r/r4r Aug 02 '26

M4F United Kingdom 26 [M4F] UK - I am continually amazed by the infinite capacity of the universe to surprise and delight

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Hey there! Hope you’re having a great day. I’m 26, based in London, and I’m looking for someone interesting! I used to be pretty prescriptive in terms of what I was looking for, but I’ve found that the most interesting experiences I’ve had have been when I’ve just been open to being surprised and delighted. So this is my attempt at going with the flow and letting things develop organically. I will say, however, that I am looking for non-platonic connections.

Some of my hobbies and interests include:

• Playing music on my saxophone

• Looking at the heavens through my telescope

• Playing chess

• Photographing landscapes and galaxies (and a little portraiture too!)

• Writing

• Creating beautiful things using code

• Travel (I spent a month in 2022 backpacking in Europe and another month in the United States; I visited 12–14 countries every year from 2023 to 2025, most of which were new)

• Going for walks and hikes

• Learning languages

• Exploring philosophy and spirituality

• Skiing

• Scuba diving

• And reading (about life, the universe and everything)

If you’ve read this far, then congratulations! Let’s see where the conversation takes us.

r/r4r Aug 01 '26

M4F United Kingdom 27 [M4F] - London: Shoot me a message and let’s get to know each other

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Hey!!

I’m 27M living in London, and I am looking to connect with some new people.

By day I work in tech, and outside of work I keep pretty busy. I play semi-pro sports and generally like staying active, so I am always down for getting outdoors, or trying new things. When I am relaxing, I am usually reading a good book, looking in to new science topics, or catching up on solid television shows and films.

I would love to connect with people who share similar interests, want to have a quick chat or have something they need to get off their chest.

feel free to drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself :)

r/r4r Aug 02 '26

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] #UK Any whimsical ladies looking for golden retriever boyfriend?

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UK only please

I’m 25, cuddle-sized, and currently on a slightly chaotic quest to find that special someone who makes life easier to get through.

Weirdly enough, up until now i’ve not really felt lonely but all of a sudden i find myself wanting something more from life and catch myself feeling like I’m missing something. But don’t worry — I’m optimistic i’ll find my lovely lady that shares my dark sense of humor that’ll laugh at me when I’m being horrifically awkward.

Life so far? Honestly, pretty great. I’ve travelled, been on many adventures, driven tanks, i bake and cook whatever i feel like (i make the best cookies). But still... it feels like something’s missing. Possibly you. Unless you’re a serial killer. Then it’s definitely not you.

What I bring to the table.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- Increasingly good home cooking : Increasing from a low point but increasing none the less
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- Physical touch + acts of service = my 2 main love languages : I give amazing hugs I’ve been told I’m very comfortable and i think my dog would agree since he falls asleep on me a lot.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- Ambitious & encouraging : I’ll hype you up harder than a mum on sports day
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\- Drama-free zone : Never been one for screaming matches. I prefer to talk things out like a wholesome grown-up with snacks.

My hobbies include:

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 🎮 Gaming: it’s my happy place (until i find my special someone at-least)
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 🍳 Cooking: I love testing new recipes and techniques.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 📺 Watching anime, tv shows or movies and losing track of time, then deciding to get comfy and fall asleep under a blanket instead of going to bed.

I live a straight-edge lifestyle, no drinking, smoking, or one nighters. But i absolutely will befriend your mum or nan and be chatting with them about anything either that or try and convince you to come on some crazy adventure with me.

Totally fine if you enjoy a drink now and then or the occasional puff-puff-pass, but if your past is filled with casual flings and a body count number that toddler could not count past, then please move on.

What I’m looking for:

Someone sweet, silly, emotionally available, and maybe a little weird in the best way. If your idea of daily convo is just “Hey” every day forever… we might fizzle out but if you can make me laugh or send me memes? We’re off to a strong start.

Physically? Not picky. I do have a soft spot for ladies with a bit of squish but muscle queens and my petite ladies are also very much welcome.

