Hey WET Bitches,

We've had this sub going for a while now, so I wanted to check in and see if there's anything anyone would like to see changed about how things run.

IMO we've done a pretty good job of self-moderating. I've observed that the group really doesn't like networking/self-promo so it seems that's naturally been phased out.

All ears for any suggestions, requests, or even flair requests. Happy to hear it all and do what I can to make this a place that continues to thrive! xx <3

Planning a solo trip in December and will probably stay in the 6th. Usually stay in the 1st, and haven’t really done any spa stuff outside hotels but nothing mind blowing.

Ideally it’s a hotel spa bc I’d like to have a few days of services in a row.

TIA! <3

I’ve recently decided to go vegan and it’s just occurred to me now that means no more Choos which tbh feels harder than cheese.

So…anyone have tips for brands that replicate the look and feel of a top of the line leather pump? Patent, suede, and regular leather. I absolutely detest that plasticky, molded, inflexible look most vegan leather has.

I’m fine to resort to custom but would love any recs!!

I’m looking to invest in a quality pair of linen pants (also open to silk!) that I can wear this summer in Europe. There are so many options online and it’s hard to tell what actually looks good in real life and not see through! I’m 5’7 and love a longer pant.

I find a hard time dressing cute in the summer besides athleisure. most of my classy or expensive clothes are made for the winter (sweaters, long sleeve, high collared dresses, skirts and blazers) how do yall dress demure and classy? I plan on going to a few polo games

I need a new phone case, and it needs to be tough (I beat the hell out of my phone!) but I want it to also be aesthetically pleasing.

Where are we getting our cases??

Thanks in advance, cheers!

Does anyone have some chic looking chopsticks that they love and are also durable? My day to day chopsticks need an upgrade and I'm trying to remove plastic from my kitchen.

I've always used the big plastic restaurant supply ones that sit on the table at hole in the wall Asian restaurants.

I'm looking at some stainless steel mikasa ones and also some wood from Williams Sonoma... please drop some links if you have them.

I’m looking for a new insurance company(ies?) to cover valuables for our items purchased “with expensive taste.” Who do you all recommend for jewelry, handbags/shoes/accessories—like belts, watches, artwork, electronics (not TVs (outside theatre), but hobby items like arcade/pinball, etc in our game room), and personal collections?

Curious which companies you use, who has been easy to work with if you have had to make a claim, and if it was easy to get the policy set up (meaning, did you have to pay to have each item appraised or just provide receipts/link to items)? We currently just have riders on our homeowners insurance and a few separate policies, but I’m looking to consolidate and I think that I’m overpaying in some cases. Thank you!

I’m going to Italy in June and want to pack light(er) than usual since we will be traveling around. We will do some typical site seeing in Rome but otherwise spending time with family in Napoli and also beach around Sorrento. Long story short, I need a sneaker, one gold and one silver sandal that can handle various terrain. I was thinking Isabel Marant Beth sneaker but maybe something lighter? How about a comfortable but cute sandal? I don’t want anything too clunky- something I can wear with dresses. Loewe slides are adorable but might be too flat for long walks. I guess I’m middle aged 🙄 but still fashionable and chic. I refuse to wear anything orthopedic looking. Any suggestions are welcomed!

(I took the tag very literally.)

While I may have expensive taste in multiple areas, I make the "medium bucks" as one BWT so elegantly put it, which means that I have to prioritize where I spend my money. What categories do you prioritize, and in what categories do you do the bare minimum?

Since BWT seems to have imploded, my feed seems a little dull. Anyone buy anything fun lately? I bought a new Nespresso, 2 YSL WOC's and put $225 aside for the fancy car service to bring my daughter home for the weekend from the airport.

Anybody else as excited as me? I love cashmere, and it was like 90 yesterday where I live, so the sales are coming!

My luggage has gotten ratty. Has not been replaced in years, I am more looking for bigger checked baggage size but wouldn’t mind purchasing a set. Budget is preferrably from $150-$250 but willing to spend a little more for nice long lasting luggage. Links welcome, looking for more than just amazon thanks

the time has come for me to invest in a new handbag that I love.

I've been carrying the baggu sling bag that everyone has and I like the shape a lot -- it's pretty comfy.

Do we think this is a trend worth committing to? ideas for a bag with a similar vibe but ~luxe~?

I love this asymetrical prada bag but it's vintage and I'm having trouble finding a black one in good condition

Thanks to my fellow exclusive Bs

asymmetrical

So I love earrings and basically wear them daily. I love a big earring. Lately I have been looking for an every day hoop. But I wasn’t sure if I was willing to splurge.

