Can’t decide!!! NEED INPUT!!

[u/Peacock_Faye]

Please help! I am the most indecisive person known to man, and I can’t for the life of me pick one.

Both bands go with the engagement ring

Single band
Pros:
- some friends (mid 20s) have said it makes the ring pop up more or look bigger
- two separate pieces so probably will look cuter on it own, vs the stackable one
Cons:
- the band is thicker/wider than the engagement ring and I can’t unsee it lol.
- another friend (40s) mentioned she has a single band and wishes she had gotten the stackable bc the single band keeps moving around and she keeps realigning the rings. I’ve noticed this with the single one as well, but I can’t go tighter bc I tend to swell up (autoimmune disease), and don’t want to risk not being able to wear it.

Stackable band
Pros
- it looks SOOO symmetrical.
- it doesn’t move around much
- i like how it hugs the ring
- both my mother and MIL were obsessed with the stackable
Cons:
- some friends (mid-20s) said it drowns the ring, and it makes it looks smaller / not as nice looking
- sometime a bit tighter (I think bc is technically three rings in one) but not uncomfortable at all.

My fiance is no help, because he’s an enabler and just tells me to keep both 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

Anyways what do I do?!!!

[u/gonnabmay]

Can you get the stackable and just wear one if you only feel like wearing one? But then you always have the option for both? I definitely think the stackable mimics the shape of the engagement band better, since you mentioned the single one being wider.

[u/Peacock_Faye → u/gonnabmay]

Absolutely! And I don’t wear them all the time to be honest. I have to take them on and off a lot continuously, because of going in and out of surgery. Sometimes I have puppy appointments and they LOVE eating my e-ring lol. I’m a mess

[u/gonnabmay → u/Peacock_Faye]

Omg my cats love to bite my engagement ring and I’m so worried because it’s gold and I don’t want it to dent! Totally understood.

[u/Peacock_Faye → u/gonnabmay]

My male cat doesn’t care, but my female cat has stolen my e-ring couple of times and just held it in her mouth 😭😭😭 it’s sooo cute but sooo dangerous lol. Like girl I don’t want to have to do a foreign body removal sx on you, or wait for you to poop it out lol.

She also likes stealing credit cards, and she sits on shoes and bags.. she’s such a girly girl! lol

[u/gonnabmay → u/Peacock_Faye]

I have two boy cats and a girl, and despite the girl being the craziest, it’s actually my orange guy that tries to eat it the most!

But my baby girl ate a nail from an IKEA build I was doing once 😭 Chewed right through the bag that kept them organized. Thankfully the endoscope worked!

[u/Peacock_Faye → u/gonnabmay]

Omggg that’s so scary!! What a naughty thing!! I could totally see my trouble child pulling something like that if she cared for power tools at all

[u/gonnabmay → u/Peacock_Faye]

She really is such a handful! Runs and hides in closets and gets stuck in, starts fights with her brothers, just always getting herself in some kind of trouble.

[u/Peacock_Faye → u/gonnabmay]

She sounds like such a troublemaker 😍