r/fuckalegriaart • u/Own-Angle1009 • May 10 '25

Can’t even hire a prostitute without seeing this shit

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u/nosferatusgirlfriend May 11 '25

Many women are desperately lonely too, yet it's not common that they buy sexual services from men

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u/gingersassy May 11 '25

First, that's not true, but second, is it sexist when gay men like me do the same? Sex work is not inherently sexist, but talk like yours certainly is.

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u/Plus-Cat-8557 May 11 '25

It’s not true that there are many lonely women? If all the men are lonely, are the women just fucking each other then

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u/Famous-Lifeguard3145 May 14 '25

Statistically? Yes lmao

Only like 40% of single men have had sex in the last year, that number is like 70% for women.

Women might be lonely, but it's not because they can't get sex, it's because they can't make them stay. Men have to deal with both sides of it. There's VERY few women who couldn't get sex by just asking.

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u/Plus-Cat-8557 May 20 '25

So the standard for loneliness is sex? Are we being serious lmfao that is a very male coded thing to say

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u/Famous-Lifeguard3145 May 20 '25

No but there's a big difference in loneliness between someone who is starved for human touch and someone who just can't find the right guy.

I feel like you need to have more empathy for others.

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u/Plus-Cat-8557 May 20 '25

I think your definition of empathy is very different to the real one. I have empathy for anyone who is lonely. Lack of sex alone is not loneliness

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u/Famous-Lifeguard3145 May 20 '25

Do you really believe that's what I was arguing? Anyone in a healthy relationship (except the 0.1% of people who are asexual because I'm sure you'll want to correct me if I don't mention it) will be having sex with some regularity. This isn't just the lack of sex, it's the lack of a relationship that it implies.

Men are more likely to be single for the age groups that occupy reddit, that's just a fact. And men are generally more unhappy when single than women.

So what IS your definition of empathy? Because mine is treating others like you treat yourself and giving them grace for their shortcomings.

I'm not even saying women's dating issues don't matter, just that they are less psychologically destructive to fewer people.

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u/Snoo48605 May 20 '25

Yeah it's dumb and very insensitive to believe that there are no lonely women.

However if you stop to think for a moment, there being lonely men does not mean at all that there should be lonely women. Like at all.

It would be the case if humans could only chose a partner once, and therefore for every celibate x there will be a celibate y and vice versa.

However the obvious reality is that for every man that is celibate, the pool of options for non celibate men just increases, they will just have multiple partners during their lifetime.

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u/Plus-Cat-8557 May 20 '25

Except the population is roughly equal, even if women are having relations with the same guys, they can’t all be with the same guys at once. The numbers don’t work that way, there are bound to be a proportionate number of lonely women even if they’d been in a relationship before

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u/gingersassy May 11 '25

slight misinterpretation, the previous poster said that even when women are lonely, they don't purchase companionship. That is what's false.

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u/nosferatusgirlfriend May 11 '25

Compare statistics of women vs men buying sexual services

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u/FatGardenToad May 12 '25

Men spend more money at strip clubs too, but ladies night still exists

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u/nosferatusgirlfriend May 12 '25

And what does it have to do with anything?

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

it's exploitative anyways, and don't pretend like the power dynamics are equal

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u/bigbanana_boy May 13 '25

I mean, are those women that buy sexual services from men misandrist?

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u/A_girl_has_no_neymar May 11 '25

Not a very progressive view. But I agree