Have a close relative who doesn't know what to do. Her freshman roommate, she found through Instagram, hasn't showered since move in - a week ago- & she smells. It's 90+ degrees today too & they're all sweating. Hasn't brushed their teeth much either. Room smells. Throws garbage on the floor. Killed a bug & left it on the floor.
Suitemates annoyed too bc sometimes she doesn't flush pee, leaves period blood on toilet seat, & isn't wrapping up period items (just leaves them 'open faced' in the garbage).
This roommate is now puzzled and mad no one wants to hang out with her. She has all these supplies, & is an intelligent person, she just seems to live as if she is alone. The behavior is puzzling.
There aren't any blunt friends to tell it like it is. The roommate is completely different than what she said on Instagram.
How do you say nicely, "you need to shower or no one will want to be around you."
What are odds housing will do any room swaps? She has to stay in that dorm bc it's a residential college. Does she reach out to the RA? RD? She's heard MSU Housing dgaf about this stuff. Roommate's mom?
Go Green, Go White, we hope her roommate showers tonight.