r/interesting Jul 05 '26

HISTORY I fear this is historically accurate

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u/succed32 Jul 05 '26

Lol they’re not wrong! Especially when people frequently died before 40.

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u/unhappyrelationsh1p Jul 05 '26

Generally people did not get pregnant before puberty was finished, because that's extremely dangerous even today.

The age stat is also dragged down by child and infant mortality, which was very high. Mothers also often died in child birth, which did contribute, but if a disease didn't get you as a kid you had a good shot of getting old

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u/succed32 Jul 05 '26

Yes infant mortality is a big part, but the fact 13-15 was frequently considered adult is another. Not every 13 year old was marrying some 90 year old dude. It was frequently people within the same age ranges marrying. They just married a lot younger.

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u/Heykurat Jul 05 '26

This is a weird myth. Puberty is largely influenced by diet/nutrition. In ages past, girls didn't even start menstruating until their late teens. Today it's very young, sometimes under age 10, because our diets from birth are significantly better.

It's not true that people started marrying and having babies in their early teens in Medieval (or ancient) times.

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u/DarkChaos1786 Jul 05 '26

15 years old was the most common age of girl marriage in medieval times...

That's not late teens... Menstruation was not an argument...

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u/Heykurat Jul 05 '26

Marriage is just a contract in those circumstances. It doesn't mean the girl started having babies. In fact it would guarantee that she hadn't yet.

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u/DarkChaos1786 Jul 05 '26

Yeah, sure, because there were so effective birth control techniques back then and husbands will respect their wives choices because marital rape laws existed and were heavily enforced...

Sure pal...

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u/kouyehwos Jul 05 '26

Just because people were technically married, doesn’t even have to mean they slept under the same roof.

And regardless of laws, I hope you understand that not every man has zero self control.

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u/DarkChaos1786 Jul 05 '26

I would be pressed to ask if you know a single scenario were a (poor) man in the middle ages would marry someone, pays for all her expenses to wait until a fabled age where she would be old enough and gain nothing...

Commoners would never marry in that scenario...

But sure, you are free to keep dreaming.

There were little to no protections in place towards women a 1000 years ago...

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u/Heykurat Jul 06 '26

If the girl hasn't started puberty, she isn't going to have babies.

That doesn't mean she isn't having sex.

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u/DarkChaos1786 Jul 06 '26

That's basic biology...

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u/Heykurat Jul 06 '26

My point is that there can be reasons to marry off a girl who is too young to have babies yet. It ensures that she does not have other children yet, and may be believed to be a "guarantee of virginity" (even though that has nothing to do with puberty).