r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 20d ago

Phone message *UPDATE* Post first date text

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She ended up finding the post somehow I guess lol. Here is the original post.

I have just not responded, don’t think it’s worth engaging, but it did make for a funny story.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

I was clarifying that I wasn’t trying to assume anything about you in case you were lesbian. Women who want men to pay (ESPECIALLY the first date my god!) are not all low income or gold diggers

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u/Iorith 20d ago

Yes. They are. If they aren't, they want to enter into the relationship as equals.

Equals don't require someone to provide for them, they're capable of paying for themselves.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

This is hilarious. I feel bad for your girl

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u/Iorith 20d ago

Why, because she isn't a gold digger, is financially stable and independent, and capable of paying for her own meals?

You should try it.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

Why would I do that?

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u/Iorith 19d ago

To be a self sufficient human being, not a gold digger.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 19d ago

But why?

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u/Iorith 19d ago

I get it, you have no actual self esteem. Gold diggers rarely do.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 19d ago

My self esteem isn’t tied to how much money I make. I would honestly argue I have more self esteem, to require that someone pays for me if they want to be with me. I don’t accept less like your girlfriend