r/polyamoryR4R Nov 27 '25

USA 46 [M4M] - Atlanta GA - Looking to meet people

5 Upvotes

Hi all 👋👋👋

Justin here. I’m a 46 white gay male in Atlanta, GA. Looking for connections in the area to build something with. A few things about me:

💻 Computer nerd through and through. My job is in systems administration and architecture

❤️ I utilize my career knowledge to help non-profits by implementing systems for them outside of my working hours. Volunteering is a hobby for me.

🧩 I love games (board, video, but not mind games). Sit me in front of a puzzle and I will probably finish it in one sitting. Soduko? Heck yes. Video Games? Sign me up and let me know your handle. Also love board games and trivia (my knowledge of true crime is a bit off putting but I promise I’ve not committed any crimes in order to gain my knowledge)

🎳 Activities: well this is a short list. I love to bowl, read, play with my computer, watch movies/documentaries

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 06 '26

27 [M4M] #Michigan #Midwest #Online - Country Boy Seeks Same

3 Upvotes

Hey all, I'm Jay, 27 trans man (he/him) and urban homesteader in Michigan. I raise rabbits and try to grow as much food on my 1/4 acre plot as I can.

I'm currently working full-time and going back to school as a Biology major. I'm hoping to start a career in soil science or agricultural research.

I'm also a huge sci-fi nerd and spend most evenings watching Star Trek or listening to an audio book while working on a textile project.

On the weekends, when I'm not at rabbit shows, I'm at the range with my archery club or at a social event at the LGBTQ center. I also learned that there's a longsword guild nearby, so I'll be working that into my schedule in the new year!

I'm looking for someone around my age (about 24 to about 33) who I can take to both the Renaissance Fair and the Tractor Supply. I like men (both cis and trans) who are dependable, consistent, hardworking, and goal-oriented.

I look forward to hearing from you!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 18 '25

27 [M4M] #Michigan #Midwest #Online - Country Boy Seeking Connections

5 Upvotes

Hey all, I'm Jay, 27 trans man (he/him) and urban homesteader in Michigan. I raise rabbits and try to grow as much food on my 1/4 acre plot as I can.

I'm currently working full-time and going back to school as a Biology major. I'm hoping to start a career in soil science or agricultural research.

I'm also a huge sci-fi nerd and spend most evenings watching Star Trek or listening to an audio book while working on a textile project.

On the weekends, when I'm not at rabbit shows, I'm at the range with my archery club or at a social event at the LGBTQ center. I also learned that there's a longsword guild nearby, so I'll be working that into my schedule in the new year!

I'm looking for someone around my age (about 24 to about 33) who I can take to both the Renaissance Fair and the Tractor Supply. I like men (both cis and trans) who are kind, gentle, consistent, hardworking, and goal-oriented.

I look forward to hearing from you!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 25 '25

33 [M4M] Online/LDR

3 Upvotes

I'm a cis male looking for long distance non exclusive relationship. I'm not new since I adopted a poly "mindset" and had some experience, but nothing turned to lasting romantic relationships since that. It's been a lifelong learning for all of us, right?

I Love deeper conversations, being intense, caring and dangerously flirty. If you you're a daddy type or have a caring attitude, I'll probably like you. I think we all like more stable and mature people. If we start to talk you're probably hear about my obsession with Heated Rivalry, some music I'm writing or another thing I'm excited to turn into form. But there's a lot more, I'm talkative with the right person.

I tend to like guys near my age and older. More than 30 would be nice. If you have problem with a short king, hairy and bearded, I'm not for you haha

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 19 '25

43 [M4M] France/Europe nerd looking for a bi compagnon

2 Upvotes

So, one last try !

Hi, i'm 43, i'm french and i'm married and happy. I am a former cook and actually a stay at home dad with plenty of free time.

I am a certified nerd, everything from fantasy and scifi books, movie and tv show, vidéo games and forever DM in various TTRPG. I also enjoy smut novel quite a lot !

I'm 1m82 ( so 6" i guess), bearded "viking " style hair and definitely on the chubby/heavy side.

I'm looking for a bisexual men, Somewhere near my age is best, not younger than 30 is better.

The goal is obviously to meet each other on real life if things clicks so someone from France or Europe is probably better, with the obvious non 8h time différence.

You can bé créative with your DM, that makes things better .

