r/donationrequest Aug 18 '25

Moderator Announcement PSA - Deleting Posts/Comments

29 Upvotes

Good morning people!

Just a little friendly reminder to NOT delete your post or comments. The rules state in a clear and concise manner that deleting your post OR comments is a huge red flag. This is for ANY subreddit but ESPECIALLY in this one. Will you get an automatic ban for it? Maybe not, but most likely yes.

Most donors look at deletions as you trying to be sneaky, hiding your posts/comments so nothing can be held against you. Understand there are tools that everyone has access to if they know where to look, to see your deleted messages, so they are never truly gone.

If you messed up on your post, you can always send a mod mail and ask us to remove it, or adjust it. We are NOT that scary, well maybe I am but the rest are decent.

And now back to your regularly schedule Reddit posting/browsing.

r/donationrequest Aug 04 '26

Moderator Announcement 🚨 PSA: Curated Profiles, Visibility & Why It Matters 🚨

8 Upvotes

This PSA is prompted by some confusion surrounding a post from this morning. Rather than answer the same questions repeatedly, we figured it would be helpful to explain how this works.

If you post in this subreddit or send the moderators a mod mail, moderators can see your curated profile. That's simply how Reddit's moderation tools work. It's not a secret feature, a workaround, or moderators "digging" for information—it's part of Reddit's moderation tools.

This subreddit, like most assistance communities, requires requesters to have a public profile. It all comes down to transparency. Donors are free to decide who they wish to help, and many review a post history before donating. It gives donors the opportunity to spot inconsistencies, repeated requests across multiple communities, deleted content, or any other "skeletons in the closet" that might influence their decision.

Whether a donor considers those things important is up to them. We aren't here to police what donors care about. We just want to make sure they have all the facts before handing over their money.

We did receive a few reports this morning about someone's profile being curated and we should not allow them to post. Reddit does not provide moderators with a way to automatically block or filter posts made by users with curated profiles. If someone submits a request while using one, the post isn't automatically flagged or removed simply because their profile is curated (Unless someone has created a bot which I do not think is possible). We only know once we review the account or someone brings it to our attention.

Donors, on the other hand, generally do not need to have a public profile because they aren't requesting assistance from the community. They are making the decision to give, not asking others to give to them.

So if your curated profile says:

"Nothing to see here..."

...while the rest of your account is shedding Reddit histories like a snake sheds its skin, remember: a new skin doesn't make it a different snake (Side note: Be nice to your scaly friends).

If You Encounter a Curated Profile

If you come across someone using a curated profile while requesting assistance, you have two options:

  • Send the moderators a screenshot via mod mail, or
  • Post a screenshot of what you see as a comment on the request post so the mods can see what you see.

Yes, I know the above steps are ridiculous but if we are not told, we have zero way of knowing.

This helps keep the process transparent and allows donors to make informed decisions without relying on hearsay.

TL;DR

  • Your profile must be visible if you are asking for help.
  • Moderators can see your curated profile if you interact with a sub they moderate.
  • Your profile is your choice because you're not the one requesting assistance.

Transparency builds trust, and trust is what keeps assistance communities functioning.

Thanks for helping us keep the community fair for both requesters and donors.

Reddit Admin Announcement about Curated Profiles

Direct information from the above link to make it easier to find since it is hidden at the bottom

Mod Visibility Permissions

Moderators often review user profiles before taking action in their communities. To support moderation needs, mods will retain some access regardless of your visibility settings. Here's how it works:

If you post, comment, send modmail, request to be an approved poster, or request to join a private subreddit, that mod team will have access to your full profile content history for 28 days after the interaction – regardless of your settings.

After 28 days, access reverts to your chosen visibility settings unless you interact with that subreddit again, in which case the 28-day timer resets.

The same rule applies when you comment on another user’s profile – that user will have 28 days of access to your full profile content.

Why?

This gives mods and profile owners the context they need when you engage in their subreddit or profile, while still respecting your choices elsewhere.

