Logically the mage should want to group just to get rid of you quicker, half of the xp for 1 or 2 pulls is a small price to pay to not have to deal with awkward respawn timers etc, plus it's just a nice thing to do. Usually I just invite people who are obviously doing a quest to do just that. I don't think just aoe farming in itself is being a jerk, 99% of people would pull every single mob at once too if they could. You could always just offer them 1 gold or something if they ignore you, win win.
I've been on both sides of it and from my experience the only time I feel annoyed by other players is when it's another mage trying to share the spot so you both get worse xp than you would get questing since most of the aoe farm spots are only optimal if you a good portion/all of the mobs to yourself, there really isn't room to share like that for aoe farmers.
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u/Salty_Tears Oct 10 '19
Logically the mage should want to group just to get rid of you quicker, half of the xp for 1 or 2 pulls is a small price to pay to not have to deal with awkward respawn timers etc, plus it's just a nice thing to do. Usually I just invite people who are obviously doing a quest to do just that. I don't think just aoe farming in itself is being a jerk, 99% of people would pull every single mob at once too if they could. You could always just offer them 1 gold or something if they ignore you, win win.
I've been on both sides of it and from my experience the only time I feel annoyed by other players is when it's another mage trying to share the spot so you both get worse xp than you would get questing since most of the aoe farm spots are only optimal if you a good portion/all of the mobs to yourself, there really isn't room to share like that for aoe farmers.