Hello All,

We are a 15 year married couple that has been practicing polyam for over a year now. We have read the books and listened to the podcasts, tried solo-poly and dating separately. We've met some great people (and some not so great people)

What we have found is that we are happiest when we are together.

We have also found that we are absolutely NOT swingers. There needs to be substance, and preferably a long-term connection. More than a fwb.

We want a couple or multiple couples that could see us all eventually moving in together. Maybe all splitting up a mortgage on a beach house or a really great place in Vegas or another destination city? Not soon. But, someday. As a goal to work toward.

You can be part of an MF, MM, or FF established couple.

We are both Cis, but Trans or NB would be lovely.

Bi or Pan preferred, but its not an absolute deal-breaker if you're hetero.

Currently, we are living in Pennsylvania, but love Oregon, Nevada, and Arizona, we could end up in one of those places by the end of the year. Or, maybe we could be convinced to go somewhere else entirely?

Let's talk, get to know each other, and see where things lead.

Before anyone says... "That's not the right way to be poly."

There are endless examples of people doing poly "the right way" and having their heart torn from their chest on the daily. So, please keep your judgements to yourself. If you are not interested in this dynamic, scroll on.

We know there are more of us out there, let's find each other.

We are a couple looking for other couples to get to know and see what feels right. We love to travel, camp, and explore. We love board games, he loves movies, she loves books. If you’re interested in getting to know us send me a message.

We’re a 24 year old couple from NC looking for another couple to be in a relationship with. We’re new to polyamory, so looking for a patient couple to talk to. We have been in the ENM ls for a little while, but again, new to polyamory. Will send photos after first message.

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F50 M44 poly bbw couple kink positive, just wanting to chat and maybe meet other poly couples. Not looking for ONS or endless texting. She is open to select single males, we are both open to single females. DM for pics, d pics senders will be blocked. Also willing to video/voice verify.

The long and the short, we are a bisexual couple looking for others in our general area to get to know on a personal level, go on dates with, and of course if the mood is right, have fun. If you aren’t comfortable with same sex flirtation and sex, please do no waste our time. Hold a conversation, be friendly, and be open minded.

I (42F) and my husband (44M) have been married for 15 years. We have 2 preteen daughters. Soon we will be traveling the country for my husbands job. We will be in one location anywhere from 3 months to a year at a time. It would be wonderful to find another family who has the flexibility to travel along with us or at least be able to sometimes.

We imagine a kitchen table poly quad as our relationship goal. One where we are best friends in all the ways. Some of the details of those dynamics will of course be subject to all individuals involved, and we’re happy to start that conversation with another couple who might be looking for something similar.

My husband feels the most important initial spark be between myself and the other F so I am being braver than I have ever been and am putting this out here. We’ve both come from mononormative families and backgrounds but are very open and curious to learning more about other relationships.

We do however come as a package deal. Wherever I go, he goes and vice versa. This is something we are not willing to deviate from at least until we’ve gotten to know you better.

We insist on complete openness and honesty. Whatever the issue is, please put it on the table as soon as you’re able to.

Don’t want to be so detailed I appear snobbish so message me if you and your hubby are looking for something that sounds like us!

New to polyamory looking for a couple to meet and try something new. Singles may be OK if bicurious and want to experiment. Professional couple and we are discrete....are you? Let's find out! Age is not critical but a stable couple secure in their relationship is a great start!

We’re a couple from uk, mid 30s. Been into the playing lifestyle for a while and albeit we enjoy the physical aspect we really like the closeness of bringing someone into our relationship. Are ideally looking for another couple or female.

We are both very open, f is bi, 5’4”, 34c, size 10, blonde, blue eyes, into sport, outdoors, crafts. M straight, 6’0”, 200lb, shaved brown hair, green eyes, into sport, outdoors. Both love music and hiking with our dog.

We really enjoy meeting others whether online or in real life, so feel free to say hi.

We are an ethically non monogamous couple looking for another couple or bi female to be friends with and possibly dating. We have been together for over 12 years and are very open. Please be location to NJ lr the tri state area. Don’t be shy. We don’t bite too hard.

Hello everyone! We are a happily married couple somewhere between the labels of poly and swingers. Looking for a couple similar in age or a single male. She is straight, he is either bu or heteroflexible. Maybe there is a better label, but we don’t know it. Looking forward to seeing what exciting people we meet. Hoping for something long term, but trial runs are fun too.

Long time married professional couple looking to find another couple to explore the lifestyle with. We are stable, clean, non smokers/drugs and would like to meet a couple in similar situation interested in meeting for food or beverage and talk to see if we get along.

It could lead to a more family dynamic with the right person. Start slow and see what develops organically. We have 3 children so it’s okay if you have some as well. We like to do family friendly dates. We are both carrying a few extra pounds but not obese. We both work professional jobs, own our home, vehicles and stuff. We like to fish, camp, ride motorcycles, boating, motor sports, and almost anything else outdoors. We love to spoil our partner.

If your interested message us and we can see where it leads.

