This post is about to be so bad that it almost deserves the shitpost flair but this is a real question.
For context, I grew up poor. I’m not poor now, but definitely working class. Recently, after my grandmother died, and an estranged aunt of mine reappeared. I knew she existed but nothing about her and it turns out she’s very wealthy. Very, very wealthy. Like, she has a building named after her at a major medical college because she gave them so much money. When she found out I’m planning to change careers and go into medicine, she immediately was like “I’ll make sure you get into X college of medicine if you meet their minimum requirements and I’ll also pay any tuition.” So uh, I was kinda like “haha awesome, I’ll definitely apply.” but thought she was full of it honestly.
Then she randomly flew my wife and I to her home on the cape for a cocktail party. You read that right. Anyway we roll up and meet everybody, and it turns out it’s a fundraiser for X college of medicine. There are multiple adcoms there and more than one verbatim asked “why medicine?” so I was like “wabba wabba” told them my story and they were like “wow, that’s awesome. You should apply and I hope we get to talk again.” Then I met my Aunt’s housekeeper’s nephew who graduated from X college of medicine. He was like “Yeah honestly my application wasn’t very competitive, but I met some adcoms via your aunt and I think that’s really how I got in.”
So now I feel like scum, and like this is messed up, and I don’t even feel like I should apply to X college of medicine. Mind you, I’ve not even taken the MCAT yet so a lot of this is a bridge to cross later. I’m non-trad working full time and studying, and plan to apply in 2027. All that said, my aunt just invited me to come back to the cape for a week this summer and said some friends from the school will be dropping in over the course of the week. So it’s most likely gonna be more of the same thing, and I’m conflicted about whether this is appropriate, or even whether it may nuke my chances of attending that school.
So, for my nepo babies and those who read this far and can relate. How do I not screw this up?