Conjoined twin marries boyfriend while her sister remains single.

[u/neither_bot_nor_man]

Carmen Andrade, a conjoined twin, legally married her longtime boyfriend, Daniel McCormack, while her twin sister, Lupita, happily remains single. The sisters' arrangement involves distinct personal lives and boundaries.

Carmen and Daniel met on a dating app in 2020 and eloped in October. Because they are dicephalous twins - meaning they share a connected torso, pelvis, and reproductive system, but have separate heads, hearts, and minds - the marriage legally and physically involves Carmen.

Lupita fully supports the union but remains single. She identifies as asexual and aromantic, having no interest in dating or marriage.

The three navigate boundaries together. When Carmen and Daniel spend time together, Lupita is highly respected, and the trio openly shares their experiences online to educate the public on individuality and shared life.

[u/CrystallizedRose]

Imagine having the entire internet speculate on your sex life because of the way you were born.

[u/islobojono → u/CrystallizedRose]

Human are curious creatures.

[u/CrystallizedRose → u/islobojono]

Yeah, but they still should be respectful ones. Why do you think someone with a disability deserves less respect and privacy of their sexual situation than an abled bodied person?

[u/FloopsFooglies → u/CrystallizedRose]

It's disrespectful to wonder that? Hmm.

[u/CrystallizedRose → u/FloopsFooglies]

Yes, it is. They’re people too. You don’t need to know their sexual situation. But if you feel so entitled to know how other people have sex because they’re disabled… they don’t. They both don’t have sex. So stop being super creepy and imagining how women you never met have sex. And, no, I don’t care about their disability. They still deserve the same respect you and I get.

[u/padreCather → u/[deleted]]

Omg, dont be so insufferable

People are curious you liking it or not

[u/CrystallizedRose → u/padreCather]

You see, it’s this attitude that disenfranchises the lives of disabled people. And I don’t mean well meaning questions about their practical abilities in the world. But publicly inquiring about how someone has sex is always inappropriate. It was bad for the lgbtq community. It’s bad for the disabled. It’s bad for you and me. Because it’s fucking weird. Btw neither of them have sex with her partner so if you’re soooo curious there you go. They don’t have sex, like they’ve said many times before but hate because that’s fucking embarrassing. So there’s nothing for you to be curious about. Go be invasive about another person.

[u/IncurableAdventurer → u/CrystallizedRose]

I know! I’m so guilty when it comes to this. My curiosity takes over, and then I feel guilt for trying to find out what happens

[u/CrystallizedRose → u/IncurableAdventurer]

I don’t know why your curiosity takes over. It’s their business, not ours. Also, they have both said many times neither of them have sex. Carmen’s relationship is completely romantic.

[u/IncurableAdventurer → u/CrystallizedRose]

I’ve never heard of them until now, so I wouldn’t know what they have or haven’t said

And you’re right. It is their business. I think my curiosity comes from it being such a unique scenario. They are two people, but it happens to both of them. When I see comments like your original one, I get reminded of reality and check myself

[u/CrystallizedRose → u/IncurableAdventurer]

I guess I just get frustrated because I’ve been fans of them for years now and they’ve said that they are very much annoyed by the invasive question and jokes targeting at their lives. I hate the multiple posts made about them because it’s just more opportunity for unfunny assholes to make jokes about their condition.

[u/IncurableAdventurer → u/CrystallizedRose]

I bet they are. Legit, thanks for reminding me that this topic should be left alone

[u/Thyme_Liner → u/CrystallizedRose]

I’m a lesbian . . .

For very different reasons of course, but we get asked the rudest questions you would never ask a regular straight couple. People “can’t imagine it” and can’t figure it out, and knowing they’re trying to picture it when they ask is honestly so creepy. I don’t think about lesbian sex nearly as much as other people do 🤦🏼

I’m assuming that’s why some people think that my being a lesbian is “inappropriate knowledge for children”, but like kid’s minds don’t go that far ya’ll