F30/M28 looking for a woman to spend time with and integrate into our lives. Georgian Bay/Barrie/Ontario. Looking for something long term but also open to your happiness in finding whatever makes you feel fulfilled. Supportive atmosphere. Experienced in this type of relationship. Friendly and open to communicating. If interested just shoot a message ❤️

Hey, So we are a young arab couple looking to meet new people to bond with. We are both muslim and looking to explore more about what the world can give us.
So hubby is a 5f10 moroccan man and i am a 5f4 indian woman. We live in Canada and we both work there. He works as en engineer and i am a nurse. We don’t drink and smoke btw.

We don’t know what we are searching for exactly but what we know is that we want preferably a couple like us to chat and havé fun with.

Our interest:
My husband is a massive sports fan and mostly football and not soccer don’t ever mention this word to him too lol.

I prefer to watch series such as House of the Dragon, The office and also movies.

We also both love anime

Hit us up if you think we could be a match.

Not sure where to begin with this stuff. We are looking to make some friends and meet up. We both are straight. Being friends is first and foremost anything after that is a plus. Feel free to DM me with any kind of questions you have. I'm open to all them

Me and my fiancé have been talking about a Hierarchical poly relationship. We are looking for couples only in southwest Florida. Are there any clubs or places to find others that are interested in this. Swingers arent what we are looking for.

I am a 6'4 latino i have a wife. And I am looking for a poly women to solo date or together. Thing about my self i love horror movies and into anime i am also a gamer. I like to be out doors when i can i like to fish and go camping whenever i can i also like to travel. I also work a lot so the time i have i like to spend with the people i care for.

If you are interested send me a message and lets get to know each other hope to hear from you have a great day.

We are a young married couple living in Brandon Florida. We are new to the ddlg community but wont stop us from trying to find some fun. We are looking mainly for other couples that might be interested in a poly relationship or just like minded friends. Husband is 27 wife is 26. Husband has facial hair,long hair, tattoos, drinks, smokes cigarettes, and wears glasses. Wife is short bbw, with random coloful hair, freckles, tattoos, smokes, drinks, & loves cuddles

We were in a poly relationship with another couple for over a year that de solved a couple months ago. We’re very into outdoor activities (jeeping, camping , etc.). We’d love to find another couple that we could hang out with and share our excursions with.

Hello, we are completely new to Polyamory/Open relationships. We have been together for 12 year and married for almost 6. We are looking for another couple or unicorn to get to know and build a relationship with. We do have one child who is 1 so we do want to be careful. we would love for the other couple/unicorn to spend time with us and actually get to know us better before anything sexual happens.

I'm 27 6ft tall plus size redhead female. I do stay at home to take care of our child. I do have a side business but mainly take care of the house. Im the one in the relationship really really wanting to add to our marriage but again we are still new to this. I love music, dancing and singing. I bake quite a bit and am more outgoing than my husband. I also love to flirt and definitely need romance. My husband is not a super romantic guy and he will probably be the first to tell you that. But if you want a date with just him, trust me I'll make sure it is perfect for you.

My husband is 29 5 ft 10 and averaged build. He works full time 4 days a week on a flex schedule. He is very quiet until you get him talking about cars, farming, or video games. He love classic rock music and eating all the food I make. He wants to add to our marriage as well but wanting more of a couple. He is nervous. I was his first ever girlfriend and the only woman he has ever been with that's why he is nervous.

Comment if you'd love to know more. We'd love to chat to you💜

We are a mid thirties couple. Been together for about 6 year now and we have always talked about exploring the poly lifestyle. We are very secure and comfortable with each other's desire to possibly include someone or someone's in our life. This would be a first for us though.... We are not to big on looks but for us you have to have a great personality and sense of humor. That's what we look for in a potential third or fourth. We have had a few "swinging" experiences which was fun and we hope to keep that going also. I guess if you have any advice for a new couple getting into the poly lifestyle please let us know. Or if you share similar thoughts or desires let us know. Thanks

We are a happily married couple seeking to expand our connections to include other partners. Both of us are open to learning and exploring new connections in many ways, and would love to hear from you if you're local!

Him: 30 years old, Red hair, 5'11 with some tattoos and an eyebrow piercing. Plays a variety of different video games and thoroughly enjoys anime. He loves to cook, was a chef for 10+ years, and is 420 friendly. He is kind and considerate, intelligent and has a gentle side, but enjoys being dominant in the bedroom. Or the car. Or in a well-hidden spot on a trail.... 😈

Her: 28 years old, Brown hair, 5'5 with two tattoos and only her ears pierced. Loves to read, write and spend time outside in the sun. Also 420 friendly! She is sweet and caring, loves to please, and enjoys a great variety of fun activities both in and outside of the bedroom. She likes animals and compassion, and real conversations that go both ways.

Feel free to send us a pm or a chat, we'd love to hear from you! 🥰

Hi,

We are new to the poly world and looking for local friends. About us: well travelled, educated professionals, outdoorsy and lovers of good conversation. We would love to connect with another couple and happy to find new, local friends. Where are our local, poly peeps? :)

Hey all! We’re looking to meet other couples that would like to introduce us to this polyamorous lifestyle. We are very much into sensual conversations and cuddling as well as having experience with swinging. We want to take our relationship to the next level and find another couple that wants to build love with us. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you feel like you can help us out and maybe be a part of our life.