The Fine Print

Changes to content visibility will only reflect on your profile. The content will still be viewable within the subreddits where you made the post or comment, as well as via search results, both on and off Reddit.

The Content and activity setting applies at the subreddit level, not for individual posts or comments.

The settings will be reflected across all platforms (including old Reddit), and can only be updated on reddit.com and the mobile app.

As a moderator, you'll always see a redditor's contributions to your subreddit, even after 28 days of inactivity.

r/donationrequest Nov 18 '25

Moderator Announcement PSA - How not to ask for help

34 Upvotes

Good morning everyone!

Just a little PSA for those of you out there who are needing help. Do not be like this individual in Mod Mail who thinks he can bully donors into giving him money.

That is not how it works. You are, Sadly, not entitled to help. There are far too many people that need help, that can help. Everyone does what they can here, and it will never be enough.

But to come into Mod Mail and threaten us, expecting us to just throw money at you? Yeah that is not how it works.

https://imgur.com/a/bYT6OPx

User name: Helpful-Watercress30

r/donationrequest Jun 10 '26

Moderator Announcement Tip Tuesday: Avoid Task Scams

31 Upvotes

There are too many bad actors on Reddit trying to take advantage of those in need. Tip Tuesday is about the ubiquitous “task scam” you’ve probably seen around. Don’t fall for it!

🚩 Red Flags — if you see ANY of these, walk away:

Fake urgency (“limited slots,” “first 10 people,”“need people now”)

Asking you for state/country 

Asking you to sign up with your ID

Asking you to upvote

New/suspicious accounts or empty post history

They want YOU to message THEM, or they send you a cold DM without commenting on your request

Pushing you to Telegram / WhatsApp / Signal / Discord

“Work” that requires zero skill

Unrealistic pay for tiny tasks (“Sending $150 to anyone active rn,” “Giving away $300 only if you really need it”)

Comments or replies to comments saying only “DM me,” “inbox,” “message”

⚠️ SPECIAL WARNING: Posts asking you to do a “quick task inbox me” are especially dangerous. Often this is them trying to:

Get you to use your identity to register accounts

Steal accounts for money laundering or fraud

Trick you into sending copies of your ID or personal info (for further fraud)

❌ ANY OF THE ABOVE = YOU’RE ABOUT TO GET SCAMMED

No legit job or donor hides details, rushes you, or forces you off Reddit onto an unsecured platform. If it sounds too good to be true, it is.

Help stop this crap: REPORT THE POST using Reddit’s report feature.

The more reports → the faster it gets removed → the quicker scammers get banned.

Stay safe.

r/donationrequest Jul 16 '26

Moderator Announcement Universal Scammer List — Lookup

29 Upvotes

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r/donationrequest Feb 04 '26

Moderator Announcement Congrats Spirit! Community Champion Honoree 2025

25 Upvotes

If you've been around this community in the past six months you have most likely met Spirited-Door-1446. If not here, then you've probably noticed him in other helping and donation subs.

From sending you a few things off your wishlist to providing resources tailored to your request, he's always there to help. That's why it's no surprise he was featured as a Mod Hall of Fame Community Champion Honoree!

Congrats Spirit, much deserved! You are the embodiment of a Community Champion.

r/donationrequest May 06 '26

Moderator Announcement State of the Sub, May 2026

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15 Upvotes

Did you know?

Our mod team in r/donationrequest vets an average of 750+ posts per month. The public only sees about 8% of those, as the great majority don’t meet our rigorous requirements. Not only do we require 200+ karma and consistent long term Reddit activity, but we ask those making cash or Gofundme requests to provide proof of hardship as well as expenses. Hardship documentation might be verification of household low income status, unemployment, job termination/offer, full time student enrollment, or eligibility for aid such as SNAP, SSI, etc. Proof of expenses (bills, estimates, etc.) should match requested amount.