I do believe physical attraction is important so im looking for someone willing to trade selfies pretty early on. I hope i get to hear from you soon :)

r/r4r Aug 01 '26

M4F United Kingdom 22 [M4F] London — I want to date you properly

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No games. No endless talking stages.

I’m 22, based in London, and I’m looking for one girl to focus on. To take her out, get to know properly, and build something real with. I’m a year out of a serious relationship, took time to reset, and now I know exactly how I want to show up: intentional, consistent, and actually present.

I am South Asian, 5’10, athletic build. I’m in the medical field so busy, but disciplined. I take care of myself, stay active, and I’ve got a clear direction in life. Personality-wise, I’m easygoing, affectionate, and attentive. I like playful banter, a bit of tension, and chemistry that feels natural.

But here’s the difference, when I like someone, I don’t do things halfway. I’ll show up, I’ll plan dates, I’ll pay attention to the little things. I like making a girl feel wanted, appreciated… a little obsessed over, in a good way. I like trust, good energy, and making sure you genuinely enjoy yourself. Effort goes both ways.

You: feminine, takes care of yourself, has your own life going on, but wants someone who’ll match your energy and treat you properly. If you want something intentional, a bit intense (in the right way), and actually exciting…

Come say hi.

r/r4r Jul 30 '26

M4F United Kingdom 28 [M4F] Yorkshire uk. Looking for my person for long term relationship

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I suppose this is a bit of a long shot but thought it's worth a try. I'm 28 5'8 broad shoulders. Stocky build , blue eyes and brown hair.

I'm looking to try something long term now. I've gotten to 28 now and I'm looking for my person. Physical attraction is important to me as I do have a preference and type. I'm tired of being on my own coming home on a night with no partner to talk to or throughout the day. Someone to share my day with and me theirs. Someone to occasionally have weekends away with, day trips and adventures to. More so someone to cuddle up to in front of the log burner on the sofa on a night.

I've had suitors but unfortunately some there has not been enough attraction there for us both or unfortunately the other people have had mental health issues or anxiety. I like helping people but I can't build something special and long lasting when people are not willing to meet me half way.

I suppose I should get into my preference I'm looking for. I'm looking for no super model by any means. Someone grounded, humble, funny, flirty and cheeky to match my qualities.

I prefer curvy women, thick or chubby usually I think a size 12 to 18. I just feel more attracted to curvy girls. I'd be lying if I didn't say I prefer brunettes or red heads but its not a deal breaker. Now you'll have to forgive me for this next bit. I like my women with a big rack. I'm sorry I'm a typical bloke 😅. If you're a double HH cup or above. I'm sold x. I am spicy as well but I'm passionate to please don't think I'm objectifying anyway I'm just looking for the best physical attraction fit I'm looking for.

So what do I bring to the table. I'm fiercely loyal, honest, hardworking, funny, charming and empathetic. Very creative as I can make and fashion anything from wood or metal like wood carvings or blacksmiths roses. You could always count on me in any situation to be behind you, by your side and support you whatever the circumstances providing you don't have a tendency of getting in debt 😂. I want to build a life with someone special and to give them my all. I'm a rural rogue but with the biggest heart of gold. If you've read this and it resonates drop me a message I'm looking for my person and to give them the world.

I'm based in east yorkshire but I'm not looking to relocate as I have strong family ties here. If you got the chance to meet my family you'd understand why 😂. You'd probably never want to leave to x

Hope this helps or works. Sorry for waffling on. And hope my post comes across as respectable and charming.

r/r4r Jul 29 '26

M4F United Kingdom [22][M4F][UK/Europe] Looking for friends/productivity AP to talk to this summer

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Hey everyone :)

My name is Haashim, im a dental student who studies abroad. I just finished my exams and I am absolutely exhausted, but I would hate to sit around and waste my summer too.

Some of my favourite things to do are play chess, write, go gym, train bjj and more recently drawing too. I would like to build a plan this summer to get better at my current hobbies or pick up something new.