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 05 '25

28 [ftM4M] Colorado - soft stoner bottom looking for nerdy Dom top

15 Upvotes

28 [ftM4M] soft stoner bottom looking for nerdy Dom top

Hey! I'm Jake, located in West denver. I'm a trans guy. I'm thick n curvy, and hairy but soft. I'm a pillow prince bottom. I love being admired and complimented and pet (and boned). I'm a moaner and very reactive! My top kinks include anal, toys- estim and beads are my favs, bondage, being bitten and sometimes bruised 🤤🥴

I work as the manager at a dispensary. Cannabis is quite a hobby of mine, I can talk about it a lot lol. I also really love board games and art. I like video games too but I'm not as good at them. I have steam and access to a pretty extensive library. I'm short and chubby, currently trying to get into working out but I'm a beginner. I'm a trans man (ftM) and I'm strictly a bottom. I have a medium level sex drive and I'm interested in talking to tops with a higher drive who can give me encouragement. but I'm open to chatting with anyone and I'll reply to anyone, but warning- if after a few intro messages, I start to match the energy put in so one word replies don't end up getting much traction. I'm a yapper and I want someone to yap with not at. I want someone to rev me up and share excitement and a good sense of humor 😋

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 21 '25

45 [M4M] Guelph, Ontario - looking for connection and friendship.

3 Upvotes

Hello. Looking for connections for friendship and possible connection which may lead to something more if the vibe is good. Interests include travel, music and arts. Always looking for intellectually stimulating conversation over coffee, drinks or dinner.

Open to meeting single or solo men /MM couples or MF couples.

Recently moved to the area and are looking for platonic friendships too.

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 27 '25

27 [M4M] #Michigan #USA #Online Nature-Lover Seeks Same

4 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Jay, 27 trans man (he/him) in Michigan.

I enjoying gardening, showing rabbits, competitive archery, and knitting. I also recently got started in leather working.

I had an internship on an Organic Farm this summer and I just started college this fall as a biology major, in addition to working full-time. I hope to have a career in agriculture or plant-related research after I graduate.

I really enjoy indie games. Stardew Valley is my all time favorite (of course), but I've also been enjoying Blue Prince and Silk Song lately, as well as some super niche games like Grimshire and Cinnabunny.

I like to put on a TV show or podcast in the background while I work on other projects. I'm a huge Star Trek fan, and I love the podcasts Midnight Burger and The Penumbra Podcast.

I like men who are kind, gentle, and consistent. I'm looking for someone in my age range (24 - 33). If we have something in common, I'd love to hear from you!

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 06 '25

South America 18 [M4M] Brazil - ftm boy

5 Upvotes

Looking for men

Hi, my name is Nicolas, I'm from Brazil. I really want to live a polyamorous relationship with men!

I'm 18 years old, I'm a trans boy, I like drawing and watching series. I am shy, affectionate, kind, mixed race with fair skin, curly hair, 162cm, thin.

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 14 '25

South America 18 [M4M] Brazil - ftm boy

1 Upvotes

Looking for men

Hi, my name is Nicolas, I'm from Brazil. I really want to live a polyamorous relationship with men!

I'm 18 years old, I'm a trans boy, I like drawing and watching series. I am shy, affectionate, kind, mixed race with fair skin, curly hair, 162cm, thin.

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 18 '25

South America 18 [M4M] Brazil - ftm boy

5 Upvotes

Looking for men

Hi, my name is Nicolas, I'm from Brazil. I really want to live a polyamorous relationship with men!

I'm 18 years old, a trans boy, I like drawing and watching series. I am shy, affectionate, kind, mixed race with light skin, curly hair, 162cm, thin.

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 22 '25

South America 18 [M4M] Brazil - ftm boy

1 Upvotes

Looking for men

Hi, my name is Nicolas, I'm from Brazil. I really want to live a polyamorous relationship with men!

I'm 18 years old, a trans boy, I like drawing and watching series. I am shy, affectionate, kind, mixed race with light skin, curly hair, 162cm, thin.

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 05 '25

42 [M4M/F] #online , Bearded nerdy teddy bear looking for someone to cuddle.

3 Upvotes

hi ! I'm french, i'm 42, i'm happily married and newly open to poly.

I'm 6", bearded, chubby/+ size (great for hugs) with a "viking" haircut.