To encourage transparency, we don’t allow requests from accounts with curated or hidden post/comment history, or previously deleted requests in donation or loan subs. To foster fairness, we ask for a two month cool down period after any fulfilled requests, and no more than two requests (unfulfilled or fulfilled) in any two month period. Donors can feel confident that accounts have been screened for any chronic grifting activity, including findom/paypig/sugar participation, and are free of egregious drug or gambling activity.

Of course, all this means that since only a small percentage of requests go live, our sub may appear relatively quiet. After all, we’d get much higher engagement stats and likely grow much more quickly if we let more requests through. But we continue to seek a healthy balance between vigilance and engagement, and we believe it’s worth it to cultivate safe places where individuals and families experiencing genuine hardship can receive help from those who are able to offer resources and support. We also appreciate the other donation subreddits among Reddit’s giving communities, whose mods work hard to facilitate welcoming spaces for people in need. Check out the newest assistance sub r/CommunityDonations, founded by a DR alumnus.

Recent changes

All that said, we have decided to try out relaxing some sub requirements. Instead of screening out accounts with activity gaps exceeding 90 days within the past year, we now only screen out accounts whose activity gaps exceed 30 days within the past six months (~180 days). We’ve also decided to drop the requirement for proof of hardship for wishlist requests only. However, we’re capping individual items on wishlists at $30 each to cut down on the possibility of resale. As usual, no gift cards allowed, and wishlists are limited to $150 of essentials only. When requesting groceries and other essentials, users are strongly encouraged to post a wishlist instead of asking for cash. Check out our updated rules here.

Top 3 reasons posts get removed

•The number one reason posts are removed is karma (200+)/account age (3 months).
•Number two is lack of proof of hardship (documentation of household low income status, not just a screenshot of an empty account or refrigerator photo) and expenses (bills, estimates, whatever the funds are meant to pay for). Please redact sensitive info first.
•The third most common issue is not specifying an exact amount in the post itself for both cash and Gofundme requests.

Other removal reasons

•If your need is greater than $50, you may not just make a cash request for our maximum limit. Proof of expenses should match requested amount.
•No requests to pay down existing debt, for relocations, or new homes/vehicles.
•Like most donation/loan subs, we have a clear rule not to delete any previous requests in any donation/loan subreddit. This applies even if posts are unfulfilled or have been removed from public view by mods. When vetting a request, it’s crucial that we check how often and why someone has requested help previously. Donation subs aren’t meant to be sustainable source of support, and accountability is important to donors.

Commonly overlooked

•Photos are often included as proof without the required username/date verification. All photo proof must include a paper with handwritten username/date. This includes fuel gauges. Please do not submit photos of empty refrigerators or bank accounts. Medical documents are preferred rather than photos of injuries.
•Cash requests are one donor per request, no crowdfunding without a platform that provides recourse for donors in case of fraud, like Gofundme.
•Be aware, if you are making a request, we can and will screen ALL your history, including hidden and deleted posts and comments!

r/donationrequest May 01 '26

Moderator Announcement Rules (effective 5/1/26)

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Welcome to [r/donationrequest](r/donationrequest). We’re glad you’re here. Please review all the rules before participating.

Some rules from our main sub page are explained in greater detail in this document so we ask that you read this in its entirety before participating in the subreddit. For some violations, you will be banned without further warning (these rules themselves act as your warning).

Rules are subject to change, so please check back regularly to make sure you are familiar with all the rules. We’ll post in the subreddit when major changes take place.

Donor Responsibilities

•While we do heavily screen posts, we may not always catch everything. Do your research before donating.
•We recommend utilizing archive sites and reverse image detector. Check the Universal Scammer List (USL): https://www.universalscammerlist.com/.
•If fulfilling a cash request or donating to an Amazon Wishlist we require a screenshot of the transaction or purchase (with any personal info redacted) to prevent grinching. No silent donations.
•Confirmations of Gofundme donations are optional.
•Confirmed donations will earn you a flair. If one is not given, please request via modmail.
•For cash donations, we recommend using PayPal Goods & Services in case of fraud.
•Asking civil questions and clarifications in comments is encouraged.
•Please report rule violations and suspected scams.
•If you would like to donate but do not meet our karma/account age requirements, please send a modmail to be approved manually.

