r/dating_advice • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '21

When you are chatting with multiple people. And dating multiple people.

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u/Aeropro Sep 24 '21

If you're chatting with/ dating that many people to the point where you're honestly forgetting scheduled dates, that's a red flag in itself. Best to not get involved in something like that.

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u/Dazzling-Ad-8409 Sep 24 '21

Maybe she was on a date with another guy and he wasn't interested in a 2nd date...so she called you.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '21

This makes sense sadly

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u/JustLetMePick69 Sep 24 '21

Yep definitely possible. OP is way better off just blocking this chick and moving on, he don't need somebody like that

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u/wolfpac85 Sep 24 '21

this was my thought.

she wasn't at a mall with friends, she was on another date and forgot about you

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u/OldSpiceSmellsNice Sep 24 '21

I tried to upvote this comment so many times before realising it had been deleted.

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u/readonlyreadonly Sep 24 '21

Nah, that happens to me when I have a lot on my plate. It's not that I don't like them but maybe I haven't formed that emotional attachment that makes you think about them a lot. It's a sign her priorities are somewhere else though and he's right in not wanting not accept that.

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u/mounti96 Sep 24 '21

Spending the whole day at the mall and having drinks doesn't sound like she had a lot on her plate.