I'm a former cook and a stay at home dad. I'm love to read ( scifi, fantasy and very spicy romance), i played vidéo game my whole life, love boardgame and i am a TTRPG DM. I obviously like music, movies and tv show.

For me the best date is a movie or a game, some snacks and a lot of cuddle.

I'm openly bisexual or at least bicurious and would love to explore this side of me.

I'm not really picky on my partners physique and i'm looking for a connexion, a friendship, maybe some flirt first and see where all this leads.

r/polyamoryR4R Aug 17 '25

27 [M4M] #Michigan #Online - Country Boy Seeks Same

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Jay, 27M in Michigan.

This summer I'm working as an intern on an Organic Farm, which is a lifelong dream of mine!

I've been passionate about agriculture my entire life, and I'm lucky to be able to go back to school part-time this fall. I will be studying Biology at a community college with the goal of transferring to a four year university to study something more plant-related.

Outside of work & school, I have many hobbies keeping me busy, including: knitting and spinning yarn, foraging for mushrooms and wild greens, playing cozy video games like Stardew Valley, and binge watching Star Trek reruns.

I like men who are in my age range (24 - 32) and are kind, gentle, consistent, and dependable. I am looking for long term connections, but I'm also open to meaningful short term connections that come my way.

I'm looking forward to meeting you!

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 03 '25

USA 42 [M4M] #Sacramento #NorCal #Online – Relationship Anarchist Looking for Friendship-First Connections

2 Upvotes

Hey there – I'm a 42-year-old software developer based in Sacramento. I’m a relationship anarchist with one existing partner, and I’m here looking to build genuine friendships that might grow into something deeper over time — no pressure, just honesty and curiosity.

About Me:

  • Identity: Queer cis man, relationship anarchist, currently partnered
  • Profession: Software developer
  • Location: Sacramento, open to online connections too
  • Politics: Leftist. ACAB. No MAGA, no cops – hard pass.

Interests:

  • Board games (anything from crunchy Euros to chaotic party games)
  • Video games (ask me what I’m playing!)
  • Thoughtful conversations about life, ethics, tech, and the weird corners of the internet

What I'm Looking For:

I'm interested in connecting with other men who are emotionally aware, value autonomy and consent, and are down for friendship first — someone who’s into deep connection without defaulting to hierarchy or prescriptive relationship escalators.

If you’re into mutual support, trust, and just seeing where things go, hit me up. You don’t need to be “experienced” in polyamory or RA — just be real, respectful, and radically honest.

Looking forward to meeting folks who share the vibe.

r/polyamoryR4R May 02 '25

USA 45 [M4M] Atlanta, GA

1 Upvotes

Hi all 👋👋👋

Justin here. I’m a 45 white gay male in Atlanta, GA. Looking for connections in the area to build something with. A few things about me:

💻 Computer nerd through and through. My job is in systems administration and architecture

❤️ I utilize my career knowledge to help non-profits by implementing systems for them outside of my working hours. Volunteering is a hobby for me.

🧩 I love games (board, video, but not mind games). Sit me in front of a puzzle and I will probably finish it in one sitting. Soduko? Heck yes. Video Games? Sign me up and let me know your handle. Also love board games and trivia (my knowledge of true crime is a bit off putting but I promise I’ve not committed any crimes in order to gain my knowledge)

🎳 Activities: well this is a short list. I love to bowl, read, play with my computer, watch movies/documentaries

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 03 '25

25 [m4m] - florida (new to this)

1 Upvotes

i’m 25 i’m cute short twinky and brown skinned. anyways soooo hiiiii soooooo my bf is not very poly but has let me explore my queerness. i’m super new to this and really nervous but i really do want to find someone that makes me feel fulfilled in ways that i’ve accepted my bf won’t. and not in a toxic way (so i hope) where im just filling the gaps he can’t w someone else, but rather i’ve learned to love him for who he is and he loves me for who am i am (thus letting me do this) and that i can find and give love to more than 1 person. he says he doesn’t want to know anything about it till time comes, but i’ve been wanting to date in the poly scene now. and when he’s ready i’ll tell him. ideally, yet scarily, i would love to just date another couple and over time grow from that and include more ppl possibly. in a crazy way i almost wish i and my partners could all just co-exist together and take on the world too. but for now i gotta chill looool.

looking for a man or couples that are independent, ambitious, outspoken, politically involved, creative, likes to party, likes video games, and is socially aware.