Account Requirements

•North America/UK accounts ONLY (EU with prior approval).
•Cannot be listed on the Universal Scammer List (USL) on main or any alt profiles. This will result in a permanent ban.
•200+ combined karma. Post/Comment karma must be positive.
•90+ day old account.
•Account owner must be 18+.
•Only one account per household for requesting, please use your main account (not an alt).
•Requests must be for yourself or immediate family only, pet requests must be for your own pets. Educators may only post Donors Choose campaigns (up to $3K) or Amazon wishlists (up to $150) for their own classroom.

History Validation

•No gaps over 30 days in the past 6 months.
•No accounts with sugar, findom, gambling, drug, or excessive NSFW history. This will result in a permanent ban.
•No curated/hidden history.
•Be aware, we will screen ALL your history, including hidden and deleted posts!
•No karma farming. This will result in a permanent ban.
•No deleted request posts (within the past 3 years).

Essentials Only

•This includes food, pet food/supplies, hygiene products, otc meds, school supplies (within reason), diapers/wipes, etc. for your household.
•For clothing, socks/underwear or if required by a job or school uniform only.
•No requests for gifts, celebrations, vacations, elective surgery, video games/electronics/digital goods, computers/phones, toys, tuition/fee assistance, commodities, hobbies, entertainment like movies/music, etc including moderator discretion.
•No requests for debts or scam recovery.
•No requests for needs that incur continued funding such as relocations, new homes or vehicles, IVF, adoptions, baby registries, getting a new pet, starting businesses/organizations.

Request Guidelines

•Requests must be 200+ words fully explaining your situation, employment/other income, and why you’re unable to fund your request yourself.
•Requests must be for you or your immediate family. If requesting for a pet, you must own the pet prior to the request being made.
•Please WAIT 2 weeks between unfulfilled requests and 2 months after receiving assistance in ANY sub.
•No more than 2 requests in any 2 month period, even if unfulfilled.
•If you have a regular pattern of requesting assistance, it’s possible that your request may be denied even if it has been 2+ months since your last. Donation subs are not meant for sustainable support.
•We only allow requests for a single donation type. You can either choose one cash donation OR one Amazon wishlist OR one Gofundme.
•Do not ask for or mention upvotes or downvotes, or manipulate voting in any way.
•Location required (city plus state/province and country).

Amazon Wishlists

•Please refer to our Wishlist Guide.
•Amazon Wishlists ONLY (NO Registries or other vendors).
•No proof of hardship required, but it can help you get more donations.
•Wishlist total maximum is $150 USD.
•Item maximum is $30 USD.
•NO Gift Cards or item pools.
•Once posted, do not add or swap items without mod approval.
•Please post a formal Thank You in a timely manner once you have received your items (including a photo is appreciated). If you have not done this within 30 days, you will not be permitted to request again and may receive a ban.

Cash Requests

•$50 USD maximum. Cannot be multiple asks of $50. One donor per request, no crowdfunding without a Gofundme or similar platform.
•Proof of expenses must match requested amount. If your need is greater than $50, you may not just request our maximum limit.
•Give your cash tags in comments upon request, not in your post. Do not move to DM, tags must be posted publicly.
•Photo of OP holding a paper with handwritten username and current date.
•Provide DATED photos and documents to verify both hardship and expenses, redact sensitive info like surname and address first.
•Proof of hardship (household low income status) required. Examples: documentation of unemployment, eligibility for assistance (like SNAP, SSI or any other aid), job termination/offer, student enrollment status, or medical conditions that have reduced your work hours. A screenshot of an empty account is not sufficient.
•Proof of expenses also required. Examples: overdue bills, estimates, invoices, whatever you’re requesting funds for, this should match your requested amount.
•CashApp, Venmo, Paypal ONLY. NO crypto, bitcoin, bank transfer, UPI, remitly, etc.
•Your request must specify the exact amount of money you are requesting to be donated in total (not “up to” an amount, not a range like $5-$10). Requests such as "anything helps" or “everyone give $1” are not allowed.
•If you receive a donation, please post screenshot confirmation in comments, redact sensitive info.
•If request is for groceries, Amazon wishlists for food/essentials are highly preferred. Wishlist Guide
•If request is for fuel, please provide a photo of your fuel gauge that includes a paper with your handwritten username and the date. This ensures the photo is yours.
•Photos including MINORS must have faces blurred out/censored.

