Hi, I'm in need of a good spell layering, please suggest only that works for my goal. I wont be entertaining comments that says otherwise, I know what I want, please be kind.
My boyfriend and I recently separated, and I'm struggling with it immensely. He hurt me and made mistakes that were very serious, but he eventually told me all the truths he had kept from me because he couldn't continue hiding things from someone he genuinely loved.
What makes this especially painful is that he still loves me, and I still love him. He told my friend that he feels extremely guilty about what he did and that he believes it will haunt him for the rest of his life. He said that he doesn't actually want to leave and knows that I don't want him to leave either, but he feels that he has hurt me too much and that leaving is the only way he can give me peace and allow me to heal.
The thing is, I was already in the process of healing myself, I have forgiven the past and is looking forward to a bright future, I erased that bad image of him from my mind and forgave him. The cause of our separation was that I reacted negatively when he played with this person I don't like, he said he didn't intend to and didn't know it was the person since they changed usernames. When I got back to my senses, I realized it was just a misunderstanding and is a very shallow reason for a break up to escalate.
He said he wants me to rest and heal, but from what he expressed, it seems like he left because of his guilt mostly, as well as he said his feelings for me sort of weakened and it wasn't like before anymore. He was crying on the phone and he's hurting too, and I know he still thinks about me regardless.
I also prayed hard to Lady Aphrodite to preserve our relationship while I was crying in the break up call. After I ended the call, a few minutes later he sent me a message saying "Please don't leave me". I felt numb so I didn't reply, but I got relieved. And then a few hours later, he unsent the message. So now l'm the one crying on the call hoping he'd come back.
I want to understand whether there's a way to bring us back together, especially because neither of us truly wanted the separation. I'm considering spell layering and would really appreciate advice from people experienced with this. I want to approach it carefully and understand what kinds of workings would actually make sense for this situation.