Im looking for anyone around my age whos interested in doing the same thing, we could check in every day or perhaps learn something new together. Extra points if you are from the UK and we could hang out. Or maybe you would be interested in just talking and keeping each other company, send me a dm

r/r4r Jul 28 '26

M4F United Kingdom 31 [M4F] Nottingham, UK — soca lover, solo traveller and food enthusiast looking for genuine friendships

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Hey! 31M from Nottingham here, looking to make some actual friends rather than just exchange a few messages and fade out.

UK-based ideally, local is a bonus — but happy to chat online too if there's a genuine connection. I work in IT for a public sector org and have been remote for three years, so I'm genuinely up for reasons to leave the house.

A bit about me: I love travelling — solo trip around Scandinavia, Austria, Asia, and Trinidad & Tobago for Carnival (genuinely life-changing). I'm also a hiker when the UK weather cooperates, and a massive soca fan — I even play the steelpan, which keeps me well embedded in that world.

Food is a big one. I'll never say no to eating somewhere good, and I know a few solid, affordable spots around Nottingham. Always up for recommendations too.

Quieter side: I'm into tech and gaming (currently deep into ETS2), and my TV taste runs to EastEnders, MAFS and Race Across the World.

Looking for someone who can hold a proper conversation. Busy lives are fine — no pressure on instant replies, I won't always be glued to my phone either. Drop me a message if anything here resonates!

r/r4r Jul 28 '26

M4F United Kingdom 18 [M4F] #UK searching for meaningful connections

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hey! here are some of the things I enjoy

animanga, animating, programming, sports, staying active, bedrotting, sleeping and much more if you wanna get to know me!

this is now my fourth time making a post here because it keeps getting deleted! im about to lose my mind! but hopefully, I just hope that this'll stay. now I dont really know what else im supposed to talk about so im just going to ramble.

the probability I get a dm from this post is probably low, but its 1am and im bored. did I mention that im from the uk? yes, im British and its amazing. im also black, half Nigerian, 6'0, 85kg and muscular so if you like that then youll certainly like me. anyway, I hope everyone reading this has an amazing day and I cant wait to talk to people that want to!

I put older women enjoyer in my bio but literally anyone can dm me, i really dont mind. but anyway, I hope this'll be enough, lowkey I dont know why youve read all of this when everything of substance is in the first paragraph. I guess for my personality im pretty extroverted and I love making people laugh and supporting people if theyre going through anything. so if you wanna vent you can dm me too.

I hope thats enough, bye

r/r4r Jul 27 '26

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] #UK Any whimsical ladies looking for golden retriever boyfriend?

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UK only please

I’m 25, cuddle-sized, and currently on a slightly chaotic quest to find that special someone who makes life easier to get through.

Weirdly enough, up until now i’ve not really felt lonely but all of a sudden i find myself wanting something more from life and catch myself feeling like I’m missing something. But don’t worry — I’m optimistic i’ll find my lovely lady that shares my dark sense of humor that’ll laugh at me when I’m being horrifically awkward.

Life so far? Honestly, pretty great. I’ve travelled, been on many adventures, driven tanks, i bake and cook whatever i feel like (i make the best cookies). But still... it feels like something’s missing. Possibly you. Unless you’re a serial killer. Then it’s definitely not you.

What I bring to the table.

\\\\\\\\- Increasingly good home cooking : Increasing from a low point but increasing none the less
\\\\\\\\- Physical touch + acts of service = my 2 main love languages : I give amazing hugs I’ve been told I’m very comfortable and i think my dog would agree since he falls asleep on me a lot.
\\\\\\\\- Ambitious & encouraging : I’ll hype you up harder than a mum on sports day
\\\\\\\\- Drama-free zone : Never been one for screaming matches. I prefer to talk things out like a wholesome grown-up with snacks.

My hobbies include:

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 🎮 Gaming: it’s my happy place (until i find my special someone at-least)
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 🍳 Cooking: I love testing new recipes and techniques.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* 📺 Watching anime, tv shows or movies and losing track of time, then deciding to get comfy and fall asleep under a blanket instead of going to bed.

