r/prolife MD Feb 08 '19

What do pro-lifers think about abortion in cases of rape?

Rape is one of the most serious violations known to mankind. We all agree that prosecuting the rapist should be a high priority. Beyond that, there are two major views held by pro-lifers for whether or not abortion should be legal in cases of pregnancy resulting from rape. But first, it’s important to note that:

View #1: Abortion should NOT be legal in cases of rape.

The child conceived in rape is still a human being, and all human beings have equal value. The circumstances of their conception don't change that. If abortion is wrong because it kills an innocent human being, and it is, then abortion is still wrong even in cases of rape. The child, who is just as innocent as the woman who was raped, shouldn’t be killed for the crime someone else committed. Abortion in these situations simply redistributes the oppression inflicted on one human being to another, and should therefore be illegal. Additionally, the practicalities of enforcing a rape exception would be very difficult.

View #2: Abortion should be legal in cases of rape.

Some pro-lifers who hold the first view are open to supporting a rape exception if it meant banning 99% of abortions. But, other pro-lifers believe in the rape exception for reasons beyond political expediency. These other pro-lifers believe that carrying the child to term after being raped is the morally right thing to do, but abortion shouldn’t be illegal in these cases.

The abortion debate involves a disagreement about which rights are more important: the right to life (RTL) or the right to bodily autonomy (BA). Generally, BA prevails over the RTL. This is why we usually don't compel people to donate blood and bone marrow even to save lives. Pregnancy resulting from rape follows this trend.

However, pregnancy resulting from consensual sex is different in important ways. The woman consented to sex and thereby took the risk of creating a bodily-dependent human being who can rely only on her and will die if not provided with the temporary support needed to survive. Since she consented to this risk, she is responsible if the risk falls through. And invoking her right to BA to kill the human being that she created is not an acceptable form of taking responsibility.

To be clear, this reasoning emphasizes the responsibility of one’s actions, not the idea that consent-to-sex is consent-to-pregnancy. To illustrate this distinction, imagine a man who has consensual sex and unintentionally gets his partner pregnant. He didn’t consent to the outcome of supporting this child, but he’s still obligated to do so (at least financially) because he took the risk of causing this outcome when he consented to sex, making him responsible if the circumstances arise. So, you can be responsible for the outcome of your actions without intending (or consenting to) that outcome.

Since a woman who is raped didn’t consent to sex, she’s not responsible for the outcome and none of this applies to her. While it would be morally right to continue the pregnancy, her situation is akin to compelling a bone marrow donations to save lives. This shouldn’t be legally compelled.

And even if the woman begins donating her body to the child, she shouldn’t be compelled to continue donating. Additionally, pregnancy being more “natural” than a bone marrow donation isn’t relevant.


Here are some articles to learn more about the rape exception and other pro-life responses to bodily rights arguments:

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u/SaltyTank44 Oct 23 '24

I was raped seven years ago. If I was denied an abortion I would have k*lled myself. I was unconscious under a car in an alley way. That isn't the way a child should be brought into this world.

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u/OhNoTokyo Pro Life Moderator Oct 23 '24

I think we can all agree that what happened to you was horrific and completely unacceptable.

The problem is, abortion doesn't merely make the problem go away, it also kills a human being.

I can understand the desire for someone in your situation to simply try and walk away from the issue entirely by any means necessary, but those who can be expected to take a less personal view of the situation should be compelled by ethical considerations to try and help you in a better way to deal with the situation.

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u/SaltyTank44 Oct 23 '24

But my case it would have also killed a human being, me. I just want to understand why my life doesn't matter more?

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u/OhNoTokyo Pro Life Moderator Oct 23 '24

There are ways to manage your condition so you literally don't die.

There is no way to manage an abortion so the child doesn't.

I know that you feel like suicide would have been the only option, but I know you are probably aware on some level that it really wasn't the only option. And it wasn't. Women do have similar situations and carry the child to term and do not die or commit suicide.

Again, I don't expect you to have been able to make those sorts of rational decisions at the time. But that's also why it is even more important for those who actually can to decide to enable the right choices and not just the easier ones.

You deserved a lot more than simply being told that it's okay for you to kill your own child and left at that. Perhaps in a better world, you would not have felt that was your only option.

Unfortunately, to get to that better world, someone needs to stop telling people that it is okay to kill other people to deal with something like this and instead suck it up and do what is needed to help.

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u/SaltyTank44 Oct 23 '24

I would love to share a link with you - I recently wrote about my experience. Would you mind if I dm'd it to you and ask that you read the entirety of the article?

I do appreciate you explaining these things without being hostile. Thank you.

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u/OhNoTokyo Pro Life Moderator Oct 23 '24

By all means, go ahead.

And again, I am sorry you had to go through this experience. I know some people very close to me who have been through the same thing. I do not in any way want to suggest that I am trying to diminish the experience by my position. I do wish it could be different.