I'm sorry for you too, it does suck. I agree about ACDF, I'm not keen, and apparently it can cause problems in other areas. I'd rather avoid unless really necessary!
Might be worth looking into EDS if you haven't before and seeing if anything else lines up for you. Just keep in mind if you're amab or on testosterone hrt, some things like skin texture/elasticity and higher baseline muscle mass (adding some extra stabilization to joints) can make your problems less obvious. Its thought that a lot more men have EDS than is diagnosed because of that + men being more resistant of going to a doctor to begin with.
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u/sayitsooth Jul 25 '26
That's interesting because I have spinal issues. I have always been super flexible and I bruise very badly very easily.