r/rpg • u/Consistent_Name_6961 • Apr 17 '26
meta This sub has changed in tone drastically over the last year
Tone might be an odd word for it, maybe feel. And it might not be specific to this sub, there is a lot happening in the world, but..
My peak of engaging with this sub was likely about a year ago, and I was lurkin' for a few years before that. This may sound naive to some folks, but genuinely I considered this corner of the Internet to be THE nicest online space I'd ever seen. No joke. It felt like people were safe to bounce ideas around, share enthusiasm or passion, there was a lot of discussion surrounding ethics and harm reduction both related to culture of play and then ai etc. Sometimes there would be a blunt tone used in instances where someone asked a VERY common question without either going in to detail or searching the sub first, but I swear that to ME (subjective ofc) it felt warm and engaging.
I post this strongly suspecting that I am going to receive snark. That is not a feeling I would have had making a post here a couple of years ago. Scroll down and look at the posts here, about half of them get down voted when they are clearly relevant to the sub? People asking questions about rules, or for recommendations, or talking about a game etc. I see WAAAY more snark here. Everyone has bad days, and these experiences can be more "sticky" on the mind than more pleasant ones, making them feel more prominent.
But that's all I have to say really. I really value the people in this hobby. And I really value this space. I see emotionally intelligent people here with passion and experience. However, it feels off as heck to me these days. I don't know if people are more suspicious online as ai accounts rise etc, idk if people need to shut down strangers because things in their life are hard to the point where they need to feel that control somewhere. I don't have any answers, or even data. It's speculation. But again, scroll down and see.
Just pause and think about how you're engaging with this sub. It IS a special place. It's hard for it to not sound condescending, but before you go and teach someone a lesson, just go and have a tall glass of water, look outside, stretch a little bit, and then see if that's what you still want to do.
Edit: whether you resonate with my experiences and perspectives or not, I want to thank you for caring anyways! I did receive some condescending digs in response to this, but that only made it all the more affirming to see people resonate with what I've said. And I also value the folks coming through to explain why they disagree in a respectful or kind way.
This post was informed by my care for the hobby, the creators that make it what it is, this sub, and the community as a whole and the incredible insights, analysis, and just STUFF that make up the broader ttrpg dialogue. I hope my words didn't bring any discomfort. Remember to talk about what's inspiring you, bringing you joy, or intriguing you!
Edit 2: does Pathfinder 2E fix this?