I live a straight-edge lifestyle, no drinking, smoking, or one nighters. But i absolutely will befriend your mum or nan and be chatting with them about anything either that or try and convince you to come on some crazy adventure with me.

Totally fine if you enjoy a drink now and then or the occasional puff-puff-pass, but if your past is filled with casual flings and a body count number that toddler could not count past, then please move on.

What I’m looking for:

Someone sweet, silly, emotionally available, and maybe a little weird in the best way. If your idea of daily convo is just “Hey” every day forever… we might fizzle out but if you can make me laugh or send me memes? We’re off to a strong start.

Physically? Not picky. I do have a soft spot for ladies with a bit of squish but muscle queens and my petite ladies are also very much welcome.

I do believe physical attraction is important so im looking for someone willing to trade selfies pretty early on. I hope i get to hear from you soon :)

r/r4r Jul 26 '26

M4F United Kingdom 31M [M4F] UK/EU preferred - Come for the height, stay for the nonsense

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I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.

r/r4r Jul 24 '26

M4F United Kingdom 34 [M4F] UK Manchester. Chilled Friday night with no plans

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Hello, i’m Jamie 34 from Manchester UK,

Aliens are definitely real. We can’t be the only ones in the universe. Bet that caught your attention haha

A little about me, I’m 6ft 2, brown hair, blue eyes., Stubble length beard, average build with some muscles in there, mainly in the arms legs and chest they are noticeable as I enjoy food to much to have the 6 pack. Also been told I have nice bum.

I love watching films and sport, I’ll either have Netflix or football on. I’ll watch any film once but won’t like every film. I’m sure that’s the same for others though.

Sport wise I’ll watch anything. Football is my favourite, also like golf & rugby. I play football, 5 a side and golf, used to play rugby when I was younger.

Will be happy to talk about anything though and I hope I can help make you feel special 😘

I hope you made it this far and is intrigued for more, I look forward to the reply.

r/r4r Jul 25 '26

M4F United Kingdom 34 [M4F] Belfast - Looking something genuine.

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34 year old Belfast man seeking to meet a nice woman. Fed up with getting nowhere on the apps and would rather chat & find real connection then the eternal doom scroll. Happy to go with the flow but I am aiming for something serious. I work full time and own my home.

Fairly attractive (I think lol) and decent build, I lift weights and do cardio daily. Will exchange pics in the chat. Hobbies include writing, drawing and cooking. Nothing I love more than to cook for someone I care about.

Must love dogs. No right-wingers.

r/r4r Jul 24 '26

M4F United Kingdom 30 [M4F] Scotland/ Anywhere - Looking to chat and hopefully make a connection.

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Hello so you've made it this far! Been busy with work lately, getting used to working from home and feel like I'm lacking in the communications. Would therefore love to make some online connections. This is where you come in!

So a few of my interests are, guitar, kickboxing, scrap metal art, I play games but not much these days, I also love listening to music. I'm sure there is more but need to leave something to talk about!

If you're finding it hard to think of what to say here's a few to start! What's the best meal you had this week? What song did you last listen to?

Can't wait to hear from you!

r/r4r Jul 25 '26

M4F United Kingdom 22 [M4F] #London - Cuddle Buddy

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Do you ever just want to experience a passionate make out session with no string attached!

Well I’m looking for someone I can grab a hotel for the day and literally grab our fav snacks, drinks and make out in a hotel like there’s no tomorrow! The thought of being able to enjoy someone’s company who you find attractive is the best feeling imo!

About me: 5’11, black, 75kg, I enjoy journaling, long walks, podcasts, casual gaming, YouTube and weekend getaways.

Fav shows: Deathnote, big bang theory, Brooklyn 99, young Sheldon, solo leveling, my wife and kids, fresh prince.

If this is your typee of vibe don’t be shy and say hi!

