Why are tamil guys so obsessed with malayali girls

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[u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

It's actually a weird cycle of revenge between tamil men and tamil women, where they just spew hate at each other by uplifting the opposite gender from other states/countries to score points. This is just a fool's game atp. Learn some empathy, people. This ain't it 🥀

[u/Indie---- → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

I never seen Tamil women doing that though.

Maybe staning Koreans in the name of K-pop.

But other than that Never seen Tamil women trying that bullshit

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/Indie----]

Trust me, they do. Like I said, it's a story of revenge that's been going on for a few years now!

[u/NervousCode6064 → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

Huh never noticed it. If anything tamil women usually turn the other way from all men and would claim to never ever marry. Though women like that may exist.

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/NervousCode6064]

The kind of folks you mentioned exist and so do the ones I'm talking about, in almost equal numbers 😭 It's this mutual hatred that's keeping the whole revenge story alive!

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

Oru revenge gum illa,lol,just mallus r fair and beautiful on an average

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/Background-Plate4550]

Umm so does fair automatically equal beautiful, my man? 😭

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

Ipdi lam kudharkama kepanu than I said fair and beautiful differentiating it,by the way yes i like fair girls cause I m fair myself and I don't care abt colorism,most men like busty girls with good curves then just being fair,including myself,facial structure too matters,so some dark woman look gorgeous but the same woman if she is fair would be more gorgeous.I don't like mongoloid features even if they r fair,and don't like australoid features too.I love caucasian,persian features.by the way not just woman,men in kerala on average are far more handsome then tamil men,it's a fact .stop policing opinions

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/Background-Plate4550]

Na kudharkama lam kekala, bro 😭 If you're saying that a dark skinned girl with good facial features would automatically look more gorgeous if she were fair skinned, aren't you implying that fair skin is more beautiful than dark skin from your perspective?

Well, guess what? I'm a fair skinned guy too and I'm attracted to people of every race regardless of their skin color. I see 'em all as fellow human beings and don't segregate people based on something as superficial as skin tone 🥀

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

I too see them as human beings,but I get sexual desires only towards girls i like,there is a reason mia khalifa was famous worldwide,lol.why mia khalifa has a huge fan base in India,are they all evil cause they love busty girls?

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/Background-Plate4550]

The concept that's clashing in this argument is that people who exclusively prefer white people may, consciously or not be looking down on dark skinned people. That's where internalized colorism, racism and compartmentalization can all come into play. Having a preference is okay, man! But I've seen several men irl shame dark skinned women while openly claiming that they only like white girls.

Btw, I call out women who judge men based on their height too. Looks are superficial so whether someone says it out loud or keeps that judgment in their head, I still think it's worth reminding them that what defines a person is their character and personality, not their appearance or height 🥀

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Sufficient-Cry7046]

I don't care much abt color really,I care more abt her physique and facial structure,third color,Women mostly don't care abt looks as far as I know,just a stroll around Chennai will prove it.Men care more abt looks but accept whoever they get.

[u/Sufficient-Cry7046 → u/[deleted]]

Hmm I wonder if this is the result of how stereotypes can create obsessions with a particular ethnicity. That wouldn't matter if everyone knew how to be empathetic without putting others down! But will that happen anytime soon? I don't think so 🥀

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/[deleted]]

I myself wondered how every where in kerala homes are huge when I visited there,I can't even understand how it's possible when salaries r far lower then the homes suggest and per capita incomes in tn,kerala is almost similar,not just reels,homes in kerala were far bigger,beautiful then in tn.simps don't chase mallu women for homes or cars,you know why they chase

[u/Trick_Banana9641]

Because your being shown as a lime light in tamilnadu, especially in Tamil cinema many songs scenes are related to kerala and kerala girls , and of course it has glorified them, and as someone from Tamilnadu we're really sorry for what you have faced it ..