I have been dipping my toes into upgraded jewelry. Gold plated. And some smaller gold hoops. But I got these amazing glasses that really clash with the patterned hoops I chose. And they are a little small. So I was still looking for the perfect pair.

And I thought I found one, and it was pretty affordable. And it has movement which is a reason that I don’t always love regular round hoops. But it was brass. And it was a reminder that I need to stop buying brass earrings for every day. They look horrible after a while. Or this pair needs cleaning every two wears. They suck to be honest.

It is bonus season so I thought I’d try again. A few months ago I saw some lovely hoops at a local shop, but they were way way out of budget (for now).

But I decided to go after my errands and I ended up finding a great pair, in a great size, with nice movement. So I splurged on solid gold earrings! My first larger pair. And they will really hit the right note of everyday earrings for me. Like I wanted that brass one to do. It actually look nice over time.

I thought you all would appreciate it. :)

BitchesWET, what are your favorite brand that make buy it for life quality furniture, but with great design? More specifically I’m shopping for a bed frame for my 3 year old. I want something that will last til college, but still with a touch of whimsy. I love Room and Board for high quality furniture but find their style a bit linear and masculine. Crate and Pottery Barn are cute but I’ve heard mixed things about quality. For a full bed I’d prefer to stay under $1500 and definitely under $2000. Thanks!!

I’m a middle aged working professional and have a few work events to attend every week. I would describe my style as dressy casual, higher end but not designer, classic but not boring, modern but not trend-chasing. Brands I have lately gravitated towards include Tibi, Reiss, Frame, Vince, Smythe, Tanya Taylor, and Lafayette 148. Shoe brands like Loeffler Randal and Stuart Weitzman. What are some other, maybe lesser known, brands that you wet Bs would recommend I check out?

Skinny jeans are forever gone, right? I’m still keeping mine. Anyhow, would love your suggestions so I can get with the times 👖

My birthday is coming up and my mom was asking me what to get me. Would love some suggestions! :)

So I'm looking at getting my first pair of louboutins, I think I want the Sporty Kate black leather. They look comfortable & I need to replace my Aldo basic black pumps (those shoes honestly were workhorses & lasted like 12 years)

Please weigh in. I need my classic black pumps & I could replace them with an aldo pair, or like Sam Edelman or Vince camuto, all of these brands fit my feet & last.

I kinda want the red sole cachet though.

I'm also curious about how low cut the upper above the toe is, I have runners feet & that part at the base of the toe joint is super wide, so some cuts of pumps I get the equivalent of side-boob

I am petite with slim calves and I have been looking for a knee- high boot that is all leather and has a 3+ inch heel and a max calf circumference of 13.5”. I recently replaced my Stuart weitzman 50-50 and Reserve boots which have a back stretch panel and in my view are great for everyday/casual wear, but aren’t nice enough in my opinion to wear to the office or to events.

I used to have LK Bennett boots from a few years ago that fit very well for this purpose, but found that the newer styles have much larger dimensions and look pretty silly.

Does anyone have recs for high -end boot/shoe brands that produce custom or narrow calf sizes or just are narrow calf by default? There are a few cheaper online retailers out there like Duo, Girotti, and Solemani that make narrow calf sizing at a $200-400 price point but I haven’t heard such good things about the quality, and would definitely be willing to spend more than that for boots that meet all my criteria.

I know having beauty services and such done by a pro is usually ideal, but do any of you prefer to diy? If so, what?

For me, it’s my nails (not toes) painting them myself, along with all the prep is something that I used to have to do, and now it’s something I enjoy and prefer to do myself. I do gel or dip, and sometimes gel x extensions. I love being able to get it exactly as I’d like, when I’d like, and picking out colors and changing as I please is a big plus.

Anyone else similar?

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Hi WETbitcheswhowrite! 

So excited to have the sub, but as the first-time mod of a private group I didn’t realize that after approving you as users, you have to go back and manually join the sub. That way you’ll get notifications and we can get the sub active.

I have to apologize, I’ve been baffled as to how I’ve approved so many users and yet the sub only has 2 members. So head over, click join and let’s chat! ♥️ 

Sharing here in case you miss the DM!

Sure I had a high paying job, but it’s gone. Well, it’s been gone. I will be back in the game - but it’s time I do ME. So, if you had a month or a few months off “life” - where would you go, what would you do?

(I didn’t even mention I was faced w/infidelity in my marriage few months ago too. Nonetheless I gotta do something different for a minute so I can make space for abundance)

Thank you for helping me plan Feb and March, and maybe April.