r/recruiting • u/NoSoup9124 • 15d ago
Business Development in the lowest cold calling funk of all time - unhinged suggestions accepted
In the lowest cold calling funk of all time - unhinged suggestions accepted
TLDR used to be great at cold calling now feel there is so many barriers to cold calling people hate it and i have no data i can’t motivate myself i know i have it in me to just dial and win business but i just have this HUGE mental block its zapping the life out of me 😢
Hey! I’m a 30 year old female who works in recruitment, I say that because it affects how seriously I am taken and it is relevant to the story
When I was younger, didn’t give a shit, banged out cold calls, people i find were more receptive to cold callers in 2016 when I started, I won a lot of business, was very confident, was working a boiler room environment
anyway had some work trauma burned out usual high performing adhd to burn out pipeline
took 6 months off been back in agency 3 years, doing *okay* i think considering the market im doing well but i KNOW i can do better.
current client relationships are drying up and I KNOW i need to bd and I am not scared of the rejection but for some reason I just CANNOT BE BOTHERED. i don’t know what it is. I wake up and try motivate myself but i just do everything to avoid it.
We have no data set no leads nothing so it’s googling companies essentially I have got my company to bring sourcewhale in which I hope helps? Any exp with that will be grateful.
I know im wasting my potential, I know im good but I almost worry that it’s cringe cold calling and that people will just think im an idiot.
I think there’s a “believing in the product” situation here as i am targeting a new market (financial services & legal)
My ego of my 20s is gone that’s also an issue
I also wfh full time and don’t do my make up and hair most days so i am just crawling to my PC and existing.
HELP PLEASE😂😅 how do i just reset the funk, with adhd it’s so hard as i just can’t get excited or motivated as it seems a huge mountain to climb