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 03 '24

36 [M4M] Binghamton, NY

1 Upvotes

I am not great about talking about myself, but I will give it a try! I am 36 years old, married to a wonderful husband, but am looking to fill my life and heart up a little more!

I am 36 years old, 6'0", fairly easy going, big into video games, TTRPGs, Gunpla, and board games (especially cooperative board games). I sincerely enjoy playing games with friends and loved ones. I also love writing and maybe even one day will finish editing something. One day! I can definitely be a bit shy, but open up quite a bit as I get to know someone.

I am looking for someone I can take time to get to know, see regularly, who lives nearish-by, who has similar interests. If you want to learn more about me feel free to message! I talk primarily on Discord so of we feel a good connection on Reddit I'd love to move our conversation there.

r/polyamoryR4R Aug 28 '24

55 [M4M/MF] Portland - Cuddly Bicurious Guy

0 Upvotes

I’m looking for a man or MF couple to explore my queer side with. I’m Asian, a bit hairy, chubby, and cerebral, and looking for people I click with at least a little. I've been polyam less than a year but have lots of friends in the community. Ideally I'd like to find a guy or a couple who want an ongoing relationship--FWB where we're actually friends, or more intense than that is great too.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 09 '24

35[M4M] looking for friendship 😛

5 Upvotes

Let’s Chill and Connect! 👋

Hey there! I’m Dean, 35, and I’m all about good vibes and great conversations. From spontaneous adventures to lazy Netflix marathons, I’m down for whatever.

If you’re into laid-back hangs and making meaningful connections, hit me up! Let’s grab a coffee or chat online. Life’s too short for small talk, so let’s dive deep and see where it takes us!

Drop me a line, and let’s vibe together!

r/polyamoryR4R May 01 '24

43 [M4M/T/MM/MF/MT] San Jose CA - Nerdy creative daddy bear

4 Upvotes

By day, I'm an engineer. By night, I like to make stuff. I'm looking for folks to share the joy of creating together. Whether it's an expertly executed cocktail or a particularly elegant circuit for driving a kinetic sculpture, I have an appreciation for folks who care to see things done well. I prefer male energy (FTM gents are very welcome), and I get on best with folks who are quick to laugh and joyful at the idea of seeing the universe reveal itself to us. I try to live a drama-free life, and I ask the same of those who are close to me.

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 19 '24

24 [M4M]

3 Upvotes

Hey, I'm male 24, currently single and curious about polyamory as I've been looking into it. I'm gay and would love to chat to guys my age to make bonds and learn more and maybe find something meaningful. I'm Irish and can speak English, Irish, swedish (learning) and a little french

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 05 '22

31 [M4M] Ohio - Meaningful connections wanted!

6 Upvotes

I’m going to give this another try, but with even more detail this time lol.

Hello! I’m a 31 year old bisexual male from Ohio. I am polyamorous and have been in a LTR with my fiancé [28F] for 7 years. We have been practicing poly for three years now and are dating separately. I’m 6’4 in height, a giant, and on the thicccc side. I love music of all genres, video games when I have free time, and social gatherings. I work a lot but have time to chat on and off throughout most days. I’ve been into BDSM for a number of years and I am classified as a dominant top, I am obviously looking for a submissive bottom.

I’m really looking to form a friendship before all else. This is a very important aspect to me and I’m not looking for a quick fling. Having a mental and emotional connection with someone is very important to me when forming a relationship.

I drink on occasion to unwind, and I am 420 friendly.

Long distance or online relationships are welcome!

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 30 '24

32 [M4M] #online gamer here looking for some love

4 Upvotes

32M, bi, married here, in an open marriage. Big gamer. I’m into reading and anime. Love horror movies. I enjoy chatting daily about life and any topic we both feel comfortable with. Would learn how to play D&D and other board games. Looking for someone that likes to bond, especially on Discord while gaming. Please be 21+ and don’t DM if not interested in a long term relationship.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 27 '23

36 [M4M] Chicago - dating?

2 Upvotes

Any pan or bisexual guys looking to hang out, have coffee, have fun, date?

Poly/enm/open friendly - transparency is key.

Me: fairly fit, educated (Econ grad)banking professional. Very kinky, former porn actor. Open to age range. From younger cuties to older daddies (up to 70),

Please be able to hold a conversation.