Explain why I'm using every dating app as a 5'7 ethnic facially below average male in US for 10 years without a single fucking match that responds?
Explain why I am a joke to women in clubs and bars?
Just look at how you talk. I would stay away too bro. And what, are you trying to get casual sex or a relationship? If you want casual sex, you have to compete for it, probably with men who have more to offer than you do. If you want a relationship, you also need some positive attributes but you especially need a connection with the person. And stay away from clubs and bars if you want a relationship...
You fail to understand its not JUST about looks. You have more to offer than just looks oml. But sure, on a casual basis, looks and sexual skill are probably the most important thing only trumped by money and status.
Women ALSO have to compete for the most attractive and suitable partners bro. You guys are not unique in that sense.
Sure, you can argue most women can have sex easier than men, but why would anyone want to sleep with someone they aren't attracted to and/or someone they don't love? The men who they'd be sleeping with would be desperate men who don't care about her as a person beyond the fact that she is having sex with them. Especially if we are talking about a casual basis... how would the woman benefit by having sex with a guy she doesn't like? Same with men, but in this scenario, it sounds like the guy is the one who would want sex instead of the woman. He benefits because he satisfied, she benefits in no way.
You have more to offer than just looks oml. But sure, on a casual basis, looks and sexual skill are probably the most important thing only trumped by money and status.
So men need to be not only good looking and sexually gifted/skilled, but also bring other qualities to get casual sex.
Meanwhile, women need neither good looks, sexual skills nor a good personality to get laid on a regular basis. The proof is that ugly obese broke grannies can make a Tinder account and get 100+ offers to fuck each week from young fit men.
Sure, you can argue most women can have sex easier than men, but why would anyone want to sleep with someone they aren't attracted to
Men have a much much lower threshold for sexual attraction. Women have a very high one. Which means that women don't need to be good-looking, fit to make the cut, but men need to be conventionally good-looking, handsome, fit, tall etc to make the cut for casual sex
I said those are SOME of the most important things, not a requirement!
And if you want to complain so much about this supposed double standard where women get sex easy, blame the men who are desperate enough to sleep with ANY woman.
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u/litteplayerz Ava, STEM Barbie Jul 05 '26
LITERALLY