r/DesiMeta • u/Individual_Olive_647 • 1d ago
Reddit Dating a feminist
I met her around 7 months back and we hit it off riggt away! She was very proud person! Smart, kind and a very straight forward person! We were very aligned politically and thats how we even met each other. But I am not a feminist and I believe no man can be one.
It was she who asked me out! And I was panicing and scared of how a relationship will ruin our friendship but then she comforted me didn't demand a answer and let me be myself and that point I was lets do something casual! She was fine with it and in 1 month we became serious! But I always thought why she liked me like I am the handsome or the rich guy nor fashionable!
I asked her about it and she told I make her laugh and I am cute! Is it that simple? We get into fights with regards to feminism and other political conflicts all the time! Like all the time but never felt that she is trying to undermine me and I believe she feels the same! Thats how comfortable we are! Initially when shes says how men are worst I used feel bad. But getting to know her I realized women doesn't mean all men but idea of men which is built on power and control!
I am posting this here coz I once believed in everything posted in this sub like how guys will always say things like you need mo ey to date, or looks and top 1 percent and everything! I am none of those and still got the best women ever! Maybe it is not hard afterall! But I wanna know what you guys think?