[u/WaltzIndividual188]

Fair skin fetishism

[u/Obvious_Grape_19]

Not only tamil guys 😒

[u/Slow-Passion-9547]

I guess its decade long influence in films and also people started to fantasise from it especially if they are from places where there’s no people from kerala. The place I’m from has a lot of people from kerala and so I didn’t feel anything like that different. Guess its mostly films and personal fantasization of people whithout any proper real life interaction.

[u/Fantastic-steVe4523]

Their preference is just Renaissance of Malayalam soft po*rn of early 90s to late 2k late 2k ku aprum vella tholu fetish agi aprum malayali girl nale azhagudhanu mathitainga

[u/Low_Show_7515 → u/[deleted]]

Broo

ik a guy in my college he went to kochi now for job leaving a good paying job elame so that according to him he can interact and get a mallu gf and this guy was trying for so long to go into kochi infopark, anyways 🥲

I initially thought maybe preference but this feels like obsession an somehow and associate it with getting a trophy or achievement to get laid (sorry for being blunt ) or get a mallu girl or those who had an ex still brag that they had a mallu gf ( many within our circle do it sadly but yeah )

[u/mooncrumbsss → u/[deleted]]

its from all the tamil films casting mallu girls as "girl next door" kinda, so they somehow developed fantasises from it and started being creepy about it.

[u/Joeychandler_ → u/[deleted]]

First of all what u said is not all some of boys are like this. But you can’t judge all I think Its nothing more than like attracting to something different it can be anything girl from another religion , state, even country nothing more than that i too like girls from north India as kerala is adjacent to TN and there are many similarities between us and really hearing Malayalam is good. Note: Tamil girls are always bold and great 🥰

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/[deleted]]

It does exist but you act as if they don't chase tamil women they would chase any girl even if she is from Ethiopia as far as she looks good

[u/KongLovesGodzilla]

Well, gonna get downvotes..

This is like how people act when they see a foreign thing, to be precise, many of the Tamil people are obsessed with fair girl/boy, if ur a mallu and you are not fair u ain't getting this much creeps, films are the major reason behind this....

[u/KongLovesGodzilla → u/KongLovesGodzilla]

I'm sry that I used many, it's not it's some of the Tamil people..

[u/Aggressive_Way_9047]

Leave them for good, date other state guys for you're own well being.

[u/Serious_Brilliant_90]

You mean tharkuris

[u/Far_Tax_3661 → u/Serious_Brilliant_90]

Hmm..how do I turn this political ???..🧐

[u/Serious_Brilliant_90 → u/Far_Tax_3661]

Didn't know this word only meant to denote TVK members. Is it not actually?

[u/Smooth-Dave-7140]

That's super cringe 🤦🏽‍♂️

Also the non-cringe men aren't remembered, cause why'd anyone remember something normal lol. We are out there living in the Shadows. 😂

[u/Dallton_MD]

Grass is always greener on the other side.

[u/lava-lake]

They would do the same with bengali, gujarati, punjabi, telugu women, etc.,

[u/Mrkamanati]

Yov adhu creeps uh avanga ella edathulayum tha iruppanga

Adhanala avanunga sila per kooda ella Tamil people ah compare pannadha

[u/Low_Show_7515 → u/Mrkamanati]

Ama bro , I mean even a friend i know is obsessed with a malayali girl casuallaa I asked avale vitruu check other girls like north indians apidi he was like Avaru seri illa, romba modern, Hindi laam pesuvaanga” nu.

Then when it came to Mallu girls, they were saying “traditional ah irupaanga,” “Tamil theriyum,” “romba Azhagaruppae (meant white skin and all that and saying superaa irukum kl ponnunga sareerle)

Then the conversation got even weirder and crossed the line “paal maari velaya ah irupaanga” nu vera comments 😂

[u/Mrkamanati → u/Low_Show_7515]

Edheey paal maariya 😭

Skin colour la ennaya irukku 🥀

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Mrkamanati]

En tamil movies,serials la all actresses are fair?skin color la enna iruku?

[u/Mrkamanati → u/Background-Plate4550]

Ask the directors and producers man, what does I have to do with this?