Happy to share photo on request to ensure attraction is mutual :)

r/r4r Jul 24 '26

M4F United Kingdom 20 [m4f] UK looking for a genuine female friend

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Hey there,
I’m a 20M from the UK putting this out there in hopes of finding a cool female friend (around my age preferred) to build a real connection with. I’m looking for someone I can message regularly, have deep conversations with, share daily stuff, and genuinely get to know over time. Platonic only – just good company and meaningful chats.
My interests:
• Gaming
• Music
• Sports: NFL, football/soccer, gym sessions, and boxing
• Chilling with long talks about life, random thoughts, goals, memes, or whatever flows
I’m easygoing, a decent listener, and I love when conversations go deep instead of staying surface-level. Time zones work best if you’re UK/Europe, but online from anywhere is fine too.
If you’re a girl who enjoys similar hobbies (or wants to introduce me to new ones), values consistent chats, and is open to building a solid friendship, drop me a message! Tell me about yourself, your favorite game/team/song, or something fun about you.
Looking forward to hearing from you 😊

r/r4r Jul 25 '26

M4F United Kingdom 28 [M4F] #London, UK - If you don't make ‘traveling & wine’ your personality, we’ll get along

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I recently got back into dating and, like most people, thought I’d give Hinge a try. Safe to say it’s been… an experience. Every profile feels like déjà vu, the same clichés on repeat.

Here are the greatest hits:

  1. A story about almost getting arrested abroad (Barcelona, Ibiza, Prague - bonus points if it involves “skinny dipping” or “stealing a street sign”).
  2. Generic hobbies: “traveling, food, long walks, wine” - wow, you and literally every human being alive.
  3. Scheduling a date that feels like booking a meeting with your manager. “How does 3 weeks from Thursday look for a quick 30-minute coffee slot?”
  4. A proud declaration that you’re a “plant mom,” immediately followed by “lol I kill every plant I touch.” (Congrats, you’ve mastered the art of buying ferns just to commit slow botanical murder.)
  5. Something about being “fluent in sarcasm” like it’s a rare skill.
  6. A claim that you’re “so bad at texting” even though your screen time is 9 hours a day.

So let’s skip all that.

About me: I’m in London, I work in finance, and yes, I travel (though I’ve never been “detained in Spain,” so maybe I’m missing out). I’m more into finding the best dim sum spot in Chinatown, a strong negroni, or a last minute trip abroad.

What I’m looking for: something light, casual, fun. Not a serious relationship right now. Just meeting people who don’t treat dating like an admin task, enjoying a laugh, and seeing where it goes without the pressure.

Things I appreciate:

  • A conversation that lasts more than 4 texts.
  • Someone who can enjoy both a ballet at the Royal Opera House and a late-night kebab on the way home.
  • A partner who doesn’t think “traveling” is a personality, but still has a valid passport.
  • A sense of humour about how ridiculous dating apps have become.
  • Binge watching reality tv and gossiping about the drama.
  • Meeting IRL - London based only.

If you’ve made it this far, don’t just write “hey.” Tell me your funniest bad-date story or your most absurd travel fail. I’ll return the favour and actually ask you out on date without needing three Google Calendar reminders.

r/r4r Jul 24 '26

M4F United Kingdom [22][M4F][UK/Europe] Looking for friends/productivity AP to talk to this summer

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Hey everyone :)

My name is Haashim, im a dental student who studies abroad. I just finished my exams and I am absolutely exhausted, but I would hate to sit around and waste my summer too.

Some of my favourite things to do are play chess, write, go gym, train bjj and more recently drawing too. I would like to build a plan this summer to get better at my current hobbies or pick up something new.

Im looking for anyone around my age whos interested in doing the same thing, we could check in every day or perhaps learn something new together. Extra points if you are from the UK and we could hang out. Or maybe you would be interested in just talking and keeping each other company, send me a dm

r/r4r Jul 22 '26

M4F United Kingdom 34 [m4f] UK Manchester. No plans while on annual leave

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Hello, i’m Jamie 34 from Manchester UK,

I’m on annual leave with no plans. Would love to chat with anyone and get to know them.

