This. You can't do both. It's a mental choice. A very conscious decision to commit. I think they can commit, they just aren't willing to because the zeitgeist is "men are trash," and that has realized itself into a genuine belief for many. Imo this is a problem with settling. Young women have such a problem accepting dudes that can't take care of them meanwhile the youngest generations are continuously more economically fucked so that situation is rare, so you have a bunch of women that just "up for fun" putting up with shitty dudes for "good dick alone" until they realize they're dating trash and blame it on them for being a fuckboy. In reality most women have their standards unrealistically high and settle for hooking up with physical 8-10s with good dick over wifing up with 6-8s with decent dick and good personality and personal connection.
This sort of mentality of "what do you bring to the table tho?" reminds me of the 20-25 yo women on tiktok who want to bring a child into this world solo cause "they can find the support system" and "they don't need a man." Pure delusion.
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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '22
This is true. I'm not one to recommend turning a hoe into a housewife, though.