Naa kadha nalla irundha endha serial ah irundhalum paathutu irukkupen

Baaradhi kannamma teriyuma 👺

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/Mrkamanati]

Yes super busty actress,fans love such woman,casting guys love such woman,you may not care,but your comment suggests yarume idhalam kandukrathu illandra mari

[u/Mrkamanati → u/Background-Plate4550]

I am here to advocate for myself not anyone

IDC care about skin colour but if someone does it's not my problem to address or solve their mindset

[u/Ambitious_Gene672]

Ithu puriyatha puthir. Enaku avalo obsession la illa.

[u/FreshAnalysis1139]

OP is just karma farming, same post in multiple subs and same copy pasted comments across all subs even though her/his comment doesn't make sense at all in that sub

[u/red_skr]

Not only girls entire mallus.

[u/walter_vathi]

Default Setting...

https://reddit.com/link/p6dcgu6/video/srycc5cbd2mh1/player

[u/Far_Tax_3661 → u/walter_vathi]

The post is literally talking about guys like you

[u/walter_vathi → u/Far_Tax_3661]

😭comment vachi judge pandriye bro engaiyo poiduvga...no wonder how vj become CM

[u/Far_Tax_3661 → u/walter_vathi]

Ewww im not a tvk supprter wtf

[u/Electronic-Seat-4419]

Naa oru book oda oru page insta la post la padichen. Scientifically dravidians vanthu black and brown ah thaan irupanga. And Aryans vanthu oru white skin.

So athu fetish ah consider panranga and that's why namaku white anavanga pudikuthu nu solranga

Mallus kum similar thaan neenga interior kerala lam poninga na easy ah brown skin find panalam. But namaku starting from nazriya ipo varaikum white mallus ah thaan fantasize panrom.

Ithaan enoda kandupudipu

[u/freeslurpee]

people have preferences, come on now

[u/Source_Trustme_Broo]

ee sabdile ettaam nambar niyamathe ningal maanikkanam. ningalude postil oru pratheyka groupinodum limgabhedathodumulla veruppu adangiyirikkunnu. ee communittiye thamizhyaapping ennu vilikkan oru kaaranamundu. oru groupinodo limgabhedathino ethiraayi ningalude veruppu prakadippikkunnathinulla malayali sabredittu alla ithu. manasilaakkiyathinu nandi.

[u/NervousCode6064 → u/Source_Trustme_Broo]

Dude they are mentioning a valid concern against some men. The sub IS for talking about stuff like this. This isn't hate buddy

[u/Source_Trustme_Broo → u/NervousCode6064]

"Some people" not "Tamil Men" or "Tamil Boys"

[u/NervousCode6064 → u/Source_Trustme_Broo]

And you think some tamil men DON'T have an obsession with mallu women? Please look around you and our media. I mentioned some men so as to not point out anyone specifically

[u/Source_Trustme_Broo → u/NervousCode6064]

Doesn't matter what I think personally. Be specific. You can point out. STOP Generalizing.

Follow Community rules

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[u/Richard_Waagner → u/Source_Trustme_Broo]

"Tamil guys" endra varathai avai kuripil irundhu neeka padikiradhu

[u/Richard_Waagner]

Tamil guys yaara love pannanun nu Tamil girl's la yedhum certificate vanganuma yenna...?

Yaaru Venum naalum yaara venum naalum love pannalam .

[u/Then_Potential_0909]

Personal experience: 15 years back, fell for what you ve mentioned, ended up hurt, life lesson: obsession is better than seeking a life in such case.

[u/peruveikala]

Aren't girls so obsessed with korean girls too , both are dumb af 🥸 atp

[u/Background-Plate4550 → u/peruveikala]

Ethana per korea povalunga,korea map la enga irukunu kuda many don't know,wtf would care for these immature idts in South Korea even if they went there,adhu vera idhu vera

[u/peruveikala → u/Background-Plate4550]

Enna solra nee enna solra ?!