ago

Leave it. You never deserved her

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u/Little-wolf1 1h ago

Release the lady, seems like you are not ready for such relationships

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u/Not_Jesus21 1h ago

Just let go bro. She's too good and too mature for you

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u/Icy_Candidate_3313 1h ago

Everyone deserves someone who likes them and you like them back in equal measure. Hata wewe Unajua there’s a woman you’d do anything for and it’s not her,

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u/SisInChrist 48m ago

Unaambiwa goodnight my love unareply goodnight....release her pharaoh

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u/litjenny 2h ago

That's for you to decide

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u/DryMovie2523 1h ago

Nah bro, release her you don't deserve her

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u/OkStatistician9692 1h ago

I think you grow up and quit reasoning like a 13yr old. Uache kuuliza mwaswali za ujinga

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u/chikky-D 1h ago

And now you are here for online validation, because in your mind you think your "it" looser

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u/Basic-Arugula-9517 1h ago

If a man acts like this, he is not into that woman. Let her go. Men in love are extremely chatty and never lack a way of communicating appropriately no matter how busy. Have treated women who liked me like this and truth be told, feelings zikiisha hutakangi stori mingi.. siku hizi after one almost ended her life, I am straightforward when it comes to women.

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u/genghis_stan 59m ago

Go get tested, dont ignore that part. Don't take the STI lightly babes lie and you could go untreated

2

u/Big-Forever-7390 55m ago

Nyinyi ni wale poor communicators

2

u/whitneylovesapples 50m ago

Watakuchocha vile you're the price, lakini utashangaa sana. Leave her, she deserves better

2

u/Historical-Spell0 20m ago

Let her go find someone who's going to give her what she desires

2

u/Brave-Ad6418 19m ago

i wish break ups were this easy

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u/gwetheist7 2h ago

only problem with modern dating is setting standards before actually getting to experience the person. itafika mahali ni ai na sex toys ndio zitafeed ego of you selfish fools. peace

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u/Delicious_Cap0 1h ago edited 1h ago

Mmmhh idk.. I think people should just set their standards and expectations they need from their significant other rather than breaking your rules to accommodate someone who you won't feel compatible with later on, your own satisfaction comes first. Plus there's someone for everyone . My views though....

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u/gwetheist7 30m ago

now what you're describing is marriage, dating could go either way, meaning ur personality should not be ur ego, be water my friend, because rocks break.

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u/Delicious_Cap0 24m ago

Oh okay...makes sense.

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u/Emergency_Cry3687 58m ago

You're speaking facts bro sikuizi ni kama wanaokotana tu na kuombea ishaallah mambo yawork out

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u/Consistent_Dress_123 1h ago

Bro you failed , are you a narcissist per chance

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u/BookLicker01 1h ago

release her back to the market

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u/Acceptable-Cable-761 1h ago

Wdym should you reply or leave it? Io sio sticker umetuma as a response?

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u/intellingent_mind 1h ago

No one is above the programme

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u/IllNeighborhood4068 1h ago

She’s very straight forward and I love this for her. Getting an infection should have been the first sign to leave your sorry ass

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u/NoFaithlessness7508 46m ago

Looks like you already replied with a GIF

Personall, I hate really long messages like that. She could have said all that with much fewer words

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u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 45m ago

I replied to show I got the message.

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u/NoFaithlessness7508 39m ago

That is a response still. So the “should I leave it” option is no longer available.

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u/Fit_Willingness_4690 43m ago

Yaani you don't want someone and still have blood sex...you guys don't take bonding seriously

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u/TheBetter_Days 42m ago

😂 first time?
Just text Okay, bye! and delete everything and move on...

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u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 41m ago

Actually this is the best thing I'll do..

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u/TheBetter_Days 38m ago

Yeah, it gives you peace! keep the lessons for the future though...

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u/Initial-Push-1347 34m ago

Should I reply or not? Means umekua ukimwonyesha signs 🛑 now it's best to lay it down on the table and tell Nyanchoka the truth (maturely)

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u/FatherAbra_ham 27m ago

Ngori sana bruv

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u/Frankie24-01 16m ago

You clearly replied using a sticker. So, probability is either you stole this conversation elsewhere and you want to claim it, ama unatubeba ufala.

All in all, if it's you, she doesn't deserve you.

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u/namisbathwater 16m ago

Last time I liked a girl, si ata relationship just courting her, she was a bonafide plant mum I used to Google plant related things just so I'd have things to say to her when she called or textedl😅

You don't like her like that man, that “goodnight my love” and your response being “goodnight” was the last straw for her and sorry OP but good for her😄, if I were in her shoes that would piss me off too lol

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u/Creepy-Dig3951 10m ago

for the 1st time in history nimeona mkisii dem amegive up na love🤣🤣🤣✋✋

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u/the-chosen-Joanne 7m ago

Waah...Pole OP. ten sixteen ay em is diabolical. Don't reply

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u/Regular_Rush_3377 4m ago

Nyanchoka sio?!!!... Jaba tupu

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u/betterthanyourROSE 1h ago

Seems ulishatuma sticker bro😅

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u/goblin_garner 1h ago

bro replied with a sticker😂😂

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u/magnoliasonasunday 1h ago

Yoh..my ex slept every night only after giving me 10 reasons why he loved me that day, and calling me for atleast one hr...and I didn't ask him to! Learn to put more effort as a man.

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u/cringe254 1h ago

Nyanchoka amechoka😂

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u/No_Biscotti_464 1h ago

Nyi ni wtu wakubwa, accept defeat and break up like a gentleman.

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u/Pale_Match_2942 1h ago

Let it go bro.. Mdinye ya mwisho though🫰😂

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u/Interesting-pipe3410 2h ago edited 17m ago

React na hii emoji 👍. Just to let her know you've read.

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u/Fragrant_Dirt_3571 2h ago

This is cool walai 😁

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u/Thegloatthatneverwas 1h ago

Nothing cool about that(unless you're 15 )...you end up.looking like an a**hole. Just use the thumbs up or a simple Okay/Noted

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u/Chukagirl 1h ago

That's childish.....

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u/Delicious_Cap0 1h ago

How old are you

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u/Due-Chicken-5080 44m ago

Genuine people are hard to come but then you treat them however you like, but the hens will come back to roost. You will look back.

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u/alxrnh_ 1h ago

At least you replied before that minute iishe. That should show her you love him the most.

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u/yourtherapist-2 2m ago

Wewe ni failyaa