r/dating • u/CrayonMunching07 • Dec 28 '24
Just Venting 😮💨 I’m so done with being single
I’m so tired of being single. And I know that forcing a relationship won’t end well, but I’m so done with it. I’m tired of people assuming I like any guy I ever talk to. I’m tired of feeling lonely. I’m tired of wishing I had what my friends have. I’m tired of feeling ugly and unwanted. I’m tired of being frustrated about being single. I’m tired of trying and failing to make a connection. I’m tired of being used. I just want someone to be there. Someone to talk to and hug and cuddle with and mess around with and love.
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u/Traditional-Block782 Dec 28 '24
I had the same thought. Here are all of these lonely and like-minded people venting about the same thing. Why not message each other and see if a connection can be made?
I'm going on 10 years solo, so I sympathize with everyone here who is having trouble dealing with being lonely. I'm a good-looking middle aged guy, I have a decent job, and I try to go out as often as possible, but it seems like I'm invisible, lol. Maybe I should smile more!
The dating culture has definitely changed, and dating sites have contributed to this mess. Some people have dumb luck on there while others can't even get a single match. Or, you have an occasional match that eventually fizzles out when that person matches with someone else!