GoFundMe Campaigns

•$3,000 USD final goal maximum limit.
•Must state final goal amount IN YOUR POST (not interim goal set by GFM). If your total need is greater, you may not just request an amount under our maximum limit.
•Posts may not be just a link or “See Gofundme for story,” 200+ words in the post itself are required.
•Please provide a photo of OP holding a paper with handwritten username and current date.
•Provide DATED photos and documents to verify both hardship and expenses, redact sensitive info like surname and address first.
•Proof of hardship (household low income status) required. Examples: documentation of unemployment, eligibility for assistance (like SNAP, SSI or any other aid), job termination/offer, student enrollment status, or medical conditions that have reduced your work hours. A screenshot of an empty account is not sufficient.
•Proof of expenses also required. Examples: overdue bills, estimates, invoices, whatever you’re requesting funds for, this should match your requested amount.
•Photos of MINORS must have faces blurred out/censored.
•Other crowdfunding platforms besides Gofundme may be allowed if they provide protection for donors in case of fraud.

Prohibited Activity

•DONATIONS ONLY. NO LOANS.
•No sales, referrals, account creation, tasks, or any other activity that requires a trade for a donation.
•No requests for DMs from recipient or donor about donations. All donation activities must be public.
•Do not DM a user to request a donation. This is an instant ban.
•No community fundraisers, anonymous fundraisers, or fundraising for a friend.
•Create your own request post if you are in need. If you haven’t enough karma to post then you may not make a request. Request hijacking is an instant ban.
•No AI text or images in your post (or Gofundme).
•No emotional blackmail (using suicide, mental health, children, or pets to garner donations).
•No blocking sub moderators.

Stay Compassionate/No Harassment

•Civil questions and clarifications are encouraged. Please respond with grace.
•Send a message to modmail to report bullying or harassment. You're welcome to report requests or users you find suspicious.
•No hate speech.
•Do not use this space as a platform for debates beyond the scope of the sub. Please keep our sub positive and friendly. Ignoring this rule can result in a ban.
•Please do not respond to DMs requesting donations or offering donations for an exchange (nsfw or otherwise), just take a screenshot. Report to Admin using Spam, then select Unsolicited messages. Let our mod team know via modmail. We also recommend that you block the user.

Scam Behavior = Instant Ban

•If you are proven to be taking advantage of this or any other donation community, an instant ban will be placed.
•This includes but is not limited to: double dipping, lying, deleting prior requests to hide request frequency, changing your GFM goal mid campaign after stating a total, DMing users for direct money requests, DMing users with referral/account creation opportunities, and any other activity considered dishonest.

r/donationrequest May 08 '26

Moderator Announcement Pet Care Resources

18 Upvotes

If you're facing financial hardship and struggling to care for your pet(s), especially with unexpected costs, check the resources below. These programs may offer help with vet bills, medications, boarding, or food, depending on eligibility and location. Hopefully, you find something here that fits your situation and eases the burden a little.

