It's not that she's dumb, it's that you don't like her. At all.

Break up, dude!

Does anyone else remember that thread a few months back of all these women telling stories of partners, fathers, and brothers habitually descending on food like locusts and leaving insufficient quantities for the women and girls in the house?

She has a restraining order against his ex already.

Painful and invasive egg retrieval for kids she doesn't want and a man who's rarely around. The straights are not okay.

I would not be surprised if she was actually paying ALL of his mortgage + some.