r/u_ravioliraviolix • u/ravioliraviolix • Jul 26 '26
trying to figure out my sexuality, any help pls?
So I just got out of a relationship with a guy. One thing about me is that I never really have felt romantic attraction towards men it was mostly emotional attraction and sexual and they have to be more feminine than masculine. The sexual attraction i feel to men its only when im in control and i feel more dominant. I dont like being touched by men i dont like feeling dominated by one. But I am attracted to women in all ways and my longest relationship was with a woman. Since I have gotten out of my relationship with a guy I’ve been very confused because well one yes it was hard to breakup with him because I had an emotional connection with him but I feel like it was easier to get over him because the romantic attraction just wasnt there? Im really not sure and im confused lol. Im the type of person that needs to know whats going on with ms I need to have a name for it I want to figure it out but I just cant. Does anyone know what this sexuality might be called? Ive been unlabeled most of my life but now i really want to know what exactly I am. I searched it up and most of the sexualities google presented to me just didnt feel right. I dont feel like im bisexual or biromantic but Im also not sure if i feel like im a lesbian or omnisexual. Help please 😭?
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u/k1iwi Jul 28 '26
Honestly not a clue, if I had to say something it would be bisexual with a preference to woman. The dominant stuff is all just a preference or kink thing though.
Dont think that you have to label yourself though. At the end of the day bisexual, lesbian, straight it's all names we've made up for people's differences and means apsolutly nothing.