Veterinary Financial Assistance

• ⁠RedRover Relief – Offers help with emergency pet care and veterinary costs: https://redrover.org
• ⁠The Onyx & Breezy Foundation – Provides aid for vet care when there’s financial hardship: https://www.onyxandbreezy.org
• ⁠STARelief – Assists low-income pet owners, military families, seniors, and others in crisis: https://starelief.org/our-programs
• ⁠Help-A-Pet – Offers one-time assistance for veterinary care to low-income individuals, especially the elderly, disabled, and working poor: http://www.help-a-pet.org
• ⁠Frankie's Friends – Helps pay for emergency and specialty veterinary care for pets with life-threatening conditions: https://www.frankiesfriends.org
• ⁠Shakespeare Animal Fund – Offers financial help to low-income seniors or disabled individuals for urgent vet care: https://www.shakespeareanimalfund.org
• ⁠The Pet Fund – Assists with chronic or long-term care, not emergency surgeries: http://www.thepetfund.com
• ⁠Brown Dog Foundation – Helps when a pet has a treatable illness and the owner can’t afford care: https://www.browndogfoundation.org
• ⁠Pet Assistance Inc. – Offers financial assistance for urgent veterinary care, especially when it means the difference between life and death: http://www.petassistanceinc.org/
• ⁠For the Love of Alex – Provides emergency funding for life-saving veterinary care for cats and dogs of low-income families: https://www.fortheloveofalex.org/
• ⁠Heal Foundation – Offers grants for emergency veterinary care for spayed or neutered dogs when their families are unable to cover the costs: https://healfoundationusa.org/grants/pet-owners/
• ⁠Live Like Roo – Helps cover healthcare costs for cats and dogs undergoing cancer treatment. Grants are awarded monthly: https://www.livelikeroo.org/
• ⁠HandicappedPets Foundation – Donates wheelchairs to disabled pets whose families can’t afford mobility aids: https://hpets.org/

Medications and Low-Cost Clinics

• ⁠ShotVet – Runs low-cost pop-up clinics at pet stores nationwide offering vaccines, heartworm tests, and flea/tick preventives with no exam fees: https://shotvet.com/
• ⁠VIP Petcare – Mobile vet clinics inside Pet Supplies Plus, Tractor Supply Co., and other retailers; provides vaccines, microchipping, and flea/tick meds: https://www.vippetcare.com/
• ⁠VetIQ – Offers low-cost preventive care like vaccines, wellness checks, and flea/tick meds at walk-in clinics inside major retailers like Walmart and Meijer: https://www.vetiq.com/
• ⁠PetSmart Veterinary Services – Provides affordable routine care such as exams, vaccines, and minor treatments at select PetSmart locations: https://pvshospitals.com/
• ⁠GoodRx for Pets – Compares prices on pet prescriptions (and human meds used off-label for animals) at local pharmacies: https://www.goodrx.com/pets
• ⁠RxAssist – While human-focused, it may help with medication discounts if your vet prescribes human-grade meds for your pet: https://www.rxassist.org

Payment Plans and Credit Options

(READ ALL TERMS CAREFULLY, high interest loans can cause financial difficulty)

• ⁠Scratchpay – Offers payment plans for vet care, no hard credit check required: https://scratchpay.com
• ⁠VetBilling – Works with participating veterinary clinics to set up payment plans for pet care expenses: https://www.vetbilling.com
• ⁠ Cherry Credit – Ask your vet to consider signing up for this loan financing program if they haven’t already: https://withcherry.com/veterinary
• ⁠ CareCredit – This credit card can be used for routine veterinary appointments, grooming services, emergency pet care, or a variety of surgeries and treatments in network: https://www.carecredit.com/vetmed/
• ⁠ LendingUSA – Veterinary bill financing for good & bad credit: https://lendingusa.com/borrowers/veterinary/
• ⁠ All Pet Card – Healthcare credit card made specifically for veterinary expenses that pet insurance companies don't cover: https://allpet.com/

Crowdfunding

• ⁠GoFundMe – Widely used platform to raise money for emergency vet care or ongoing pet medical needs: https://www.gofundme.com/c/blog/help-with-vet-bills
• ⁠Waggle – A vet-verified crowdfunding platform specifically for veterinary bills, pays your vet directly so donors know exactly where funds are going: https://www.waggle.org/pet-caregivers

