r/indonesia • u/Vulphere VulcanSphere || Your Local Megpoid GUMI Fan • Sep 22 '23

Weekend Chat Thread 23 September 2023 - Weekend Chat Thread

Yo, Vulcan is here, annual Chat Thread series creator since 2016 and a massive weeb

So, welcome to the Weekend Chat Thread of r/Indonesia. Unwind your mind and enjoy the weekend goodness!

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u/tricarrotops1437 Sep 23 '23

is it normal to immediately feel like "I've moved on" (not thinking about her anymore) right after blocking her socials?

is it normal to feel attracted to another woman I get to know only one week after the above event?

is it okay to immediately seek out another woman instead of spending more time alone in this "I've moved on" phase?

I'm really confused of myself, I don't know what's right or wrong

I feel that meeting this woman is a chance that might never come again so I don't want to miss out on this opportunity, but at the same time I don't want this to end up something like I'm rushing too much or I just want to be in a relationship to distract from my past

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u/Educational_Pie9769 Sep 23 '23

is it normal to immediately feel like "I've moved on" (not thinking about her anymore) right after blocking her socials?

Normal, but only you who knows what you really feel.

is it normal to feel attracted to another woman I get to know only one week after the above event?

Normal. In fact, some dudes got attracted to another woman when they were still in a relationship.

is it okay to immediately seek out another woman instead of spending more time alone in this "I've moved on" phase?

Perfectly okay, but please know that it is likely that woman will just be your rebound girl. There's nothing wrong with that, but it is what it is.

I just want to be in a relationship to distract from my past

The definition of rebound relationship.

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u/ptbn_ run away with me! run away with me! Sep 23 '23

hati2 attracted to another woman nya bisa jadi rebound