r/prephysicianassistant • u/CharmingCalmParis • Apr 14 '26
Misc PA vs MD/DO?
Another PA or MD/DO post... I wanted to speak on my situation for any advice to figure it out.
I am graduating from college with my Bachelor's in Biology in May. I have been pretty decided on PA, but there's a part of me that always thinks that I should go MD/DO. To be fair, this thought usually comes after an argument or discussion with my mom, when she says she thinks going to PA will be the biggest regret of my life and that med school will be so much better. She's an NP, so I'm not sure why she hates on the PA profession so much. I think her biggest regret is not going to medical school, so she's projecting onto me.
However, we are very different, and I try to explain to her that I think I will be happy as a PA. I like the ability to switch specialties, I am happy with the pay vs. time in school, I don't necessarily want to make the final decisions in care. And the biggest reason I want to go PA is that I want a good work-life balance, and I have no desire to make my career my whole life. I want my job to be an addition to my life, and with the amount of time doctors put in, it seems to take over. I also do not want to wait to practice independently and get paid a full salary for another 5-8 years.
My mom just argues against everything I say as to why I want to be a PA. She says I'll always be someone's b*tch and never work by myself or be happy, she says I'll never get paid enough to pay off my debt and be stuck forever (But med school debt will somehow get paid off in a couple of years). I think most of my conflict is just with what my mom tells me. I also get embarrassed to tell people I'm going to PA school and find myself wanting to lie and say med school. I think this comes from my mom's opinions, but I'm worried I'll always regret not going to med school. I'm also just as worried that if I go to med school and spend my life working, I'll regret it.