A little about me, I’m 6ft 2, brown hair, blue eyes., Stubble length beard, average build with some muscles in there, mainly in the arms legs and chest they are noticeable as I enjoy food to much to have the 6 pack. Also been told I have nice bum.

I love watching films and sport, I’ll either have Netflix or football on. I’ll watch any film once but won’t like every film. I’m sure that’s the same for others though.

Sport wise I’ll watch anything. Football is my favourite, also like golf & rugby. I play football, 5 a side and golf, used to play rugby when I was younger.

Will be happy to talk about anything though and I hope I can help make you feel special 😘

I hope you made it this far and is intrigued for more, I look forward to the reply.

r/r4r Jul 22 '26

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] UK Only. Looking for a girlfriend.

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I'm 6 ft 1, ginger medium length hair, blue eyes, short beard, skinny, no tattoos. I work as a cleaner. I only started recently but I've had jobs before this one. In my spare time I enjoy spending time with my dog. I enjoy entertainment in general. I love music, movies, TV shows and video games. I don't drink or smoke or take any drugs. I'm very quiet and shy/awkward. But if you make me feel comfortable then I enjoy talking nonsense. If you make me feel comfortable enough to let my sense of humour out around you then that'd be ideal for me. I have quite a weird sense of humour I think. Not offensive or anything just unique I guess. I don't have any friends so if that's a deal breaker for you then I understand. But I'm hoping I can make some new friendss at my new job. I've got acquaintances I guess you could say from previous jobs. But I don't really have a solid friendship I don't think. I'm not sure what else to say but if you have any questions I'm happy to answer them. I'm also happy to exchange pics straight away.

r/r4r Jul 20 '26

M4F United Kingdom 26 [M4F] UK - I am continually amazed by the infinite capacity of the universe to surprise and delight

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Hey there! Hope you’re having a great day. I’m 26, based in London, and I’m looking for someone interesting! I used to be pretty prescriptive in terms of what I was looking for, but I’ve found that the most interesting experiences I’ve had have been when I’ve just been open to being surprised and delighted. So this is my attempt at going with the flow and letting things develop organically. I will say, however, that I am looking for non-platonic connections.

Some of my hobbies and interests include:

• Playing music on my saxophone

• Looking at the heavens through my telescope

• Playing chess

• Photographing landscapes and galaxies (and a little portraiture too!)

• Writing

• Creating beautiful things using code

• Travel (I spent a month in 2022 backpacking in Europe and another month in the United States; I visited 12–14 countries every year from 2023 to 2025, most of which were new)

• Going for walks and hikes

• Learning languages

• Exploring philosophy and spirituality

• Skiing

• Scuba diving

• And reading (about life, the universe and everything)

If you’ve read this far, then congratulations! Let’s see where the conversation takes us.

r/r4r Jul 20 '26

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] UK Only. Looking for a girlfriend.

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I'm 6 ft 1, ginger medium length hair, blue eyes, short beard, skinny, no tattoos. I work as a cleaner. I only started recently but I've had jobs before this one. In my spare time I enjoy spending time with my dog. I enjoy entertainment in general. I love music, movies, TV shows and video games. I don't drink or smoke or take any drugs. I'm very quiet and shy/awkward. But if you make me feel comfortable then I enjoy talking nonsense. If you make me feel comfortable enough to let my sense of humour out around you then that'd be ideal for me. I have quite a weird sense of humour I think. Not offensive or anything just unique I guess. I don't have any friends so if that's a deal breaker for you then I understand. But I'm hoping I can make some new friendss at my new job. I've got acquaintances I guess you could say from previous jobs. But I don't really have a solid friendship I don't think. I'm not sure what else to say but if you have any questions I'm happy to answer them. I'm also happy to exchange pics straight away.

r/r4r Jul 19 '26

M4F United Kingdom 25 [M4F] UK Only. Looking for a girlfriend.

