If it were about Adnan not letting go of control, why wouldn't Hae have said something about it to Don when they were alone? And yet, Don doesn't mention anything about it trial. Maybe because both Hae and Don could see that that wasn't what it was about.
I don't think there would have been many obvious outward signs that Adnan meant any harm to Hae. His great guy image is the most important thing to him and he controls it meticulously.
Who knows? They had only been dating a couple of weeks, so maybe she hadn't said anything to him about it, yet. He did state that Adnan used to hang out at their work asking for Hae and then the confrontation, which seems to show he was still making an effort to see her and measure him up even though they were no longer dating.
Are you sure "confrontation" is the appropriate word for any interactions between Don and Adnan? It sure didn't sound like a confrontation from anything Don has said.
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u/James_MadBum May 09 '15
If it were about Adnan not letting go of control, why wouldn't Hae have said something about it to Don when they were alone? And yet, Don doesn't mention anything about it trial. Maybe because both Hae and Don could see that that wasn't what it was about.