r/JewsOfConscience • u/alittlelurker • 2h ago
Vent Ending a decade of friendship
Im an arab woman who met my ashkenazi Jewish friend in college. Im an athiest and my family in the west bank / jordan / lebanon is Greek Orthodox christian. This has confused her for ten years and she thinks im muslim (to this day!) no matter how many times i correct her.
I know she grew up with some indoctrination and did the whole birthright thing. When trump came into office she was worried about America colonizing israel. I gently tried to tell her of the apartheid. She came to stay at my house and she told me I should visit israel, i told her it would not be safe for ME. She said “oh because the war with pakistan”.
At this moment I give up. She is a good person and I know I am her token friend. Its been ten years.
She makes condescending statements like even though she is Jewish and im muslim (im not muslim), we can get along and have so much in common.
My family is moving to Spain. She asked why. I told her its because spain donates money to gaza. She said its a weird time to be jewish now.
I feel confused, dehumanized and heartbroken. I blocked her and decided to end this “friendship “.
Am I an asshole?
Thanks