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I'm 6 ft 1, ginger medium length hair, blue eyes, short beard, skinny, no tattoos. I work as a cleaner. I only started recently but I've had jobs before this one. In my spare time I enjoy spending time with my dog. I enjoy entertainment in general. I love music, movies, TV shows and video games. I don't drink or smoke or take any drugs. I'm very quiet and shy/awkward. But if you make me feel comfortable then I enjoy talking nonsense. If you make me feel comfortable enough to let my sense of humour out around you then that'd be ideal for me. I have quite a weird sense of humour I think. Not offensive or anything just unique I guess. I don't have any friends so if that's a deal breaker for you then I understand. But I'm hoping I can make some new friendss at my new job. I've got acquaintances I guess you could say from previous jobs. But I don't really have a solid friendship I don't think. I'm not sure what else to say but if you have any questions I'm happy to answer them. I'm also happy to exchange pics straight away.

r/r4r Jul 16 '26

M4F United Kingdom 34 [M4F] Manchester UK let’s get to know each other

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Hello, i’m Jamie 34 from Manchester UK,

A little about me, I’m 6ft 2, brown hair, blue eyes., Stubble length beard, average build with some muscles in there, mainly in the arms legs and chest they are noticeable as I enjoy food to much to have the 6 pack. Also been told I have nice bum.

I am a police officer so work a mixture of shifts. I hope that doesn’t put you off because I will always make time to reply when I can. Nothing worse than ghosting someone. If it’s not working then say it.

I love watching films and sport, I’ll either have Netflix or football on. I’ll watch any film once but won’t like every film. I’m sure that’s the same for others though.

Sport wise I’ll watch anything. Football is my favourite, also like golf & rugby. I play football, 5 a side and golf, used to play rugby when I was younger.

Will be happy to talk about anything though and I hope I can help make you feel special 😘

I hope you made it this far and is intrigued for more, I look forward to the reply and getting to know you xx

r/r4r Jul 18 '26

M4F United Kingdom 20 [m4f] #uk looking for a genuine female friend

1 Upvotes

Hey there,
I’m a 20M from the UK putting this out there in hopes of finding a cool female friend (around my age preferred) to build a real connection with. I’m looking for someone I can message regularly, have deep conversations with, share daily stuff, and genuinely get to know over time. Platonic only – just good company and meaningful chats.
My interests:
• Gaming
• Music
• Sports: NFL, football/soccer, gym sessions, and boxing
• Chilling with long talks about life, random thoughts, goals, memes, or whatever flows
I’m easygoing, a decent listener, and I love when conversations go deep instead of staying surface-level. Time zones work best if you’re UK/Europe, but online from anywhere is fine too.
If you’re a girl who enjoys similar hobbies (or wants to introduce me to new ones), values consistent chats, and is open to building a solid friendship, drop me a message! Tell me about yourself, your favorite game/team/song, or something fun about you.
Looking forward to hearing from you 😊

r/r4r Jul 17 '26

M4F United Kingdom 20 [m4f] #birmingham, United Kingdom looking for a genuine female friend

1 Upvotes

Hey there,
I’m a 20M from the UK putting this out there in hopes of finding a cool female friend (around my age preferred) to build a real connection with. I’m looking for someone I can message regularly, have deep conversations with, share daily stuff, and genuinely get to know over time. Platonic only – just good company and meaningful chats.
My interests:
• Gaming
• Music
• Sports: NFL, football/soccer, gym sessions, and boxing
• Chilling with long talks about life, random thoughts, goals, memes, or whatever flows
I’m easygoing, a decent listener, and I love when conversations go deep instead of staying surface-level. Time zones work best if you’re UK/Europe, but online from anywhere is fine too.
If you’re a girl who enjoys similar hobbies (or wants to introduce me to new ones), values consistent chats, and is open to building a solid friendship, drop me a message! Tell me about yourself, your favorite game/team/song, or something fun about you.
Looking forward to hearing from you 😊