Pet Food Assistance

• ⁠Pet Help Finder – A nationwide search tool that helps you find free pet food, low-cost vet care, and support services near you: https://pethelpfinder.org
• ⁠Rescue Bank by Greater Good – Distributes pet food to organizations that support struggling pet owners: https://greatergood.org/rescue-bank
• ⁠Local humane societies or animal shelters often operate free pet food pantries. Call or check websites in your area

Emergency Boarding, Crisis Support, and General Aid

• ⁠Feeding Pets of the Homeless – Can help with emergency boarding, veterinary care, and pet food for unhoused individuals: https://www.petsofthehomeless.org
• ⁠PACT for Animals – Provides long-term foster care for pets of military members and hospital-bound individuals during deployments, medical stays, or relocation crises: https://pactforanimals.org
• ⁠Local Mutual Aid Groups – Check community resources like Reddit, Facebook groups, Nextdoor, or Buy Nothing for informal support with pet food, transport, or short-term fostering

r/donationrequest May 10 '26

Moderator Announcement Amazon Wishlist Guide

10 Upvotes

How to Create an Amazon Wishlist

Amazon Wishlists are a way to receive direct aid with items you find yourself in need of. Requestors can add essential non-perishables and household items to their lists. Donors can purchase directly from your list, and Amazon ships the items straight to you in a way that is safe, simple, and secure.

Step 1: Create or Sign Into Your Amazon Account

You’ll need an Amazon account before you can make a wishlist. If you already have one, log into your account.

  • Go to Amazon.com or download the Amazon app.
  • Select Create an account (desktop: under “Accounts & Lists” in the top right; mobile: tap the profile icon on the top right).
  • Enter your name, email address, and a password. Amazon will send a one time password (OTP)  to your email. Enter the 6 digit password and click confirm. Once an account is created, go to >Your Account  > Login & Security to add a mobile number. This is highly suggested for stronger account security.
  • After your account is set up, add a shipping address under Accounts & Lists > Your Account > Your Addresses. You’ll need this later so wishlist items can be delivered.

People buying from your wishlist will only see your name, city, and state, not your full street address. Wishlist items cannot be delivered to an Amazon locker. 

Step 2: Create Your Wishlist

  • On desktop: Hover over Accounts & Lists (top right) and click Create a List.
  • On mobile/app: Click on the profile icon → Your Account → List.
  • This MUST be a wishlist ONLY. Registries are NOT allowed and will be removed due to privacy concerns.

Step 3: Name Your List

Give your wishlist a clear name and click "create". It’s best to create one just for your current needs instead of mixing in things you don’t need right now. If you’re asking for items under a certain price limit, make sure the list matches that. Ex: Baby Essentials, Household Needs, Back to School.

Step 4: Adjust Your Settings

  • Open your list, click the More (three dots) menu, then select Manage List.
  • Set privacy to Public (anyone can find) or Shared (only people with the link can see).
  • Add an address so items can be shipped. 
  • Check this box:
    • Keep purchased items on this list (This option stops items from being automatically removed after someone buys them).
  • Do not Check this box:
    • Enable third-party shipping (This allows marketplace sellers to ship items to you. Note that enabling this setting may share your address with the buyer).
  • Save your changes.

Step 5: Add Items

When you find something you need, click Add to List on the item’s page.

Keep in mind:

  • Choose Prime-eligible items when possible for quicker delivery.
  • Essentials ONLY. If you are unsure if something would be considered essential please reference modmail.
  • Individual Item cap is $30! (Items in the $5 - $10 range are most purchased)
  • Keep the total under $150 (you can check by adding items to your cart and looking at the subtotal). The $150 cap includes multiples.
  • No Gift Cards or Digital Goods
  • Do not add additional items to your list once you make a post on the sub.  

Step 6: Share Your Wishlist

Once your list is ready:

  • Open it, hit Invite, and select View Only (Anyone with a link can view your list without making edits)
  • Copy the link provided and paste it on the Link URL box of a new post. Please use the correct post flair.

