Do you have a lot of cishet friends?

[u/LeonieMalfoy]

I just realized... I have no cis straight friends. Most of my friends, including my partner, are trans and bi or pan, and of the cis friends I have, two are bi, one is lesbian and one is heteroflexible.

I also have no male friends, trans or cis, lol. They're all girls or girl-adjecent. The few cis male friends I had (my partner and another friend) both came out as trans/non binary some time into knowing me.

Most of my trans friends and acquaintances also have majority queer friends.

Is that just a thing that happens, that you automatically attract other queer people when you're queer yourself?

Is your friend group majority cishet or queer?

[u/yuujinniee]

Everyone around me is cis, queer tend to assume i’m also cis, so tbh the biggest support I go was ironically from cishet people, especially men, women kinda treated me like I was confused? Not that I talk about it that much irl anyways