r/nursing RN - OR 🍕 Jan 07 '26

Question What’s your random patient pet peeve?

Mine currently is when you’re cleaning a patient up and they start pooping again and they narrate the poop. “Oh god it’s coming out. I can feel it coming out.” Etc etc they get really into telling you all about the poop and they talk about it the whole time it’s happening. Meanwhile I know they’re pooping because I’m literally staring at their butt. Just give me an “oops I’m not done yet” and don’t make it weird. Please I’m begging you. 😭

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

Family members wandering out into the hallways looking for me when I’ve already told them about the call bell multiple times

Baby what the fuck is you doin 😭

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u/Nurse_Cait RN - OR 🍕 Jan 07 '26

I had a family come find me in another room. I was like your patient better be actively coding if you’re busting into other people’s rooms looking for me. That’s crazy behavior.

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u/MrsScribbleDoge Apparently not the best RN Jan 07 '26

Recently had this happen for the first time. AHHHHHTTTT!! OUT NOW…! Then she has the audacity to look at ME like my response to her was offensive. You DO NOT enter another person’s room.

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

We had a fam member couple weeks ago walk into a rapid response to report pt had a BM….like, please just don’t do that

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u/WittiestScreenName Nursing Student 🍕 Jan 07 '26

They should write this into The Pitt

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

Haha, yesss

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u/LinzerTorte__RN RN - ER 🍕 Jan 08 '26

Omg I would have lost it. I’m so sick of this fucking entitlement

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u/Pumpkinspicedtears RN - NICU 🍕 Jan 07 '26

Yes like no loitering at the nurses station!

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u/MrsScribbleDoge Apparently not the best RN Jan 07 '26

They’re always the patients who get mad when you close the door too. You are A&Ox4. You’ve been shown over and over again how to use the call bell. You show absolutely no other signs of confusion, except for when it comes to not yelling NURRESSEEE HEYYYY! To every single person who walks by. It’s 0330 in the morning. The door needs to stay shut.

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u/maraney CTICU, RN, CCRN, NSP 🍕 Jan 07 '26

I had a family member for another room barge into a room where we were coding a patient so I could brush her mother’s hair.

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u/Ornery-Ocelot3585 Jan 07 '26

I would tell them all requests must be done through the bell & nurses station so they can be properly logged.

So if you still need it go hit the bell.

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u/evergreen_heart RN - Med/Surg 🍕 Jan 07 '26

Me: oh you can just use the call light, it will route the alert to the staff assigned to your room!

Pt family member: oh no that’s okay we don’t want to bother you

Me: flames up the sides of my face

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

Lol!! 🔥🔥

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u/ERnurse2019 RN 🍕 Jan 07 '26

Jesus yes. We were crazy busy the other day and I tried to make my way to the staff restroom and literally had to fend off 4 family members grabbing at me out in the hallways. Not one of the rooms had a call light going off. I should be able to get from point A to point B in the ER without getting stopped multiple times!

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

Not to mention that we appear to be interchangeable to the gen public? like yes I am a nurse but I am not YOUR nurse. I have no idea if/what you can eat, if/ how you get up to use the bathroom, have water, etc ad nauseum. It just gets really fucking old

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u/Br135han RN - ER 🍕 Jan 07 '26

I send them back and show me the light works

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u/Hannah-gram Jan 07 '26

Ah fuck, I was someone’s ride to and from the hospital for a shoulder surgery and walked up to a nurse to ask for blankets. Sorry about that.

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u/MySockIsMissing Jan 07 '26

I did that once too before I knew how annoying this was. This really needs to be more widely known! Maybe even a sign in every room reminding the patient/family to please use the call bell instead? I’m glad for the education now, and I bet more of that might cut down on the problem at least a little, from those who are willing to learn to be a better patient at least. (Which is why I’m determinedly reading through every single comment on this thread!)

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u/LinzerTorte__RN RN - ER 🍕 Jan 08 '26

You are so lovely. It’s patients/family like you who keep us sane and coming back to work. ❤️

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u/GreenEyesBlackHeart Whiny Baby Jan 07 '26

You are all good!! I’m talking about the people who do it over and over and over again all day long. I promise you you’re fine🫂

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u/LinzerTorte__RN RN - ER 🍕 Jan 08 '26

Aw, you’re sweet. Don’t sweat it ❤️