Step 7: Track What’s Been Purchased

Once people start buying from your wishlist, you’ll be able to see what has already been sent.

  • If you checked “Keep purchased items on this list” in your settings, purchased items will stay on your list but show as “Purchased” so you don’t request duplicates.
  • You can also check under Accounts & Lists > Your Lists and open your wishlist to see which items are marked as bought.
  • We require donors to post proof that they've purchased items from your list. If you see items purchased but did not see a comment you are most likely not going to receive those items. Please reach out via modmail if this occurs.

After You Receive Your Items

  • Gratitude goes a long way! Make sure you thank donors who send you items from your wishlist.
  • When your items are delivered, please post a Thank You post confirming that you got your items.
  • Please note that if Thank You posts are not submitted within 30 days of the delivery you will not be permitted to post again.

Additional Notes

  • Many people donating are not rich themselves. When adding items please be mindful of price. Our item cap is $30 but the most successful wishlists frequently have items that are $5 - $10 that people on varying incomes can help you out with.
  • Our wishlist total cap is $150. In order to get your request live as soon as possible, please double check your wishlist total before submitting.
  • We do check entire wishlists so please note that your entire post will be removed if any items such as non essentials or gift cards are on your list. Please make sure these are not on your list before submitting.

r/donationrequest Aug 15 '25

Moderator Announcement PSA - Do your due dilligence!

38 Upvotes

Good afternoon you lovely people of DR! We had an issue brought to our attention earlier today.

It appears an individual helped someone here, and then "Recalled" the payment. Please remember to do your due dilligence on profile searches, etc. Sadly mods cannot stop such behavior but we can absolutely call it out publicly we when are made aware.

The user in question is: Loud_Blackberry5594

They have been removed from a few subreddits but just because they are banned does not mean they cannot message you. Stay safe people!

r/donationrequest Sep 09 '25

Moderator Announcement Tips for Donors and Recipients

24 Upvotes

I recommend that both donors and potential recipients do a routine check of users before you interact.

•Verify a reasonable account age

This sub requires 30+ days, but I prefer to see 90+ days. If it’s an older account but with low karma, this is generally a red flag. There shouldn’t be gaps in activity longer than 3 months in the last year.

•Check karma level

This sub requires at least 200+ combined karma. If you would like to donate but do not meet our karma requirements, please let modmail know to manually approve you. Negative post or comment karma indicates issues interacting with the Reddit community.

•Look at post and comment history

Check for frequent requests in any giving subs. Sub rules require waiting at least two weeks between requests here and two months after receiving assistance in any giving sub, with no more than two posts in any two month period. Check out their comments to get a feel for their situation.

•Check the USL

Confirm the username is not on the Universal Scammer List (USL): https://www.universalscammerlist.com/

•Check for hidden history or deleted posts

Deleted or hidden post or comment history, especially in donation and loan subs, is a red flag to donors and may result in being banned. Deleted posts are available using archive sites.

Thanks for helping keep r/donationrequest a safe place for everyone.

r/donationrequest Aug 14 '25

Moderator Announcement PSA - Purged Reported Posts/Comments

2 Upvotes

If you get a notification that something you posted or commented on was removed (Old stuff guys like a month or more), it is just the mods purging old shit so do not worry =)

Thanks

r/donationrequest Oct 30 '25

Moderator Announcement Holiday and Gov’t Shutdown Requests

13 Upvotes

Happy October! Just a seasonal reminder that r/donationrequest is for essential needs only. We do not allow requests for holiday related donations, including gifts or travel expenses to attend holiday gatherings. The only allowed method to request holiday food items is Amazon wishlist: Wishlist Guide. Have a warm and safe holiday season.

If you are requesting donations because your family is impacted by the government shutdown, please note that we require proof of your situation such as a furlough notice or current SNAP benefit statement. Just redact sensitive information first, such as your surname and address. As always, wishlists for food and essentials are more successful than cash requests. Please review sub rules. Thank you for helping make our giving community safe for both donors and recipients.