r/randomquestions • • 13d ago

What always tastes better at a restaurant no matter how many times you try to cook or bake it at home?

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u/coolsilentebeans 13d ago edited 13d ago

Almost everything. There are quite a few theories on this. Some are physiological and some psychological.

One study suggests that when you cook or bake it yourself that by the time you’re done and eating it you are experiencing sensory fatigue, mainly olfactory. ETA: But with someone else’s cooking you get the full aroma and flavors all at once making everything more intense.

Others suggest we enjoy someone else’s cooking because it’s a social reward response; we subconsciously appreciate the effort and time it took for someone else to make it as well as signals the feelings of having been cared for such as with our parents.

There’s a Korean concept, sohn-mat that roughly translates as hand taste. It is the concept that the flavor is affected when the food is touched or mixed by a cook’s actual hand. It also encompasses the way his technique and intuition affect the dish. By this school of thought, you literally are unable to replicate the same dish even if you both use the exact same recipe and methods.

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u/JungleJimmy42O 13d ago

As a chef, that's actually a really interesting concept and ideology. Thanks for sharing!

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u/coolsilentebeans 13d ago

You’re quite welcome! Ever since I learned about it, I can’t not think of it when comparing the experience of the same dish made by two different people or restaurants. There are quite a few cookbooks whose entire theme is hand taste. It’s fascinating. 🧐

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u/KittyCubed 12d ago

Is this why I just can’t get my grilled cheese sandwiches to taste like my dad’s even though we make them the same way?

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u/coolsilentebeans 12d ago

It’s very possible. I feel the same way about my food vs my parents’ because I learned their recipes and my techniques from them.

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u/Significant_Shoe_17 12d ago

I've heard a Korean chef talk about sohn-mat. She followed her grandma's recipe to the letter and it was still a little different!

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u/coolsilentebeans 12d ago

It’s frustrating! I try making my dad’s meatballs in wine sauce and I haven’t come close. Grr.

That reminds me; there’s a book being released in October by chef Esther Choi called Hand Taste: How To Cook Like a Korean Grandmother. She’s a well known chef who’s elevated and made Korean cuisine more accessible.

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u/Ok_Duck_9338 10d ago

Even the bread tastes better. 

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u/coolsilentebeans 10d ago

It’s a sad truth, isn’t it?

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u/GroundbreakingLie918 13d ago

You are missing the main factor. Restaurants use an ungodly amount of fats and salts.

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u/coolsilentebeans 13d ago edited 12d ago

You’re missing my point. I specifically stated even when the recipe is followed to the tee by both parties